So my gf ive been with for a while now really likes dirty talk during sex. im not really a verbal person when having sex cuz none of my ex's wanted me to be, so my dirty talk is mediocre. now the sex is great she likes it and shes never complained but i know she would like me to say dirtier things. most the stuff i say is about what i want to do to her or how id like to watch another girl eat her pussy and she likes all that, i just cant even think of anything else to say. Anyone have any tips on how i can work on this or just any ideas at all would be great.

 

I have that problem but the other way around I wish my gf was more verbal, but experience with ex's who liked dirty talk I have a few suggestions. Make sure say things that compliment what she is doing or how good it feels. Showing praise will up her confidence. Also don't feel afraid to use detail. My current gf gets soaking wet and I always say how hot it is and how I love being covered in it.

 

Practice. I'm not good at it, but I try, and I'm a little better at it than I used to be, though I still need plenty of practice. Good luck.

 

Not sure what she's into or open to but, if you're both looking to the kinky side of "dirty talk",... calling her your "dirty little slut", for example, is something that many women get off on. Naughty slut, sexy whore, horny little cunt, kinky lil bitch or some variations of.

I'd probably run this idea across her sometime before hand to make sure she might be into it. And I'd also advise to keep such terms exclusive to the bedroom, sexual situations, etc lol.

Talk about fantasies, both hers and yours and like the person above said, 'Use details'! For example, instead of just saying you want to watch another girl eat her pussy... tell her you want to watch as the other girl slips her tongue between her wet, pink pussy lips and gently licks up... down... back... forth and over her clit while you hold her legs open.

Open your imagination and try to put the specifics and details of your fantasies into words that will in turn put images and sensations into her mind.

 

This is exactly right. You have to describe what you're doing, or what you want to do, or what you want HER to do, in graphic detail, using language that is as descriptive as possible: "You look so sexy with your lips wrapped tightly around my cock, baby. It feels so warm and wet inside your mouth, I know you're going to make me cum soon. I can't help it, I want to hold your head with my hands and fuck your mouth, nice and slow. And then I want you to suck out all the cum from my balls. I know there's going to be lots of it. Is that what you want, baby? For me to fuck your mouth? Ohhhh, yeah, that's it, suck it...your such a great little cocksucker...such a greedy little whore...you want my cum, don't you...every fucking drop..."

 

Some of these things Kimi says...DAYUM...I think her posts like this she should upload an audio clip for our enjoyment.

 

Well...that particular one would probably sound better if I got my husband to record it. He likes to talk dirty, too.

But thank you.

 

Yeah, but hearing your dirty little mouth talk about sucking cock would make most of us cream our jeans, I'm sure...don't need a clip of a male voice, I can just read it aloud to hear that, LOL

 

Just a little addition to what's already been said

I think fetx69 was absolutely right about using explicit details-- of what you are doing to her, what you are about to do to her, and/or what you would like to do.

I'm less certain about the general appeal for most women of being called a dirty slut or filthy little whore or love slave. It's definitely an individual thing whether you're into it or not, so the advice to discuss this with her before implementing it is dead-on and important.

Discussing your own fantasies in detail is terrific, and using your imagination is extremely helpful as well. But what I think is the most important of all (if your goal is to turn her on) is to have open communication with her about HER fantasies, explore them with her, find out as much as you can, and use that information to make your dirty talk more geared to exactly what she's into.

Don't know about other women, but I think my favorite thing to hear in the bedroom (or wherever ) is, "I love eating your perfect pink pussy. You taste so fucking good!"

Hope the advice will help you out a bit.