How do i get my fiance to let me try anal? She is afraid because she thinks it will hurt too much..One day i was eating her out and started licking her ass,, put a vibrator on it and she went nuts when it started to loosed her up..Please give me some pointers..I have never done it and i want to..She just has such a beautiful ass and i love fucking her doggy i just wanna try something new...

 

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you were on the correct path.... just keep licking and fingering and have a ton of lube on hand when she says ok..go slow and be gentle or it will be a one time trip down that road

 

anal part 2

i almost forgot, be ready when she says bend over its my turn...lol

 

thanks for that....but common people i no u have more tips for me

 

Slowpoke is totally right about part 2!! But really, it's not that mysterious. It WILL hurt if you don't use plenty of lube (get a good kind), go slow, don't force her. she will have to learn to relax into it. Once she's experienced it a couple times, she'll be hooked!

 

I started having anal about 2 months ago. I wondered why so many do it in the porn videos and semd to enjoy it. So i decided to suprise my hubby and give it a go. I had him lay behind me and play with my clit while he rested his cock against my arse. I just slowly wriggled and pushed onto him at MY own pace till he just popped in......WOW...what a feeling. No pain, but the most intense feeling I have ever had. Made my head spin with pleasure! Now we do it pretty much EVERY day. I am addicted and so is he. So if you play your cards right...both she and you will be well rewarded. Just remember to let her set the pace. She has to get past the fear the first time. Once she realises it doesn't hurt then she'll be more relaxed next time. At least I hope there will be a next time for you.

 

thx keep them cuming

 

Lube lube lube.

DO NOT "accidentally" sneak it in. She will instantly lock up, and then suspect you and not trust you around the area. Seriously, this will reduce your chances of ever getting it. Talk to her about it. Let her know you really want it, but that you're willing to wait until she's ready.

Get her on here, let her chat with some of the girls who have tried it and liked it. Let her know that she's missing out on something, and make it about her pleasure, not yours.

Lube Lube Lube. And alcohol.

Continue teasing her button. If she's comfortable with you in that area, she's more likely to trust you.

Be gentile. Seriously. You don't even need to thrust at first. It is very, very tight. She'll probably be able to just milk your dick to orgazm if you can both stand it.

Finish with anal sex. Don't go back to vaginal, it can cause infections. Don't go ATM for obvious reasons.

Also, don't cum in her asshole. She'll likely not enjoy shitting out your cum. Plus, it's totally fun to come on a girl's back after pulling it out of her butthole.

LUBE LUBE LUBE. Have it ready.

And alcohol. Her favorite drink.

Oh yeah, and lots of foreplay. She has to be really, really turned on.

LUBE.

 

it's not the kind of thing that you would want to surprise her with either. Perhaps, if you hinted to her ahead of time that you would like to try anal sex with her, then it would give her time to get nice and clean for you. She is probably more apt to be more comfortable if she is ready for it, and wouldn't be as self conscious.

 

Hey Everybody

That Caffeine really knows what he is talking about. Heed him.

Now my first time was accidental. She was a 15yo virgin, we had done 69 for 2 yrs, so we were going to do it standing up (I don't for what ungodly reason, except I wasn't clever enough to think of any other, or to anticipating) She was shorter than myself, so it wasn't a good match, my knees were bent, and when I got in I wondered why she was so dry, withdrew, felt around her pussy, rubbed juice on me, stuck it back in, asked her if it hurt, she said a little, I told her it would probably not in a minute. Pumped away, pulled out, sprayed her back. A few days later she commented that I could have left it in I was in behind. A revelation!! Never did actually fuck her pussy in the 3 yrs I was with her. Boy the 69 was good.

 

Okay, dude. That's funny. Accidental anal, eh?

 

Wait wait wait wait wait, how COULDNT U TELL?!


Thats like mixing up Pudding and Titanium!

 

Can you tell? (with good lubr that is)

 

As someone who has been on both ends of anal sex- Like someone said above, Let the one who is having the cock inside their ass, do all the work. doggy style is the best, they can push back and take as much as they can handle and go as slow as they need to.

use lots of lube, and make sure you are linded up just right. This may sound silly, but if she is new and very tight, a wrong angle could hurt alot, do it with the lights on, to get a good look and where your cock is going.

 

AMEN to that dude