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    Personal info as kik, email, skype etc. is not allowed ("email is....."; “kik is same as my username”) on our forum. Please use Private Messages for it.

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  2. Hello,


    New users on the forum won't be able to send PM untill certain criteria are met (you need to have at least 6 posts in any sub forum).

    One more important message - Do not answer to people pretending to be from xnxx team or a member of the staff. If the email is not from forum@xnxx.com or the message on the forum is not from StanleyOG it's not an admin or member of the staff. Please be carefull who you give your information to.


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  3. Hello,


    You can now get verified on forum.

    The way it's gonna work is that you can send me a PM with a verification picture. The picture has to contain you and forum name on piece of paper or on your body and your username or my username instead of the website name, if you prefer that.

    I need to be able to recognize you in that picture. You need to have some pictures of your self in your gallery so I can compare that picture.

    Please note that verification is completely optional and it won't give you any extra features or access. You will have a check mark (as I have now, if you want to look) and verification will only mean that you are who you say you are.

    You may not use a fake pictures for verification. If you try to verify your account with a fake picture or someone else picture, or just spam me with fake pictures, you will get Banned!

    The pictures that you will send me for verification won't be public


    Best regards,

    StanleyOG.

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  1. IASGATG

    IASGATG Newcumer

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    Mar 30, 2008
    Living in a small coast town, in the suburbs of that town no less, on the south-west coast of England, where your local sex shop gets taken down by angry old ladies who find it offensive, it can be quite tricky to find, expose and explore your sexuality. I'm young, curious, and I guess somewhat naive about.. how to get into the scene. I know lots about it.. I've done a lot of online roleplaying and stuff with real life dommes and such.. However.. the move from Online to Real Life always seemed to illude me.. Does anyone have any advice as to how to start to talk to real life dommes and stuff, be it online with the intent to take it to real life, or meeting them face to face to start with.. A big neon sign would be nice.. but I'm more than willing to take the time to look into it.. Just a starting point would be nice.

    Tom.
     
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  2. Fluffy McNoo

    Fluffy McNoo Porn Star

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    *thinking* Yes, small towns can be pretty limiting on a persons sexual nature, but good for you for using the internet to work around that :)

    I think there are two problems here. One, is actually finding a domme, and two, is finding a domme you can trust. Online roleplay is safe, but once someone's got the handcuffs and bondage tape on you, you need to be damn sure you can trust them!

    In finding dommes, I'd suggest using actual BDSM message boards. Odds are, you won't be the only person in that situation, and they might offer help or advice, as well as things going on in your nearby area that are "off the record". Likewise, try searching the web for BDSM contacts, clubs and the like. Seek, and you shall find!

    (It may take a while, but if nothing else, you'll be building up a web of contacts, who might prove useful in future. After all, who's to say you won't move? ;))

    Once you've done that, do all the usual things like "meeting in a public place", "get to know them first", you know, commonsense things like that.

    And I wish you the very best of luck! :)

    Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo. :cool:
     
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