Has anyone used it and had good luck with it?

 

YES! We are very active on there, its a great place to find LOCAL sex partners instead of folks from all over hell. It is regional so it works well. We have been on AFF for many years and although we dont pay, never have, they periodically reward members who are on there for a long time and have good testimonials. We currently have a free gold membership on AFF, although who knows how long its good for. AFF is great for couples, not so great for single guys. It is also not so good for the one night hookup - one night stands - because it is more of a pain ass to communicate. The AFF instant messenger sucks, and they monitor your communications in email to try and get you to pay for a membership. For these reasons we usually refer people to our yahoo messenger if they want to talk, yahoo is instant, easy, and much more reliable that the AFF chat setup. You can get a fast hookup for one-time-stand type sex easier with craigslist. But if your a couple, looking for other couples, or bi males, its great! Here are some suggestions we follow: Be specific, state exactly what your after. Be honest, tell them what you do an don't do or want in a partner. Use lots of pictures. Flirt and few all the profiles you can, if they are not paid members they cant message you back unless you do. Do not be surprised if the people you contact never get back to you, lots of flakes. Ask anyone you hook up with in real life for sex, to write you a testimonial on there, it helps you in many ways. We also keep it open in a window, AFF lists people who are online and features their images and profile so if you are listed as online for more hours, more people see your info when they first log onto AFF, helps get more views on your profile. Be sure you get your account verified through photo and ID,,,,,, so people you your for real!

 

When the guys turn up to a meet it's great. I've been on there a few years now - it's great for women as we don't need to pay

 

reasonably new

Wife and I are AFF members as a couple. We have had some fun with it, but it is difficult to meet real people, or even decide, if you are new to meeting this way if YOU are real LOL. We are very cautious, so often by the time we have decided to meet someone, they have given up on us... A lot of people are on AFF just for the conversation, others are complete phonies, some are curious and unsure, and some are experienced and ready to play. We fall someplace between curious and unsure and ready, as we have some experience already. But its just plain difficult to find people who can be patient with us, we are very busy, and willing to just meet at Starbuck's for coffee the first time.

But if nothing else, you'll broaden your awareness of what's out there..

For the number of paid monthly members there are AFF ought to have better software. The IM service sucks, as do the webcams. We go to Yahoo to chat sometimes, and when we've decide to cam with someone use Skype. Really enjoyed open caming for a large audience, but once we realized how bad it could be for the viewers compared to other services were really disappointed. So would say it has its good points and its bad.

 

Similar to AFF is SLS (Swing Life Style), it is also regionalized and categorized. Better for couples, but single men have luck too if they are nice and patient.

 

It's one way of making a living, there are others.