Had a gf, but she's too far away. Looking for a new one!

 

Celibate (married) for the last 10 years but recently met an older woman and her cuckold husband with my stipulation that I would make her cum while her husband watched, but she wasn't allowed to make me cum.

Both sides of the bargain were honored.

 

You need to find a way to 're-spice your wife's sex drive. Or just find a ho. After all, what the Fuck do I know.

 

It isn't about re-spicing, it's about accepting the reality that she is fearful of sex and my efforts were in vain.

Thanks for the input

 

I'm sorry, I didn't mean to take your problem lightly. It's your life we are talking about, and its no joke.
I too had the same problem. I, not saying you should, brought home a young cute guy, and we had a threesome, it opened doors for us, and all is well. I have a few more, but, the point is that if you too are connected, you know her well. Search back, and think of the little hints that she has dropped along the way. It will come to you what she wants.

 

Thanks Chaos1970. No offence taken.

Nice work on getting things going again. There are issues in our case beyond even a threesome with a cute guy. I haven't seen her naked during the 10 years and she won't have a 30-second conversation about it, let alone counselling or somesuch.

As to what she wants - we came together explicitly to have children so I shouldn't be surprised that all she wants are my genes and genius for fatherhood

My position now is not to expect change but rather attempt to find an ethical, responsible way through it for myself.

 

Nope not one here been in a dry spell for the last couple years

 

I need a fuck buddy

 

I need a fuck buddy

 

My coworker with benefits sent me these tonight.

 

Yes, I have a few. Close friends that I also enjoy sex with. The only emotion involved is friendship, and they all know that they can ask me for sex anytime, and if I'm able they have a partner.

 

Rarely long-term. Attachments form and they want more. I suppose I must take some responsibility for this but even the last escort I saw a second time refused payment and wanted to see me on a different level.

 

You will.

 

I have a couple of 'daddies', but not sure if they exactly count. lol. There is my neighbor.

 

Wished I was one of those fuck buddies!

 

I wish @Pdub69 livrd close enough to be my real fuck buddy...

 

Don't have one at the moment

 

I don't call a girl I hook up with just for sex a fuck buddy. I personally think it's insulting, disrespectful and degrading referring to a girl as my fuck buddy. I call her my goomar it makes her feel special even though she knows that she's just my side piece of ass.

 

My neighbor, a darling gay guy. We hang out naked together but never play directly with each other. Sometimes, when the vibes are right and he has a hot date, he invites me over for drinks, we all get naked and I get to watch the blow jobs and play with myself.

 

would like a couple fuck buddies.