Ok, let’s face it; we want both, but too often it seems like we get one or the other . There was a time in my life when the answer would have been size (with little hesitation). But the older I get, the more I appreciate skill. I prefer to date men who are older and subsequently more refined and generous lovers. I look back on some of the well hung men who have fucked me and it’s like they think that having a big cock is more important than knowing how to use it. Sure, I love to fuck, but I’m really into being treated like a lady, not just a whore. Sometimes a guy with a big cock is like a monkey with a club lol. So, average lover with great cock? Or great lover with average cock?

 

Sad much as I love a big cock inside me, you can't beat skill.

 

Skill.. no question.... now if you get both awesome!!!

 

Big cock and great cock are not synonymous.

Vastly prefer an average cock to a large one, skill or not.

 

Skill will beat size every time.

 

I don't even need to think about it, skill. Even when equally skilled, I think I prefer an average sized penis to a big one. I find the smaller ones more versatile and well suited to my size and stature (and gag reflex).

 

Wooow is me , no size and no skill, will my tongue do?

 

It's so difficult to find a man with skills that I'll vote for size, because I've lost my belief such a thing as a man who's actually a fantastic lover exists.

If he has an OK size, in the worst case scenario you tie his hands to the bed, sit on top and fuck him. Take him out of the equation and make it something strickly between you and his cock.

For me, though, a little above average is fine. I don't want to fuck huge cocks.

 

Wow it is like you exactly want to fuck my dick

 

When I was younger I was all about size and quantity now I want someone that isn't just going to put it in till they cum, what about my wants and needs? If I do want just size fuck why do I need a guy I have dildos that do the job and I don't have worry about them lasting two minutes.
Luckily now I have my wife that will use a strap-on or dildo on me if I ask and sometimes tells me to go get fucked because she knows I like cock but I love her and sex is not love, I always save my best for her.

 

Skill is obviously important if you want, as you should do, to give you partner pleasure and satisfaction but size can come into the equation, if /when 'used properly'.
Despite the much vaunted 'elasticity of the vagina' women can vary in size, as do cocks, so along with skill she can want 'a good fit' - a 'pencil in a bucket', or a beer can in a walnut is going to prove unsatisfactory. The skill, in either case, comes in in knowing which is which, from the partner's reactions, and adjusting actions and positions accordingly. With care and understanding (skill) there are no combinations of cock/vagina that should not, eventually, prove pleasurable and satisfactory.
There is therefore no one or the other answer to this question.

 

There's a big one with no skills that I keep in my night stand. It's called a dildo (although I refer to "him" as Big Blue)
Big Blue never finishes before I do.
Big Blue knows how to hit all the right places and at the right time.
Big Blue is never tired after a long day at work.
Big Blue never complains if I've put on a few pounds.
Big Blue never finishes on my face or chest and then expect me to get up and clean it off.
Big Blue never calls me a slut or whore while he's deep inside me.
Big Blue has a couple of friends that live in the drawer with him but he never expects me to feed them or entertain them while wearing a skimpy outfit.
Big Blue doesn't compare my cooking to his mother's cooking.

That being said, give me an average guy with an average sized penis who knows how to use what he's got.
Big Blue will always be there if I need him.

 

Size or skill? What about thickness? Doesn't thickness count for anything anymore? If he can fuck and move like Elvis and he's got 8" or so but his pricks pencil thin how's that? And let's just say he's also signing softly in your ear, baby let me be your little teddy bear? That doesn't really matter. It's the long thin pencil prick and the guy that's moving and grinding it into you like Elvis moving to jail house rock? Thickness ladies, it's the thickness! Because I'm a lousy fuck with a 4" prick and all I got going for me is the thickness. So at least let me feel good about something?

 

I prefer size.
If it's long term, they can be taught.
If it's a fling? They can just stfu, lay back, let me climb on, & I'LL work it how I want.

 

I think only guys with little dicks and no skills worry about if they are good enough or big enough.when I'm done I'm sure that that shes had enough because i don't finish until she's done first

 

Skill !! If they can keep the wave in time with the ocean the water will flow.

 

you are naughty girl. do u have gmail or skype?

 

Question? What are the skills women look for? Where can I learn more about these skills so I can drive a woman nuts.

 

Different women like different things. The best thing you can do is to ask what she wants and when she tells you, do it. Don't do it for a little while and go back to what you were doing before.

It never hurts to go slower. More kissing, catessing, foreplay.

If you want a blowjob, tell her. Do not, DO NOT, put your hand on her head and shove her down. Most women enjoy giving their man oral at their own pace. Let her know you want it and she'll get down there when she's good and ready.

It's not all about the orgasm. We can make ourselves climax. It's about everything else AND an orgasm. Don't forget the "everything else."

Some women can have multiple orgasms but for most it's rare. Don't treat sex as an Olympic event.

Don't try to boost your self esteem by being a stud. Then it's about you, not her.

 

lotta chicks don't care about either...