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  1. LukiePoo

    LukiePoo Porn Surfer

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    ok so at this point, my situation is an emergency. me and my girlfriend have been trying to have anal sex for about a month now and we still haven't gotten it right. We've barely even made any progress. everytime we say we'r goin to do it and i get all excited but it doesn' work. i've read that oyu need to spend alot of time working it with your finger or whatever and use alot of lube and we do that. i can fit one finger inher pretty easily but 2 is a problem and my dick is more than twice the diameter of 2 fingers. i know alot of you out there probably have anal sex regularly and if anyone could give me any kind of help i'd be very grateful. please help!??! thanks in advance.
     
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  2. artep

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    One word: Lubricant
     
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  3. Acoly

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    You gotta first get through the first part of the rectum just inside, first time it will hurt her quite a bit, just go veeeeery slow in with your penis, and stop when she says it hurts and let her rectum accomodate your penis, after that everything should be fine, and yes use a lot of lube. you wont get far with trying to open her with your fingers, you need something bigger. after the first time it will still hurt her when you first put your penis in but not much.
    Well this is what i found my my own experiences of pleasuring myself anally. hope it help.
     
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  4. dank

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    My wife went to the doctor to get a set of 'butt plugs' to increase her size. She became sooo addicted to them that she wouldn't make love without one in her ass - unless, of course, I was going there anyway.
     
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  5. theman

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    I Think Dank has the right idea, go to a sex shop, and buy about four different thicknesses of dildoes, and a lot of lube. Then let her do it her self, until she can take the biggest, witch would be the size of you. Then your in!
     
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    thanks guys, i hope to death that stuff will work..
     
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    Good advice about the butt plugs,, or a small dildo, fingers do not do the job, and that opening needs a slow and gentle streatching..
    My ex and I knew that we needed to do some streatching back there.. I got a half dozen condoms and made a dildo out of condoms and foam rubber.. In a farm town in the midwest 1950 you did not go out and buy a butt plug.. That homemade dildo lasted a long time.. Don't forget the lub..
    And don't worry about the stretching, if is not dangerious, if you go slow and easy..
     
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    There are a few tips i can give.
    1) slow and gentle
    2) start small and increase the size of the dildo or butt plug a little at a time.
    3) She should try keeping the buttplug in for a hour or so maybe while around the house and then increase size the same day.
    4) lube like crazy.
    If she keeps up tip 3 for a week or so she should be more than ready and probably begging for a cock in her ass. Also id suggest a few enemas for extended periods of anal.
    These are just opinions.
     
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    My husband and I had the same thing going on with us. It took us a while to get it down. What we ended up doing was I was on my side and he was on his side behind me. Most relaxing position of me (the woman) With lots of lube!! Lots of lube!! he began to play with my clit got me all hot and horney and then started playing with my butt with his other hand and at the same time my clit. As he started to insert his cock in my butt he had my mind else where(my clit) and then very very slowly started entering. He would enter and stop, enter and stop and he would constantly ask me are you ok? and relax!! and as it got unconfortable I would not tense I would bare down (as if I was using the bathroom) Bareing down helps open up the anus. I know it sounds bad but think about what you do when using the restroom. You push!! Why so it will move out... BUT in this case I am not doing it to move it out I am doing it so he has a little more playing room to get where he needs to be. I would stay relaxed and that would help him push in further and then there was sucess!!! Lots of movement the first time was not an option but, there after things got better and better!! once getting pass that hard spot of getting started it was all over. We have had some awsome anal sex sections and now the anal sex and anal play is one of my favorite things. Anal play on the outside is as much an addition as playing inside.
     
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  11. Txcody

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    Lube does help... a lot. (I use my wife pussy juice) But you also have to make her relax. Before yall do anything give her a massage and get her to relax her body. If she doesmt relax her asshole wont relax either and it will hurt her. Then eat her out for little while get her really turned on and then try. Took my wife and i a while too but now... damn she loves it.
     
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  12. generationY

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    One word, man - buttplugs.
    A step from a finger or even two to a cock - might be a pretty big one. You need stuff in between to train her asshole to loosen up enough to be comfortable.
    Get a small enema kit and a few buttplugs. Have her wear a buttplug for a short time every day or every other day. Play with her during that time. Or have her play with herself. Making her orgasm goes a long way towards connecting anal stimulation with pleasure. Have vaginal or oral sex with a buttplug in. Get it in and out, play with it a little.
    Depending on where she is now and how big are you, it might take a day or two, OR a week or two before you can just fuck her ass.

    And P.S.: Fingers aren't that great for anal sex training. Fingers are rough, even with lube. Glass or silicone toys feel much smoother. So will your cock. Fingering tires out sensitive skin of the anus very quickly.
     
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      P.P.S. For most women, in my experience, anal sex seems to be easyer and more pleasureable after at least one orgasm.
       
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  13. pussytimes

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    Well dear buy small your thumb thick vibrator. I start with it I let my wife get use to it by dp her with vibrator and my dick . First she feell uneasy as week pass by she ask me she need vibee in her ass and she like the feeling all hole full. Then we try for anal it's work fine.
     
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  14. CurlyHairedCutie

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    Make her cum several times to relax the muscles too. Also don't go too slow. If you're too slow you feel too much pain and no pleasure.
     
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      I wish your husband would let you fuck me and I’d love to fuck your ass
       
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  15. neddy3511

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    Do you enjoy it
     
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  16. Nympho

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    Lube, but plugs and patience.
     
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  17. neddy3511

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    Ease your cock in slow then nice strong strokes
     
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  18. VisMajor

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    Guys, chill
    This post is more than 13 years old.
    If they didn't manage to figure it out in 13 years, repeating "lube" won't help them.
     
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      What do you mean repeating the same advice 5 or 6 times on a post that's really old won't help?
      All mocking aside, newbies might find the post useful. -shrug- Or maybe they'll share new ideas.
       
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