I am curious about all of these gay for straight posts. If you go on a site like double list you will find tons of them. Why do gay men like to have sex with straight guys? I mean wouldn't you rather have another gay man so that you could both pleasure each other? Over the years I have had many gay men hit on me despite knowing that I was married and not interested. Can someone explain this phenomenon to me I am truly curious.

 

Why do some lesbians seek straight girls?
Answer is simple, the challenge

 

Got to be more to it. Maybe I am not understanding something.

 

Um, there is also something so purely masculine about a straight bro who is just so horny that he'll let a dude get him off. That's a unique energy and it can be very intense.

 

Desperate sex is usually really intense sex.

 

The truth is in taking virginity. All men like to be first... At least in sex

 

I can't speak for all members of any sexual preference but I've heard from enough gay friends that all men are at least bi if they'd give themselves to it.
Not much different than white women who are into black men exclusively, thinking all women are, even if they don't acknowledge it.
or someone into BDSM wanting to think everyone, even the most vanilla ones, would enjoy it if they just let themselves.
You're better off not making all inclusive comments about members of group.

 

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I agree with your thoughts completely.

When I was stripping, I stripped for female audiences only. I'm no homophobe, but I'm not at all into men. I'm not curious or interested at all. I could never understand why they would offer me 4 or 5 times my price to strip for them. WHY would they want me to be there if I wasn't at all into what I was doing?

If I had performed for all the gay men who tried to hire me, I could probably retire now.

 

What kind of blew my mind is the way I was approached. They just meandered up and propositioned me and expected me to just say yes without even knowing my preferences. I am not at all homophobic. I do have some threesome curiosities should the opportunity develop organically. But in this day and age I am just not going to say yes without knowing even one thing about that person. My wife is into community theater and has a lot of gay friends. I found it odd that they would be calling the house when they knew she was not here and I would be answering the phone. They were acquaintances I would not really consider them friends of mine but they tried to keep me on the phone and continued to pry into issues that were none of their business. I am not an ugly guy by any means but I don't consider myself a Richard Gere either. LOL. I have never had a woman walk up to me and proposition me. But it seems to happen all the time with men.

 

I totally agree. I wrote an imagined straight guy sene with me right in there, I'll share.

 

Those guys are not straight, they're bi.

 

Like others I can't speak for everyone, but straight guys often fuck better than gay guys. They can be discreet, drama free and hot as fuck.

 

I don't pursue straight guys or even those who identify as bi curious. I don't want to be somebody's learning experience or deal with their awkward post-coital regret. Have had enough of both of those.

 

Im inclined to say most men are try sexual not bi most men will try anything sexual and continue to do so if it feels good but this only my opinion men are perverted hell that is why we're here instead of being in Bible study or some shit I just don't understand why we classify ourselves anyway please understand that I'm not trying to make anyone mad or anything like that but think about it we are all animals at hart and only want to feel good we as men should be classified as perverts I believe this my self not to hurt but as truth but that is the belief of one big perv me . but really isn't that what we really are again that is only my belief and I'm probably the biggest perv you will ever know

 

To me, its like hitting on married women. The challenge of it all. BTW nice cock...

 

I'm sorry but straight guys don't fuck other guys. Just like gay men don't have sex with women. I mean this isn't rocket science.

 

I’m not somebody on those post, so I can’t speak for them. But from my experience a lot of men who have sex with men like the idea of strong masculinity. Most of the men I meet through dating apps that say things around being straight or whatnot tend to be more flamboyant than I am. I should say though, I don’t get caught up on how a guy identifies sexually and never ever ask. What I do look for in someone is their consent (even if it is consensual-nonconsenual sex). I wouldn’t want to try and have sex with a guy who isn’t into it. I enjoy the other guys dick being hard and seeing them cum