My g/f says that my Penis is to thick to enter her arse. Not having had alot of anal experience I am not sure if this is true or a lame excuse. Can anyone with vast experience advise me on the subject. Any replies would be greatly appreciated.

 

Based on some of the things I've seen stuck up arses on this site, I'd say it's an excuse, but she probably doesn't mean it's impossible. She's probably scared shitless about it. Can't blame her. That's one tiny little hole ...

 

Yeah, she's probably scared. Be understanding, and try not to be selfish. Is butt sex really that important?

 

You are right butt sex is really not that important compared to her vaginal and oral efforts. I just wanted another option I guess, an option to cover all available holes but if it is to scary for her then it may be prudent to forget about it. Thank you for that perspective, I can understand the predicament she is going through.

 

Unless you have an abnormally large cock, you would probably fit into your GF's ass just fine. However, since it is her ass, it's easy to understand why she might be intimidated. One thing you might try, would be to get her a strap-on dildo that's somewhat larger than your own cock and let her do you. After she sees the enjoyment you're getting from being dildoed, maybe she'll be more open minded about letting you do her backdoor!

 

I was with two friends of mine at a restaurant yesterday Cheryl and Carol note the names are fictional endnote. The subject of anal sex came up. Cheryl claimed that men who want to do anal sex is a closet homosexual.

Here I am with two women that I have had sex with.

I remembered having anal sex with Carol. I recalled how it came about. She told me that every man she has asked to stick it in her ass has gone limp, took off and never called again. I was the only man who fucked her in the ass. Carol didn't comment on Cheryl's remark.

I changed the subject to something that I read. What I read was that the members of the gay community dominate the fashion industry and are the ones pushing the thin look to give the models that young boy look.

Carol looked at me and then I said to Cheryl, "You know anal sex is a fetish and doesn't mean that the person engaging in it is gay. What do you think of guys who get off on watching a woman shave her armpits?"

"There is a fetish for everything," Cheryl responded.

Later that evening Carol told me in private that Cheryl is sexually repressed.

 

Hi monnkeybutt, certainly sounds like a nice experience and very nice to recall it. In Sydney 15% of available men are gay, that fact combined with the statistic that Asian women are swooping on available men makes it very difficult for single Western women to meet available male partners. For this reason they are sceptical that the remaining eligible men may be homosexual. Most of them are probably not but I can certainly understand the female point of view, it is a jungle out there and applause goes to the people who can pair up.

 

I love it in all parts, but in the arse drives me to several orgasms. Only few of my partners dared to buttfuck me, though I gave them signals, how much I liked it. So I think, it might be in the heads of men and women, that "one shouldn't do it", which hinders them. Maybe the ones who have a trait to homosexualiy, believe it could mean, they're gays. It's just a prejudice, that's what I believe.

Btw. I've read, that in some states in the USA it's still forbidden by law, is this true?

If you are careful about it and do it slowly, lubricate her ass with your fingers and try to get inside just teasing her a little and touch with your penis slightly at the entrance, she will hopefully get used to it.

Don't penetrate the first few times, only when she asks you to do it. And then with a finger, when she is hot. If you tease her several times, you will see, if it excites her or not. When she gets really hot, she'll let you do it, I guess.

Good luck!

 

It is still illegal in some states, particularly down south. They also have laws against selling sex toys. But it's not like these laws get enforced much.

In some states, you can't get champagne with a champagne brunch...because it's Sunday.

 

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