Weird question: would you, male or female, help a disabled man sexually (from a handjob to ... )? I'm using the word disabled but it could be any reason that would make sexual contacts very difficult for him to find, but physical problems only.

I'm not going to specify any disabilities though I guess for most people that's exactly what it depends on. And I don't mean a broken leg or a missing finger, but much more serious problems. Would you be able to look past that or not, knowing that you might be one of the only options for him?

Also: would you do it out of pity or because you just don't mind? I've been in a situation myself where a girl wanted to 'date' me out of some sort of pity, and for that she should be awarded the nobel prize for love, but because she indirectly kept suggesting the pity thing I kindly rejected the offer, and I guess many others would do the same.

I don't care about looks myself, not a tiny bit. Actually, I'm even more comfortable with persons that have more reasons to complain than me. So for me it's a very easy question to answer, and obviously not out of pity.

I get that some may find this topic to be offensive in a way, but it's not meant to be so get over it

 

I have met a couple of 'disabled woman' whose personalities not to say petty decent looks got me thinking.

It would depend on the person I guess, the nature and level of their disability but I would have to feel some connection so I couldn't and would not do it just out pity there would have to be more there, but the same would go for an able bodied person too

 

Disabled people get just as horny as anyone else so yes I would

 

I'd like to think yes! But I would have to meet the person before I could truthfully answer that question !

 

@Rothko @Airrad @newlicker2
Wow, thought about this topic several times but completely forget about personality, ironically the only thing that really matters to me, stupid me.
So to answer my question: yes I would depending on his personality, though honestly I'd be much less picky about it because of the disability, but then again it smells like pity...

 

Don't tell me to get over it! I don't find your thread offensive at all, but I do find it a tuff one to answer. Why can't you just post a normal thread, like how far can you shoot, who taught you to jerk? I'll be honest as usual, why stop now? But I have to say it all depends on the person, not the disability but the person. You see, I never went to school, worked or had any social interactions with anyone that had a disability. But if I worked or went to school with someone who had a disability I wouldn't be bothered or notice it one bit, as long as they had a heart, was kind and just a genuine nice person overall. And I have never and would never fuck anyone out of pity. Well that's not exactly true, I do throw the wife a bone here n there, it's not out of pity, it's so she'll stop nagging me. Hopefully you're over posting deep threads like this? Very nice thread, well done.

 

My former boyfriend was legally blind. I loved that about him because it meant he liked me for who I am and not how I look. Disabled people have just as much if not more to offer than everybody else.

 

I had to give this some thought. Finally realized I didn't know anyone who was disabled.
I am not counting mental. I am in very good shape and almost everyone I know is also.
Sort of strange. I will have to give this more thought.
How can a person not know anyone with a disability?

 

a long time ago i dated a girl what had her left leg amputated just above her knee. she was fine she was good in bed, just her one leg was short. it was a trip to be with her, she put on a sock like cover on her when she put her prosthetic leg on. and she had 2 types of legs to. one looked like a normal one and she had one that had a pole and a foot on it. it was cool.

 

I'm disabled..it's my feet have no balance my dick works great.....

 

One of my partners has CP and uses a wheelchair. I’m not looking “past” something. I love him, and I’m looking right at him.

And yeah, also, fucking his brains out.

 

I wouldn't "help" a guy simply because he was disabled. I don't "help" anyone that I don't have very strong feelings for. But I would like to think that I could get involved with someone who was disabled, not because he was disabled, but because I liked him as a person. I have a very good friend who lost both legs in the military and if he wasn't married I could envision "helping" him with all kinds of things. And, my husband used to work with a guy who was badly scarred from a fire and again, if he didn't have a wife, he might "have" me. I would never have sex out of pity, unless it was with myself

 

We have a friend who is a home nurse, her husband talked her into helping physical challenged people sexually. Like my wife and I they are a very open couple and they love sex. Men and women are delighted when she shares her smoking hot body with them.

 

Yeah actually. A man with Distal Myopathy (Essentially he couldn't walk because a protein in his blood stream didn't relay nutrients to his muscles - his legs looked a bit shriveled). He was about 25 and I was 19 at the time. Sweet heart - oh my god he was the kindest man I have ever known. I fucked him many times. Today I'm kinda his bestfriend - on occasion he gives me call to see I'd be willing to work out some of his stress. Unfortunately the two of us had issues we couldn't overcome - namely revolving around his religion. He's since moved on from that - maybe we will get together in a more significant way.

The other was my brothers best friend who managed to get himself into a car wreck and loose his left arm and leg. My brother asked me if I'd fuck him just so the guy would know what it was like. Not my proudest moment, or reason to have sex, but I did comply - he actually had a nice thick dick too - so I'm kinda glad I did though. He hasn't had sex since because people just don't want to, though. Its actually kinda sad. He's a good guy.

 

IM PARALYSED BELOW WAIST BUT I CAN GET HARD AND VERY VERY HORNY

 

I WISH ALL WOMEN THOUGHT LIKE THAT

 

That last part is what I'm frustrated about most. I get that people aren't physically interested in someone who lost an arm and a leg but I still wouldn't mind really, and many women with me, but don't because it smells like pity. Though I think doing someone a pleasure also gets mixed up with pity too often.

 

Damn,make it simple.I think everyone should be able to have a great orgasm.I would help with no problems at all.Think about it,they are human and deserve the pleasures that we easily take advantage of.I am in good shape and do what I want,some cant.Not out of pity from me.I love my O's and so should they.