To my mind, and probably most hetero mens minds women are walking around all day every day with a veritable fun park on their body - whether people are "breast" people, "bum" people, or "leg" people - what I'd like to know is when do you think it is acceptable for mostly men, but women also to have a damn good oggle of womens bits and pieces?

Women dress to impress - but who? Why do they wear skimpy figure hugging clothes at times? Women are plain sexy all day every day - to me - even when wearing joggers and jeans etc.

So when can we safely oggle women?

 

All the time seems favourite Birdman! I think we've got a winner!

 

I think the poll is a bit skewed at the moment as it is only blokes that have said it's fine all the time - I bet some of the women will take a more candid view of having their bits oggled all the time

 

In my field and with the people I work with "Models" and also just the women that go to '''''''Wally World"" All seem to take a lot of effort to make themselves ready to be watched.. TR

 

i dont mind being ogled occasionally, but i only dress to impress when im out with my b/f..... and while we are out together i do give the odd innocent flash to someone ive known to be watching for a while... i cant help it if my skirt rides up while im sitting there

 

MEN ogle women because A. It turns them on. B.They like beauty.C. They think they can get somewhere with the object.D.They hope their date or mate doesn't catch them.

WOMEN ogle women because A. They want to see if they look better. B. They want to compare clothes. C. They are bi or lez and would like to connect. D.They hope their date or mate doesn't catch them.

WOMEN ogle men because A. They think he's good looking. B. Can I do better than who I am with. C. They would like a threesome. D. They hope their mate or date doesn't catch them.

Men ogle men because A. They want to see if he is better looking than me. B. He's gay and wants to connect. C. He's bi and would like a threesome. and D. If his mate or date isn't bi, hopes she doesn't catch him.

Ogle Bible Chapter 1.

 

So far 100% of men think it's fine all the time, and 100% of women (ok it's a small sample - ooh err vicar) think it's fine when dressed to impress

 

I put 'all the time' but I don't really think oogle is the right word. I always take the time to appreciate a beautiful woman when she walks in to the room, but I am never rude or crass about it. I don't stare openly. Oogle sounds like the the construction workers whistling at women on the street, and that's just tacky. That is never okay. Unless you're in a strip club, or some other place where women are specifically 'on display' to be oogled.

-S-

 

I went with 'all the time' because it best suited my thoughts on the matter, but like -S- said, it has to be done with a bit of tact. Why else do I keep fit, choose my clothes carefully, add a touch of makeup, wash my hair and wear sexy underwear?

Tho I acknowledge that for the most part, that's noticed more by women than men.

I do get upset by women who wear revealing clothing and then bitch when they are stared at. Unless the starer's HOT, that is.

 

Okay, I have to agree with Shake...taking the time to look and appreciate a woman that has "dressed to impress" is complimentary, without using your words. Oogling just seems creepy to me. Sorry, just being honest. You can tell when I'm not minding to be...um, noticed...my head is held high and i've got this certain walk (maybe you could call it strutting lol) oh, yeah, and sometimes a lil smirk on my face, cuz yeah, i caught you looking!

 

OK so what is wrong with looking at a woman and thinking - my god she looks stunning - even if she has just got "normal" clothes on, and not particularly dressed to impress anybody.

I think the female form is fantastic - if it was me, I'd stay at home playing with myself all day!

I suppose Oggling is too course a term - but having a damn long look - is that ok?

 

I think it's okay ... especially if I see you run into a street sign while doing it.

 

Now - do you have to do it secretly - furtive little glances - or is openly looking ok?

 

I guess that would depend on the proximity of your wife's fist. But honestly, for me ... any look of appreciation is okay by me. Like I said ... I try to look good and it would be wasted if no one noticed.

 

Oh yeh - good point - although we do both openly say wow when a hot piece of totty male or female goes by.

 

There's looking and there's staring. What's the difference? Only you know for sure. I have some absolutely stunning coworkers and I get a face full of eye candy every day and it's always a joy. I can't help but stare, but I only do that when I can't be seen. I look all the time. Since our office is pretty small and we're all in there, I have ample opportunity. Plus I look a lot while their talking, pretending I'm trying to follow the Korean conversation. This usually only lets me look in their faces, but with one girl in particular, that's plenty to get me by until I can see her ass when she's walking in front of me in the hall or leaving the room.

Sometimes I just want to cry for the taste of her on my tongue. It's one of the most severe cases of lust I've ever had.

-S-

 

Ahh so if they dress to impress its ok to stare, but otherwise, if they just dress nice, we have to be clandestine?

 

Here's the secret, guys...we secretly LOVE being checked out. Why do you think we dress like that, walk like that. You think high heels are comfortable?

But try not to be too obvious about it, okay? A turning head and appreciative gaze is great...but when guys stare, say crude things, whistle...when guys do that to the extreme, it's embarrassing to us and it makes them look...well...juvenile.

 

So how do I stop going from an appreciative gaze to a crass stare? Shall I count 1 alabama, 2 alabama, 3 alabama etc - how many should I go to before (a) I lose count, and (b) it becomes a stare?

 

Just remember to keep your tongue in your mouth