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  1. Mike_1

    Mike_1 Porn Surfer

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    I love my beautiful sexy wife and she knows I'm bi. but won't do anything to satisfy my needs (that way) If she would have oral sex with me or fuck me with a toy. Even watching gay or bi videos would really help.

    Then the second question is:

    Do you think it is cheating if I'm just having safe sex with guys?


    Let me know your thoughts.
     
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  2. madmax400f

    madmax400f Porno Junky

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    Yes it's cheating if she doesn't agree with it.
     
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  3. gibino

    gibino Sex Lover

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    Yes, it's cheating.


    Start by discussing it with her. Let her know that you're only fantasizing, and that it won't stretch into real life. If she's still uncomfortable with that, I honestly think the best thing to do is keep it to yourself. I know it sucks to keep something like that inside, but you made a promise to her, which should really mean something.
     
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  4. AdamB

    AdamB Sex Machine

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    Definitely cheating.
     
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  5. Nick Nayme

    Nick Nayme Sex Lover

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    It's cheating if she considers it cheating. Jealousy doesn't depend on gender.
     
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  6. MintyKisses

    MintyKisses Sweetly Seductive

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    Yeah. Some people don't mind if their husbands do things like that and some people do, it just depends on what type of person you married. Talk to her about it.
     
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  7. Voyeur_89

    Voyeur_89 Sex Lover

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    11 year bump ✊
     
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  8. Marvin65

    Marvin65 Porn Star

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    Yes it is cheating
     
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  9. mature gina

    mature gina Naughty Nurse

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    I believe it's cheating also. A fantasy is one thing but it sounds like you have marital issues that need help.
     
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  10. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    I wonder what he did and what happened.
     
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  11. newlicker2

    newlicker2 Porn Star

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    if you are hiding it from your wife ? Yes , you are cheating ! It doesn't matter who you are doing it with !
     
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  12. geileklodders

    geileklodders Proud cum player

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    In these eleven years nobody's been asking what the first question was.
     
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      I did, I did.
       
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  13. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    Of course it's cheating @Mike_1 hopefully that's the last of your obvious questions LOL? In all seriousness it can be frightening and quite confusing when seemingly out of nowhere this curiosity surfaces and very commonly for men when we're already in a relationship that would be compromised. The fact that your lover won't let you cheat or (if applicable) especially with a man is an unfortunate position to be in so I won't be the one to tell you to cheat or not to cheat because I have.

    But my venture into men was at a time where I had already cheated and had previous mistresses up to being advantaged enough for an FWB to present himself and then later to introduce another one of my curious friends to it. Whatever you decide just remember to weigh the benefit to the cost before pursuing it and good luck!
     
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  14. amethyst10

    amethyst10 Porn Star In XNXX Heaven

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    What was the first question? I believe that anything sexual that you do with another person regardless of gender is cheating if your wife doesn't know about it.
     
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  15. Niceguy49

    Niceguy49 Porn Star

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    I think the answer it pretty conclusive. It's cheating.
     
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