All you ever hear is how nice guys finish last and how all women want is a nice guy to come along. So basically I just wanna know what the general consensus of the people on this site (mostly ladies because lets face it most guys are gonna try to post something as a joke).

I also just wanna put my input first of nice guys do finish last from my experience. Ive always been a nice person and girls always see me as a friend nothing more and they constantly ask me for advice and help and stay with the same asshole of a guy. I figure im still young (21) and maybe once I get a little older and the women I talk to are a little older this wont even be a problem but i still have my doubts...

 

you can be nice but you want to fuck a woman, right? When you think of a man thrusting into a woman "nice" or "sweet" don't exactly come to mind....

Nice is relative. Every dude has dark desires. Even you.

 

It really depends on HOW you wanna finish . . .

If I'm gonna be last . . . I wanna be nice . . .

and if I wanna be first . . . nice works there too.

 

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i never said i was a saint. just a gentleman when it comes to the treatment of women. in the bedroom is not really what i was talking about.

 

actually nice sweet fuck and thrusting kinda works

just sayin

 

Stay nice, but be a bit more assertive. Don't always wait for girls to notice you; get out and talk to them, make jokes, flirt.

Above all, be honest. Honesty is more valuable than anything else.

 

No woman rejected me because I treated her well.

 

I agree. But romance takes a little bit of role-playing sometimes...

 

Good advice.

 

This is the best comment- advice I have read here.

Just like men want women to be ladies in public and a whore in the bedroom.

Women want men to be confident, but not an egomaniac and chivalrous in public, they then want a "fuck me hard" man in the bedroom.

At least I do! :excited:

 

Bedroom, kitchen, on the stairs...in the barn, over the bonnet of the car...hmm yeah *slobber*

 

Well I couldn't list everywhere I've had sex...... The post would be too long. :excited:

PS-don't you hate how scratchy and rough hay can be?

 

It all adds to the fun...I'm still picking the stuff out of crevisi I didn't know existed :laughing:

 

Most of my relationships have started on honesty; with me saying something along the lines of, "There are any number of guys who will pretend they want a serious relationship, talk about commitment and sharing a future, when all they really want is to get in your knickers and they'll say whatever it takes to get there. I'm not like that. All I want is to get into your knickers, but I'm honest about it."

 

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i was a good man to both my wives, but at some point, they were tired of a good guy,
both ended up with dick weeds, and i am alone, 52, and afraid to be used any more.
learn to be an ass occasionally, it may help.
i am told "awe your so sweet" by most of the girls i know, but sweet doesn't get you laid.

 

I changed my ways when a girl told me "I'd sleep with you, but you're just too darned nice!"

The next girl threatened me with a switch blade when I told her I was going to wash her underwear whether she liked it or not.

 

In the short run yes, I know it all too well. But in the long run the nice guys come out on top.

 

Nice guys don't finish last but boring guys do. You have to look at what you bring to the table. It sounds like you're a good friend and a good listener but that doesn't make for a very interesting partner. Do you have interests outside of work? Can you carry on a conversation? Do you consider yourself shy?