been married for 7 years, thinking about watching another guy fuck my wife and hopefully join in, has anyone done this and not regret it?? we talk about it and she would try it if she knew it would not ruin our marriage.

 

i couldnt do it. guess im not secure enough.

 

I couldn't do it...

I'm not married, but my GF is mine, and mine alone...

If she wants to experiment with women, I'm all for it, but no other man shall

enjoy my girl...


Might sound stupid, but meh...

 

I was thinking, no friends, not in our town, at a hotel, always use protection ect

 

i dont know if i could even deal with her doing a girl. I guess im old fashioned. I DO believe in true love, forever and always. And i couldnt deal with wondering....... is she thinking of me? or him or her?

 

I don't recommend it either. Your wife is your own and you should be faithful to her as her to you.
my .02

 

Well, I could deal with the woman, because I'm almost 100% certain, another

woman could please her in ways that I could never hope to, and in my

opinion, my GF deserves to explore anything that will make her happy..


But no other guy shall touch her...

 

hmm

 

Not the predicted response, I take it XD

 

You have to have the right mind set. If your are both in agreement, and comfortable with your relationship, it is one of the hottest things you will ever do.

 

she has 3 fantasy's, her and another girl ( she said i can only watch ), her and 2 guys, her watching me and another guy.
i have fantasys about watching her suck and fuck another guy and tag team her with other guy, and watching her and another girl ( and them letting me join in ) i figure if she gets it 1st then she will let me do it with her and another girl.

 

I think people always think about it but reality is different..What if he does things to your wife you don't do or what if she has the best orgasm of her life with the other guy....then your going to fell like she's thinking of him...there is just way too many what ifs... I would just say leave it a fantasy

 

Back in '02 I was part of a swingers club for people over 40. Mind you, by the time people get to that age they have been married close to 20 years and know their partners pretty well.

We use to talk with some of the members, especially the lady who organized the group, who had been swingers since their late teens. She said that she always enjoyed partying and playing with people over 40 who had been married for more than ten years because those who were younger or married for less had so many problems with the lifestyle. What she told us over and over again was the biggest problem seemed to be guys talking their wives into it and then having a load of problems seeing their wives enjoying it so much! Was a bit of a blow to the male ego!

My 2¢ worth . . . . Keep talking about it. Do you really need to do it now? If she and you have these fantasies now you'll probably still have them in a couple of more years. See how you guys are doing then. And in the mean time . . . keep talking! Not just saying kinky things, but please do try to talk about concerns and worries! GOOD LUCK!

 

we have been married for 7 but together for 12 years, she loves giving blow jobs, and fucked in the ass. i want to see her deepthroat someone elses cock and have him cum all over her face, and watch her face expressions when he fucks her in the ass, and when we fuck her in ass and pussy at same time. i am 36 and she is 32

 

Well, seeing people in their 40's, 50's and even 60's having a BALL playing with each other please recognize that you guys have a LOT of years ahead of you. There's nothing wrong with waiting a few years to actually try some of the things you fantasize about. Trust me, you will be able to find willing participants then. So please don't consider this a Now Or Never kind of situation!

 

WELL... been there done that... and still doing it. Its fun , erotic and sexxxy.. for us. understand its not everyones thing.. and thats cool. You and were wife have to be secure in your relationship FOR SURE. Go in with an open mind. Discuss the possibilities and talk, talk , talk.

 

i enjoy watching my b/f fuck other girls,but i am not allowed to fuck other guys,which i really have no issue with...he watches me with other women though..

its really a domination thing for him and me...we dominate the other women together so even though he fucks them,i get to join in on several different levels...

take the advice of the people here though,this is something you have to discuss it A LOT and be completely comfortable with your partner and be prepared for any and all consequences.....

 

I'd love to try it. All I have to do is convince my wife.

 

Doesn't sound stupid at all. I am the same way. I love my gf too much, and to see another man touch her would set something off.