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  1. Mexican lover

    Mexican lover Amateur

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    So time to vent. I was recently in a relationship with a stripper. Everything was fine. We were talking and I knew she didn't want to quit her well paying job. This was ok for me as this job kept her fit and also it was exciting every day in bed... So fast forward a few months and I'm actually starting to get really jealous. There's a lot of flirting involved in stripping for obvious reasons. But my mood has changed we got more serious and I really like her. So in all honesty am I wrong here? Please i need some real advise
     
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      Besides dancing naked, a stripper's job is to make men happy because she is paying attention to them. If you can't deal with that, you're in the wrong place.
       
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  2. Mr.Horny

    Mr.Horny Sex Lover

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    Suck it up and leave. Plenty of fish in the sea. Its only gonna get worse from here.
     
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  3. pussy in boots

    pussy in boots ride em cowgirl up

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    Talk it out with her. Let her know how you feel, and find out how she feels. You may have to give her up.
    It may help to see a marrage counselor, even though not married.
     
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  4. Mexican lover

    Mexican lover Amateur

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    My only conflict is that I accepted her how she was. With her job and all. Can I really ask her to change? I mean isn't that burden on me?
     
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      Marriage is a very major life change, changing jobs is hard but is small potatoes. Have you talked this out ? Where does she want to be in 5 and 10 years ? Who do want to be with for the next 5 or 10 years ? Maybe you need help talking this out ?
       
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  5. Mr.Horny

    Mr.Horny Sex Lover

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    Yur catching feelingz bruh its only downhill from here
     
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  6. KnightLover1

    KnightLover1 Mystic Knight

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    Take it from me man.. When I use to live in Florida years ago, I went through the same thing as you.. But the only difference was I wasn't in a relationship with her, but I did start crushing on her bad. It wasn't like "i need her bad" kind of crush.. But it was to the point i was willing to date her, eventually the club got shut down due to some kind of problem.. And I lost touch with her, but i learned after that experience.. You can't really fall in love with a stripper, nor can you keep one for long if you're in a relationship with her.. Eventually, her job will come first and with all the flirting they do, to make their money, it wouldn't last long even if you don't want to admit it.
     
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  7. Mexican lover

    Mexican lover Amateur

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    Thanks guys, and ladies. I really appreciate the honest advise
     
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  8. conroe4

    conroe4 Lake Lover

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    Run like a motherfucker and don't ever date a woman with such low morals.
     
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      Nice, what does that say for you ? you are here aren't you ? what about your low morals ?
       
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      Who the fuck said that strippers have low morals, your comments shows a lot about yours if you can say that about somebody you know nothing about.
       
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  9. BigSuzyB

    BigSuzyB Porn Star

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    When she sees the green eyed monster come out you'll likely get dumped. It's really up to you to deal with it. Try staying out of the club. Don't cramp her style.
    It's not a career that lasts a lifetime, be cool, enjoy the ride. She is coming home to you and she may appreciate your support more than you think.
     
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  10. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    She's a stripper, not a hooker. It's a legitimate profession.
     
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      Not really true. I have a friend who stripped for 10yrs. She worked every club in Sacramento and Modesto and Stockton over that time. She said MOST girls get so caught up in the$....they end up doing other things outside of work. Not saying this is the case with OP gf...but is very prevalent in the industry.
       
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  11. Vietnamese Alone

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    Hey, guy. Can i ask you a question? If assume you're replace her, you're stripper, have had some "flirting involved", alright? And she was jealous at you, what does you think? You're not wrong with your moods and emocations, but a seriously relationship (especially that's love) should built on foundation of the trust and respectful each other. And reverse, if she can't show you how she clearly in her acts (after you showed her how you can trust in her), you don't need to wait anything else to stop your trust, she wasn't a good fit for you. She's not worthy, i mean!
     
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  12. springsteen79

    springsteen79 Porn Star

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    This has been said but it's important enough to be said again. Talk with her openly and honestly. Tell her how you're feeling about this but don't expect her to quit. Maybe she can convince you that the flirting is only work and it truly is an expectation of the profession. I suppose if you are the jealous type and can't get by it, this may not be a good fit. Me on the other hand, I would get off knowing she was flirting........hell, I'd ask her to bring a guy home for us........but that's just me. Good luck.
     
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  13. Jonme

    Jonme Porno Junky

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    I disagree with talking it over because it is your problem not her's and the only apparent solution to your problem and outcome would be for her to stop working.
    If she is flirting with all her customers it is just a 'skill of her job' and means nothing to her, any more than you having a skill doing whatever job you do ....... how stupid would it be if she got jealous of something you do to keep earning.
    Why are you jealous of her, your jealousy, if indeed it should, should be of her customers but again that is all they are - just customers, not potential fucks, despite what they might like to think.
    If you knew, for certain, that she was flirting with a certain customer then you might have a cause to be jealous, unless again it was just because he was a 'big payer' in her eyes.
    Jealousy is a terrible thing and without definite due cause can become a 'self fulfilling prophecy' in that you will lose her, not because of anything she is doing but because of your self doubts, because that is basically what jealousy is caused by.
     
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  14. shadowfap

    shadowfap Fap Happy Jester

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    Deal with it or leave. Your jealousy will only eat away at you if you continue the relationship and harbor the green monster whenever she goes to work.
     
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  15. Hush

    Hush Happy Hhedonist

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    Wtf? Many of you are speaking about this woman as though she is a thing. Kick it around, it's just a foot stool... At least it's not a door mat... Etc.. First off it's HER life, not the O.P.'s, and certainly not the hypocritical people who frequent here wishing they had the balls to try living such a way. The O.P. needs to grow up and start selecting who he wants to date for who they are, not expecting that they will change at his whim of the moment. I'd bet dollars to doughnuts every guy here has bitched about "his gal trying to change him," yet now OPie because he can't handle what got his dick hard at first wants it all to stop.

    Tell you what OP, offer to support her in such a way that EXCEEDS what she is making now, and give her a social life that is as gregarious as her work life now, and perhaps you might have a shot. As for the rest of you, you've sucked cock for less than a crackwhore does, so be careful who you're calling black pot.

    Hush....an alias
     
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  16. BeatItUpRight

    BeatItUpRight Porn Star

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    Simple, don't get serious about strippers bro. They are for entertainment not committed long term relationships
     
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  17. noboat

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    Show her TITS!!!
     
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  18. Jizzer68

    Jizzer68 Porn Star

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    Speaking from my experiences last century when I was in my twenties, I have three words for you: don't do it.
     
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  19. msman

    msman Porn Star

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    Date a stripper? Hell, I married one.
    That was years ago and they called then go-go girls.
    She danced in a glass cage 8'-10' above the floor.
    She didn't have to flirt. Her only job was looking good and shaking her tits and ass in a glass cage.
     
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  20. E DOG

    E DOG Porn Star

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    she's dancing at night,shaking her sweet body to guys. there putting money in her g string or the floor! its all hers. she chats up some guys, and you want her to leave that? man I wish I had the body to do that lol. that's what she wants to do. she feel great inside guys love her, and wate for her every night.so if you really want her sack up. let her do her thing kiss her and rub her feet and legs when she gets home and fuck her when she gets horny.
     
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