Hello people,

im a guy im pretty young (18 nearing 19)

i recently broke up with my girl we had nearly 1,5 years (longest for me..)

well i broke up becuz she could't do it(us) anymore and couldnt always be truthful and being herself round me, i offered her to work it out together since we have a beuatiful 1,5 year together she harshly said no! so i coudnt do or want anything then break up

it hurts me realy much i dont find satisfaction in litterly anything i do in my life at this moment im always thining about her and it hurts so much

could any1 please help me out here how do i ever get over this!

any tips from male/female i dont realy care

thx in advance

 

Whenever I break up with a girl the first thing I do is find another hole to fill, and sometimes someone to fill mine, usually both works best for me.

 

I know that at your age it feels like the end of the world but trust me it isn't. Its just you have all those hormones flooding around your body and this makes all your emotions feel supersized. Its no comfort but when you get older you kind of look back to these days of high drama with fondness and a little sense of loss. You never feel so much or so strongly as during these years.

Regarding the lady. Don't worry you will meet another and you will eventually realise that this latest relationship didn't work out because it wasn't meant to be, because you weren't so ideally suited to each other as you no doubt feel you are right now.

Hope this helps.

 

@ cumdupper: thx for the advice but i simply can't i "feel" to much.. stil thx..

@ Yaztromo : thx alot! this does help indeed my emotions are everywhere i actualy feel ashamed big time since im a guy im not "supposed" to feel this feelings im so oversensitive i dont like it im actualy pretty insecure too but that has not much to do with this

ah well i guess it indeed is this way..

thx alot

 

oops doublepost

 

Sorry to hear that mate. But your still young, these will happen before you meet the one. And to get over it..what I do is listen to music to get you in a good mood, talk to a close a friend who'll hear you out and do things to get you in a good mood and take your mind off the break up.

The main key is to see that things are better now, and not worse.

 

Yaz has it! That's what I was going to tell you. It's okay though. As you get older you'll realize just how much shit you don't have a clue about! At least that's my case!

 

Yeah bro,...Pussy Shark and Yaztromo said it all.

Keep your head up,.....both of them,..someone will come along shortly.

 

WA wa wa wa wa wa

 

Young love... it hurts so much when you break up. Now forget that bitch and go get some pussy.

 

Break-ups are tough, but just remember, EVERYONE goes through hurtful and agonizing break-ups (and sometimes 2 or 3 or 4).

It is easy to say (but I've been through it more than once), the hurt will lessen.

It is NOT necessarily a good idea to jump right into another relationship, though. It might feel good for a bit to help you forget, but it is not an absolute answer.

Go out and have fun with the guys for a few weeks (or even a few months). Go to ball games, play cards, drink and BS.

Before you know it, the pain will be almost gone and you will stumble across another girl who is nice.

 

thx alot all of you! love ur answers both humorous and serious aprreciate it!

thx alot this'll help me

 

so sorry to read that, like someone said you are young still, i would catch up with some mates you may have neglected when you were in a relationship, go out and enjoy yourslef again, dont look for another relationship just yet, just have fun and be your age, life is too short babe x

 

it hurts and it will keep hurting for while .. take ur time dealing with the pain .. do not rush going into another relationship .. have some time alone for clear thinking .. and sorry for ur pain i kinda can feel it too

 

again thx for youre honnest and helpful repplies,

to yikes-run im from holland 16 is legal age to drink 18 stronger 21 all, im 18.. so its legal.

but people i'll honnestly try to follow your tips/hunts etc.
again thx ppl i realy needed this

 

The experience that you've had with this girl/woman will remain unique!

The youth, virginity, innocence, gullibility, etc...

Just try not to become bitter!
It won't help!

Meanwhile, just be confident that there will come a time (most probably when you won't even expect it!) when you shall just meet another person (I don't mean a fuck buddy!)...

There will surely be resemblances and... differences!
It's just normal!

And... HELLO!
18, in spite of what you think, is a VERY young age!

I shall finish this post with a quote from Cat Stevens:

it's not time,
To make a change,
Just relax,
Take it easy!

You're still young,
That's your fault,
There's so much you have to go through...

 

Ovid58,

thank you for this reply realy..

u people have helped me more then u think..:$

not to be weird but i love you guys/girls thank you