1. What would you change or keep the same?
2. Do you have goals and if so are you working toward those goals?
3. Do you accept your present sexual self contently?
4. Have you let others determine your fate?

As it's very late in the morning I will give my complete answers later when I have time, but feel free to share.

 

I am at a point in my life where I am very happy with myself sexually and I am very confident, I don't wish to change a thing

 

At the moment not having a partner I'm not that happy with it but when I do get to spend some time with a lady yes I'm ok with it all after all you only have what God gave you

 

I am very happy with my sexual life and with my sexual self at this point in my life.

 

Happy with my sexual self? Sure. With my sex life? Nope

 

What would you change or keep the same?

I can't change the past, but probably I would be better spending less time here.

Do you have goals and if so are you working toward those goals?

Just to remain happy.

Do you accept your present sexual self contently?

No. I'm always fighting either my past or how it has affected me, but I am a lot better than I was.

Have you let others determine your fate?

In the past yes. Now it is up to me.

 

As promised I never answered my own thread

1. What would you change or keep the same?
2. Do you have goals and if so are you working toward those goals?
3. Do you accept your present sexual self contently?
4. Have you let others determine your fate?

1. I wouldn't change much of who I am except that I'm always looking to reinvent my sexual self in the interest of being a better lover which without changing whom I'm making love to is a harrowing task. So for myself I'd like to just not work so hard at it and feel secure that all the efforts I've put in thus far are spent on improving my wife's experiences and shelving her fears.
2. To teach others all that I know about healthy sexual relationships from a perspective of how you value yourself as you are and how you can improve from there the things you can change. Not based on the lofty expectations and judgments of others that make some feel less worthy of the sexual love we all are entitled to once we've learned to truly love ourselves and the "skin we're in!" I've wrote much of this down and need to spend the greater part of this and next years putting it together in a cohesive book.
3. I'm never content which is both a gift and a curse as there's only just so much time in a day, days in a week, etc; so much I give of myself but have the hardest time giving myself the permission to just sit back and reflect rather then feel I haven't done enough? Based on the reality that Lil' Donna is my life, my love and my soul, but that I haven't been able to show her how to be sexually proactive in now almost 30 years. Which isn't to say that she hasn't improved in her feelings of her sexual self, only maybe I have yet to accept that she's come as far as she can go and find contentment in that fact.
4. I most certainly have as most who have ever read me have noticed in the way I discuss my sexual ups and downs over the years with Lil' Donna, but as I've followed the path of mistresses when sex was bringing me down. I never wish to repeat that pattern ever again, as much as it may seem to some that cheating can be an exciting break away from a sexless existence or spark to ignite the boredom of a long term sexual relationship? The whole process in reality is living two lives which is one of frustration and another that lies in temporarily feeling freed from the mundane, that you refuse to walk away from knowing it'll get better and it does sometimes through means contrary to what others deem acceptable behavior until they've walked a mile in your shoes.

 

I like my sexy self but there is always room for improvement. I would love to have a tummy tuck and lite lipo

 

What would you change or keep the same?

1. Do you have goals and if so are you working toward those goals?
2. Do you accept your present sexual self contently?
3. Have you let others determine your fate?

1. I found who I love, who cares, and supports me i whole, was willing to and encouraged me to move half way around the world to do better that we were.
2. YES, no regrets, no remorse.
3. Never "let", it took time to find my reason.

 

I am happy with my sexual self but have never been happy with my sexual environment. I have always had a high sex drive and the woman I dated and married was very good but not nearly the quantity. I turned to bisexual play because guys are easy and there is no before and after that takes time. I also used men for my sexual gratification and still do but love women. The men use me too. I am not naive. I wish I could meld my two sexual worlds. Tried once and it did not end well. That relationship ended in two weeks....

 

More than happy with how I am sexually. Now I just need to find someone to share it with.

 

Sex is always not the same for a girl, especially when she gets it from her husband only. She has situations that makes her feeling angry, sad, happy and playful, and when these moods rule her, her sexual experience differ every time. Guys almost do the same thing to a girl, but the internal feeling of the girl changes the sex game each time, making it new and very interesting. The moment her pussy got filled by that hot rod, she becomes a new avtar, enjoying the penetration and the earlier mood either enhances her sexual pleasure or the pure sex makes her forget her earlier sad mood.
What is there new in the sex???

 

This thread in particular, is worthy of revival and I'm grateful to be reminded of it and offer my current thoughts... Which I will do in due course and in comment format, so as not to interfere with flow.

I speak here now in the hope that it might be confirmed, that reviving threads from dead people about Why sum men slap the girls butty etc, is really fuckin annoying and I will put a curse on you if you continue.

Much love and respect.

 

Weirdly enough, i am probably one of the few people who is not very happy with myself in this regard lol

 

Hope you have a change of heart. We are all beautiful

 

I guess the only goal I have sexually is I'd like to be more... assertive. Not aggressive or rough during sex, but more like demanding about sex. I haven't really been pushy about sex since I was a horny teenager in the back seat of a car; I always just do what my partner wants as often as they want. I've had girlfriends who want to fuck all day and try crazy things, and I've had girlfriends who hardly even want to be touched. I just go with whatever they want to be kind to them. But looking back I wonder if that unfairly places too much of the burden of initiating sex on my partner, or maybe even makes me come off as disinterested - especially in longer relationships.

 

You know what milo? I have to comend you this is a good thread. You are asking clear questions and you didn't add a bunch of bullshit like you usualy do. So this time I'll play along nicely.
1. What would I change? Frequency I always want more
2. Do I have goals? Absolutely im always coming up with new sceams to get laid I've planned entire vacations revolving around sex. Right now im working out some new role playing senarios involvining live action role playing if you must know
3. Do I accept my present sexual self contenly? Yes and no I accept myself and I love myself but not necessarily contently. Meaning im trying to work out more I want to dress better to be more appealing. The truth is I work a lot and being a sexual tyranasoarus takes time but I'm trying
4. Have I let others determine my fate? No I am my own master. Im a firm believer that we make are own beds. Whatever is lacking in my sex life is no fualt of my partners. You get out what you put in thats been my experience anyway.

 

I entirely sympathize.