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  1. kurius

    kurius Sex Lover

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    My girlfriend and I have been together for roughly 9 months, and I'm starting to notice that she's more conservative in the bedroom than I thought.

    When we first started dating she would talk about how she'd like to try a threesome and stuff like that, but now when I start to bring up more adventurous undertakings (we've only had standard sex save the addition of lube and a vibrator for her) she either flat-out isn't interested, is unsure, or shy's away from it.

    Is there an effective way to help ease her into stuff, or is simply that I'm more open minded in the bedroom than she is?
     
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  2. Rockymohit

    Rockymohit Porn Surfer

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    Hotguy

    Okay both watch some 1on1 porn daily
     
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  3. EdwardG

    EdwardG Sex Machine

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    Fantasy and discussion are a ways from actual reality. It is pretty common to shy away from actuall doing things you might want to talk about.

    Personally, I would try playing the fantasy. Whenever she talks, play with it and include it when fucking. For example, get a toy and play with it during sex- when she starts enjoying whatt she can do with you AND a toy, then she might start to warm to a threesome.

    My best advice is to never force it- nothing good comes from trying to get someone to do something before they are ready.
     
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  4. swingerj

    swingerj Sex Machine

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    This is great advice. Never try to force the issue as that is a sure fire way to get kicked out the door. Playing with it during sex works, but just be prepared to have to keep it in the fantasy world. I was with my girl for 6 years before we did our first threesome, we stopped doing them 4 years ago and won't be going back. Kids, they do strange things to you. :excited::eek:
     
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  5. kurius

    kurius Sex Lover

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    Thanks for the advice thus far. I didn't even mean specifically just threesomes, was just using that as an example. It's a lot of stuff, from more elaborate toys to anal, etc. She seems to be mentally interested in a bunch of stuff, but puts up a wall when discussion moves to actually implementing it.
     
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