why are some women really good at giving head and some are not?why can some deep throat and swallow while others back drag and cant make a guy cum? I mean are you born with a cock sucking gene or something?some women can practice all they want and still not get it right.and ladies do you have any special techniques that really work well?

 

Why can some men satisfy women and others not? :mrgreen:

 

It's all about wanting to do it. Practice does not make perfect in this case...although it helps!!

 

very good question!

 

A woman has to want to give a BJ, it's not something that can be forced and many men do try to do that. Also, I believe it's like making love, it gets better with time. The more a couple is together the better the sex gets and so do the BJs. Some do it because they feel they have to and that never works. I really feel it's part of the big picture of pleasing each other. When a man wants to please me in bed, I, also, like to do the same.

 

I agree with Jen06. Many women view this as a chore, something distasteful, to be gotten through as quickly as possible. I think to do it right, you have to love doing it and you have to be patient.

As far as technique goes, I think different guys like different things. Some guys like to be stroked with your hand at the same time. Some guys think that's cheating. For me, though, there are a few general rules.

1. Everything should be wet, wet, wet. Drippy, slurpy, oozy, sloppy wet. Saliva everywhere, preferably mingling with pre-cum! If you want to REALLY be nasty, spit a lot.

2. Eye contact is a must.

3. Pay lots of attention to his balls.

4. Go slow. Establish a nice steady rhythm.

5. Pause every so often to tell him exactly how much you adore sucking his cock.

 

Kimiko why did I know that you were one of the ones that was born with the cocksucking gene.and RP I agree with you completely

 

Its like any other type of sexual act, in my opinion. I have been with my wife for over 6 years now, and our sex- oral, anal, and vaginal- is better than ever, becuase we know each other so well, and we know what each other likes and how to push all the right buttons.

Sure there is some default tricks that almost everyone enjoys, but for the most part, people like different things and even then it depends on the mood. sometimes i like my balls played or sometime she likes both holes stuffed with dildos or fingers while i satisfy her. and the longer you are with someone, and the more comfortable you are with a person, you will be able to communicate and what you want and where.

I think that is the biggest factor for people just starting do oral. When I was younger, I was so nervous either giving or receiving, that I hardly said a word for fear of looking like a fool, or pressuring the person giving me head.

But as I got older, I stopped caring, and just told them what they needed to do to make me happy, And I asked questions on what they wanted of me, and it made oral sex way more enjoyable for both parties.

 

Absolutely, telling each other what you want and enjoy is a must in bed..

 

Wow kimiko...
YOU MUST HAVE BEEN AN EXPERT IN THAT...THATS I THINK THE PERFECT METHOD TO IT..THATS PRETTY COOL..
U HAVE ALREADY MAKE ME CUM..
NICE TECHNIQUE..

 

6. TALK! (Thanks, RockPrincess!)

 

IT WORKS!!! Yippee!!!

Just kidding...thanks!

 

It's just like any other skill, some have it and some don't. Those that don't naturally have that skill can use techniques and still be good at it, it just takes more time.

 

Im sure you have the skill huh Nympho lol

 

Show him, Nympho...

You can use your bf as a prop.

 

lol Kimiko you little cocksucker you

 

I judge all women who give me a bj by one criteria and that is The porn flick "Viva Vanessa", staring Vanessa Del Rio. It is an old flick. One of those back in the day flicks (early 80's on VHS). It's her so called life story in the porn industry. The part where Vanessa does her first porno and she has to give this guy a bj. Just by sucking his cock ( not even fucking him ) she makes him cum twice. Me and the fellas call it reaching Vanessa status. When you reach Vanessa status you know you can suck some dick. The bad part is that not alot of women can or ever will reach Vanessa status.

 

Mmmm, I just love a challenge. I guess I'll have to find a copy of the film.

 

I would love to see an experience you trying to reach Vanessa status KIMI.

 

As usual, Kimiko has it right. Giving a blowjob that ends in orgasm is like getting a gold star! If you can't get that star... well ... study.

I really get off on giving a blowjob, so I guess over time I've done enough studying. Don't forget the taint ... a firm tongue on the taint works wonders. Use your hands when your mouth is busy. Deep throating until you gag is also kinda hot. Some guys like it if you slap their ass while you're sucking. Others like you to slide a juicy finger inside it.

There's also a great book, Tickle His Pickle ... there's some invaluable information in there!

Whatever happened to the old adage ... there's no such thing as a bad blowjob? I guess times, they are a-changing.