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  1. Rebelgirl78

    Rebelgirl78 Sex Lover

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    has anyone ever felt undesirable? And what did you do to make that feeling go away?
     
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      I feel undesirable cuz I can't get any replyz
       
      GlenAnderson, Apr 2, 2017
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  2. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Absolutely, and I have a feeling you'll let me know before I let you know :/
     
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  3. Rebelgirl78

    Rebelgirl78 Sex Lover

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    Well I haven't figured it out yet.
     
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  4. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    Of course not, otherwise you wouldn't be here asking the question. I'm just saying, of the two of us, I'm pretty certain you'll be the first to find out.
     
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  5. Heywood123

    Heywood123 Porn Star

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    I just looked at your pictures and you look pretty damn desirable to me
     
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  6. RCummings

    RCummings Porn Star

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    Yes, when my then BF laughed in my face when I told him one of his mates had sexually assaulted me.
     
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      If that was my BF he would be out the door head first
       
      angelforyou, Mar 30, 2017
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  7. bigred500

    bigred500 Porn Star

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    I tend to retain water and I usually feel self conscious about it.
     
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  8. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    Yes. Very.

    First I needed external validation - like posting pics online and having people say I was hot.

    Then I hit on the more effective method of not giving a fuck what other people think.
     
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    1. seafoam1
      An air of sexuality burns off of you like steam on the hot Georgia asphalt.
      Just in case you were wondering.
       
      seafoam1, Mar 30, 2017
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  9. Tongue69funhole

    Tongue69funhole Sex Machine

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    Get drunk and high
     
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  10. BobMarkey

    BobMarkey Porno Junky

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    Feel undesriable?

    I am undesirable. IRL I'm socially awkward and unattractive, and even the people who love me don't have time for me.
     
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  11. newlicker

    newlicker Porn Star

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    Yes almost every time I look in the mirror and see my scare ,and ugly boob, makes me feel undesirable !
    me.jpg
     
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      Yes, I agree. You have nothing to feel self conscious about.
       
      seafoam1, Mar 30, 2017
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      You are beautiful, I just looked at your photo album. Hot fun Sexy Lady. Please do not fret over the scar, I am thankfull and hopefull that what ever was done had resolved the problem and you are in excelent health. My best to you, You should see my hart bypass scars. Hugs Beaver.
       
      Beavereator, Mar 30, 2017
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      do not be ashamed of your body, it is beautiful
       
      littlepenis, Mar 30, 2017
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    5. E DOG
      I would love to make love to you baby u have a fucken hot body,so u have a scratch on ur titty big woop bet ur pussy is tight as fuck!! and I would still suck on bouth ur nipples and tittys baby
       
      E DOG, Apr 1, 2017
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      Absolutely PERFECT to me!
      I'd take you just the way you are!

      Scars are like tattoo's, they also tell a story of a moment in time in one's life.
       
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      Shopdog, Apr 2, 2017
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  12. angelforyou

    angelforyou Your little bit of heaven From Paradise Banned!

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    Yes after years of hearing off my ex husband how nobody else would want me and the usual verbal abuse but I am stronger than him and no longer feel that way .
     
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      Nor should you Angel.
      I'm willing to bet most all of the derogative comments were from his own insecurities, not yours.
       
      Shopdog, Apr 2, 2017
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  13. seafoam1

    seafoam1 Porn Star

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    I think that this feeling happens to all of us. Whether young or old and male or female we all are under societal pressure to look "perfect", whatever that is. Young women are particularly hit hard with this pressure, and it is completely unreasonable.

    The first thing that you have to do is to love yourself and be comfortable in your own skin. Don't listen to the haters because they are just miserable people trying to bring you down.
     
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  14. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    I'm sure we all get this way, hopefully it's only from time to time. If you don't feel this way occasionally you are likely a POS narcissist, who I have no interest in knowing!
     
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  15. Rebelgirl78

    Rebelgirl78 Sex Lover

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    That is wat my problem is. After 11 yrs of being told no one will ever want you. Amongst other.
    I have a wonderful man Thor-Hard and he always tells me I'm beautiful and shows me how desirable I am.
    And I still can't get the feeling that I'm not sexy enough out of the back of mind.
     
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      You are beautiful inside and out dear. My sexy lady :missionary::fuck::sperm:
       
      Thor-hard, Apr 2, 2017
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  16. springsteen79

    springsteen79 xnxx lifer

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    With I hope this fades away. So sad when those close to us cause us to feel bad about ourselves! Happy you have a good man now!
     
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  17. CFH3ll

    CFH3ll OMERTA'

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    Usually when I'm feeling undesirable I'll find a ron Jeremy flick just to boost my ego...

    You can do it....:pervert_2:
     
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      Nice CFH!!!
       
      Shopdog, Apr 2, 2017
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  18. Rothko

    Rothko Porn Star

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    My wife saying no all the time has made me feel pretty undesirable. The other day she told me that we had been married so long 'what did I expect '. Great !
     
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  19. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    It's the doubt of external vs internal narrative. You have a wonderful man telling you good, your inner self is telling you bad. Everyone before was telling you bad, so it just reinforced that internal narrative. This man is someone who wants to break that cycle and bring a new narrative to your life. Please, do your best to let him, remember there is one, and you'll start to believe it too. Love isn't when someone else fixes you. Love is when someone else holds your hand while you fix yourself. Let him hold your hand so you can stand tall again.
     
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