My work friend is getting horny, she loves cum, we're going to get together tomorrow night. Any other ladies get so turned on by texting that you decide to do something you said you wouldn't. She told me we were done with the sex part of friendship but looks like we're at it again

 

I think it depends on the level of benefits.

For instance, in college I had a friend who was a girl. I was her friend and my benefit was I could come to her room hang out while she got dressed all the time.

Her benefit was she got a guys company to chat with, my benefit was I got to see an average girl topless countless times and even completely naked a few times.

 

I've had FWBs and I've never had any problems in any of those types of friendships... got one now and I'd love to have another...

 

First time I saw my wife I thought, "I'm going to have some of that". I found out a couple of years later that she thought exactly the same. 4 years of intense sex later we got married and 46 years after that we still cum a couple of times a week at least. We're a good match and best buddies so you never know where things are going.

 

For most of my adulthood, the term and the 'friends' have been a welcome part of my life but its not working so well recently and its clear what's changed. The ball is on the other foot. I want a little more substance in my life. I think once that decision has been made, its difficult to draw a line. All or nothing sort of thing, which isn't working out so well for me. Work in progress.

 

FWB is the best!!!!
Have to be able to handle that is just a fucking relationship though.

 

On the other hand, a good friendship can be the benefit.

 

works for those who have good communication with each other.

 

Going to spend some time in a hotel room with my FWB tomorrow, she's horney as hell, me too. We actually started to tell each other what we liked and what we wanted, she's good with all my wishes and I am with her. She's already told me how she'll swallow my cum so I can watch. More to come if anyone interested.

 

So we finally met in a motel, she was dressed in a black outfit, fishnet stockings and all. She had her hands in my pants in a heartbeat. Eventually we got naked and had our way with each other, she sucked my cock and balls until I came in her mouth and she swallowed every bit of cum. I returned the favor and she was a happy lady when she came in my mouth also. She got back on my cock and sucked trying for a second shot, she was good and persistant and got me off a second time. Definitely going to do this again asap.

 

It has worked out quite well with me. I've had a lot of BFs, and continued sexually with most after we broke up. What is really the downside of NSA sex with someone you can trust?

Like all things sexual, be open, be honest, use common sense and you'l be fine.

 

I've had one. as with any type of relationship, there can be drama. but, he will do things hubby can't or won't. and there's no worry of anything more, because we can't get along more than a couple hours at a time. lol

 

fwb means just that---friends--- if you're in a relationshjp, then let it be known---if you want to swing, everyone needs to be on thr same page...period---if you want something besides swinging, I'll get back to you---have other ideas that we do to spice things up

 

I did FWB. The experience was definitely fun. Sex was great and a level of comfort was there. But the catching feelings thing is definitely real. Even if you are willing to accept it will be nothing more, it's still a bit hard to deal with. By the end of my FWB, I lost one of my closest friends, and so at this point I kinda wish it was just friends. Think about if shit hits the fan for some reason, is this a friend you'd want to lose because you chose the benefits?

 

Gotta let all involved know exactly what they in for , no misleading , no lies , keep it straight up , Nobody wants to be friends with someone who is gonna lie to them

 

Oh, it would have been easier to lie to him I think. It takes a lot of courage to be honest, just like lying doesn't always give you the wanted outcome, same goes with being honest. Some people just deal with certain issues differently I suppose. Some can handle and some can't.

 

It never ends well, but enjoy the ride.

 

If both parties are very honest about what's going on and what's expected, I believe that it can work. But too often people just can't be honest.

 

I've come to realize that my FWB is also a bit of a tease. We had a few minutes to spend alone and chat after work the other day. She mentions that she's shaved clean recently after we met, really turned me on and I told her. She asks me what do I prefer a 'landing strip' or something else? I think my new ladyfriend is more experienced than I realized. A question for anyone out there, I'm probably naïve about this but would a modern day lady know about 'landing strips' etc. just from everyday living?

 

So oralguy I suppose it would depend on how computer savy she is, is she a member on this forum or other forums like this. I have always been amazed at what women will discuss when 2 or more are chatting over a cocktail or 2. You could always just ask her, I've always been pretty open with my FWB's over the years.