How many females enjoy anal? I've had a couple girls through my young years who have enjoyed it but very rarely.. Girlfriend hates it..

For those who enjoy it? Any tips? Other than spit on it and slip a finger in before trying to get something that clearly doesn't fit inside

 

I haven't yet met a woman who didn't like it, after being properly introduced to it. I don't think I ever met your girlfriend.

 

I don't think you have!

May I ask.. What do you mean by properly introduced? Lubes. Toys. Slowly. Etc.. Help me! Give me some tips!!

 

Okay, I don't know how old your girlfriend is, but it's rare to find a woman who is south of her senior prom, that hasn't had either a good or bad anal experience. This question comes up around here, about every 38 minutes, so there are plenty of anal coaching threads.

Unfortunately, porn is a very poor source if information, which is where everyone under the age of 35 learned all about it. It's a wonder any woman would let a cock near her asshole, after that kind of treatment.

The anus is a very sensitive muscle. It has more nerve endings than any other part of the body, and for good reasons. The important points are to allow this muscle to stretch slowly and use plenty of lube. There are two ways to really fuck up her anal experience. Forcing open an unready asshole feels similar to getting kicked in the nuts. Not good foreplay. The second is to try it without a good lube. No one fills their engine with 5 quarts of spit.

For her first time, I always ate her pussy, while gently stretching her asshole open with a regular housewife's friend vibrator. Not to thick, and it has a gentle taper tip. I put her ass at the edge of the bed and I'm on the floor. This means I have the lube at my finger tips. After she has cum a couple times with the vibrator in her ass, it's yours to lose.

 

Hell yay.

It's never hurt me, ever. I have a connective tissue disorder that makes me really stretchy though. So a guy with a huge cock can just shove it up my ass and I LOVE it.

I like the stretch and the burn and feeling really filled. Vaginal sex is nothing like it.

 

I like it but I honestly prefer vaginal. I've never had an orgasm from anal alone but I can usually come from vaginal alone. I think the best think about anal is the guys really, really, REALLY like it, and I like to to make my guy happy happy happy.

 

My last experience was with my GF ( a while back) , mentally it was amazing physically it just hurt

Generally speaking I would say 'it depends'

 

I love when he rubs his hard cock on my ass when his fingers are deep inside my tight wet pussy. Its too big to fit inside my ass. So we compromise. Mabey one day.

 

Don't ask... work your magic. Role play with her anus while fucking her... if she says no...stop and repeat again. If she still says no, just take it. Works like a charm-every time!

 

Yeah, I'm a fan, but it's got to be done right.

 

I would like to try with you please

 

I Love it, as long as LUBE, LUBE,LUBE ! and RELAX !

 

I love anal

 

If it hurts the lady, you're doing it wrong, or she's just not into it. Take it slow. You ladies should ALWAYS control the pace. I can't stress that enough.

 

Last night actually

Its usually a once a week thing for us. I had a good teacher in college and that's really important. If her first time was bad, it's fairly unlikely that she'll try again. Not impossible but difficult. There needs to be a lot of trust, communication and the guy can't treat it like a porn video because real world buttholes don't work that way.

 

Well said!

 

Absofuckinglutely

 

This thread has been posted many times - and my answer is always the same - no thanks - in my cunt or forget it - bums are for something entirely different.

 

I enjoy it on occasion. Not my favorite thing to do.