I just started to go out with this girl who is the same age but she has more experience with this kinda stuff. I'm not really nervous I know that I'll probably last like 15 secs my first time, but I'm kind of nervous about something. She doesn't want to use a condom, or rather that we don't and shouldn't need one (because she's on birth control). We are both STD free, and I just don't wanna be a dad yet or to be put in that situation. Any Advice? also any tips to last a little longer?

 

Better safe then sorry. Use a condom.

 

I trust my girlfriend when she says she's on birth control.

Then again, I live with her, and have been with her for over three years. And she's smart enough to let me know when there is any sort of irregularity in her pill-taking pattern.

Also, I know a guy who has two kids now and has been going through a terrible divorce for quite a long time, all because he trusted a girl who said she was on birth control.

Basically, use a rubber.

 

The men know what they're talking about. Nothing is foolproof, so double up if you feel strongly about it.

I wonder tho, how you know that you're both STD-free. Have you been tested? Because even virgins can carry STDs.

 

1 use a condom
2 use a condom
3 use a condom
or 4, pull out and cum on her face

 

let her give you a blowjob first and cum. If you really want to last a long time inside her, get two of them. rest a while eating her, then go for it.

 

Yea if i were you i'd use a condom unless you were absolutely 100% sure she takes her pills. Even then i would still use the pull-out method. I know i know the pull out method isn't very effective but if you combine that with pills i think you should be ok. Plus you dont wanna be the underdog that won, that is have the 99% effectiveness of a condom and the 99% effectiveness of birthcontrl to fail on you on the same day.

But what am i talkin about, i dont use a condom right now and my partner isn't on birth control. I don't cum inside or use the pull-out method. I'll stop fucking her at the first sign of an orgasm, usualy i'll pull out and it'll take her like another 2min to go down on me and get me off.

 

Use a condom. The pill isn't 100% effective, trust me, I have living proof. :wink:

 

Yes. Listen to Rain! My hubby and I have been having sex together since I was 15 (now 40) and we have never used a condom. I went on the pill just before we met. We were both virgins and have had no STD's or unwanted pregnancies. Having said that however....my sister lost her virginity at the age of 15 also AND got pregnant as well! She got pregnant with her second child whilst on the pill as well. My point is.. wear a condom 'cause you just never know!

 

One tip to make it easier for her (and you too). Have her on her hands and knees and you kneel behind her. This position should be a little easier on her than missionary first time. If I ever (not likely) have another virgin, that is what we are going to do.

 

\and I have living proof that it can happen with only one unprotected sex event. I know the exact day my first was conceived because that was the only time we weren't protected.

 

thanks everybody who posted. It was a big help. Maybe a new story?

 

OK, now the details.

spill.

 

Tell me more,tell me more.

 

what about connies for the young ones? i remember i went to the CVS and bought some condoms for my brother when I was 15.... lol that got me quite some attention

whats the youngest anyones bought a condom at?

 

If you trust her about the pill then get some spermicide gell. It is not a s effective as a condom and pill but gell and pill is better then just the pill.

 

Mos' definitely use a condom. Even if she IS on birth control, if it's your first time, you're better off with a condom anyway -- hopefully you'll last a little longer. (didn't work for me, though >.> <.<)

It's extremely possible for her to have an STD and not even notice. Trust me, you DON'T want to wake up to take a leak and have it burn like fire. Take no chances, boy!

 

I was 18 and embarrassed as I could be.

 

After our 3rd child (7th counting miscarriages)
We used Norform vaginal suppositories, on the recommendation of a friend of mine. They feel warm.
But they worked for both of us. Don't know if they are still available. Probably ONLY prevent pregnancy, not any protection against STD.

 

1. Tell her you MUST use a condom.
2. Fuck untill almost orgasm, then please her for a while, then fuck again.
<3.. me