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  1. alphaman85

    alphaman85 Newcumer

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    My gf and I have been dateing for some time now and we have a problem. She cums way before I do. This is a source of tension for both of us because I end up takeing like fifteen or twenty minutes to cum after she does, and that is if I rush it. It bothers her because she wants us to cum together, and it bothers me because her lebito is long gone after she orgasms. So...I need advice on how to either cum faster, or make her cum slower...
     
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  2. Erica2020

    Erica2020 TeaZy_E

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    Hmm not sure if i can help..
    but dont rush her cumming or trying to make her cum slower..let it flow..us girls cant control when we cum realli, well i know i cant..be happy that shes even cumming at all.
    Usually the girl does cum way before the guy..i always cum before my bf but thats because unlike him i can have multy. orgasms..im not sure what u could do to make sure u guys cum together..thats sometimes hard for me and my bf, but sometimes it just kind of happens when we dont plan it..

    idk wait awhile someone will help ya better then i did im sure
     
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  3. Nympho

    Nympho sex kitten

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    I don't see the problem here. Make her come again, and again, untill you do. Most females come before there partners, but unlike men, females can have multiple orgasms.
     
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  4. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    Agreed - just keep her going time after time - it's not a case of pack your bags and put your feet up - she's had an orgasm - test yourself and see how many times you can get her off.

    And don't give a shit about coming together - rarely happens and is a bit over-rated - knock her socks off !
     
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  5. x__orion

    x__orion ::.unhomed.::

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    Yep, gotta agree w/BigBird - it is slightly over-rated. The concept sounds lovely, but when it happens, it's all a bit of a blur, you're almost cumming and spending all your time concentrating on making she sure cums with you, and when she does, you're thinking about her orgasm and not yours, and it all goes past in a somewhat bemused blur.

    I prefer to watch my gf cum without the distraction of my orgasm.
     
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  6. Perv79

    Perv79 Decadent Deity

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    A third motion for the rarely happens. Exception: You are doing your damnedest to wait on her then you can let go with her. I would be much more concerned that after she gets hers she starts to think of you as a burden (if that is in fact what it is that sounds pretty damned selfish.) Tell you should play the numbers; if you increase your sex by 3x you will have 3x as good a chance of cumming together. Either way you win.
     
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  7. Tahtiana

    Tahtiana Sex Machine

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    if you REALLY must.. i would suggest not having sexx and or masturbating for a couple of days.. this will build up more of a desire.. more of a need.. and when you do have sexx.. you cum a lot sooner..
     
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  8. Kimiko

    Kimiko Porn Star

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    Seems like a lot of guys would love to have this problem.

    But I have to say, she seems unlike most women, if she loses interest in continuing after she has an orgasm. Most of us are....well...just getting started. :)
     
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  9. justbrowsing12

    justbrowsing12 Amateur

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    try having her suck you off first to get you NEAR orgasm... even if you then come before her, you can still get her off other ways while she is still excited.
     
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