ok well, i thought i was straight up untill the other day, when i noticed that admitting to myself i would do all sorts of things to a cock that a guy straight guy normally wouldent, but the thought of actually dating a guy is...well...not my fancy:neutral: and while i still like the female anatomy, i also like cocks, but not guys in general, so does this make me bi or gay or what???

 

you'd be surprise what you learn from Dr. Drew. (anyone else LOVE that radio show?) anyway, its not common that you find a guy that likes just cock but its about 10 percent. I remember someone calling in saying the exact same thing you're talking about. He said its not common, but its nothing to go as far as saying you're gay or bisexual. a select amount of guys play with anal toys when they masterbate or picture themselves playing with a cock. and its not as bad as you think. a good indicator i think would be if you like the "girl doing guy" or "shemale" tabs on the free porn area but strayed from the entire "gay" tab. is that about right?

 

yea! exactly! i dont like the gay tabs...no no those are turn offs but the shemales turn me on something fierce, but thats noting to worry about then right???

 

I second the opinion that

the Loveline crew had...there is nothing wrong with you.

I believe that many guys are actually fascinated with cock as that is what they spend the majority of their time talking about and do not forget the classic "peek in the gym room". By placing cocks in unusual situtions (ie on girls / she-males) it allows you to concentrate only on the item of interest in the area that might be more native to you (ie women).

 

I dunno, you could always imagine yourself making out, or getting head or something from a cute guy, and if it works than maybe there's something more to it than just liking the cock. Sexuality is a spectrum, so you could just be discovering that you're like a Kinsey 1 or 2 as opposed to a 0.

 

*sigh*

 

Good grief, Charlie Brown, ANOTHER guy worrying about whether he's gay or not. What IS it with you guys, anyway??!!:???:

I didn't worry about whether I was a lesbian...I just...kinda took the plunge.

 

It's not cancer.

Nothing to worry about? It's not a wart we're talking about. I can laugh a bit, only because I can relate a bit. And I've been able to tailor an identity just for me.

The long and short of it, I've always been a very SEXUAL person. I masturbated somewhat often, and of course a large portion of your turn ons are mental. My "bi" side started to come out, I guess because it felt "naughty" or wrong. For some reason, it turned me on.

I absolutely LOVE women, and men won't ever turn me on the same. Hell, men still disgust me a bit. Hairy, smelly, lumpy, man-faced. Women are beautiful, but a man/cock can still turn me on. I woud never date a man, don't ever want to kiss a man, but I got to mess around with one once. I totally loved it. Not more than women, but it's different and fun.

I'm able to seperate my sexual feelings from real ones, so I'm not worried if I'm gay, bi, or what. I just listen to myself, and it doesn't steer me wrong. Good luck with finding that out for yourself.

P.S. The shemal thing never worked for me. Different strokes, eh? :twisted:

 

strange i was just thinking the same, and to be honest it is the most frighting thing ive ever had I can never imagine myself dating a guy ergh no, but the other day gay porn kinda turned me on and since that ive felt ill depressed miserable all sorts going through my head what happens if i dont have kids now, i mean women i still love them but i just cant get this oh shit if im gay thing out of my head because i know its so wrong.
so miserable about it.

 

[pounds head on wall] (Anybody got a smiley for this? It seems like I'm using it a lot.)

1) Sexuality is a spectrum. There no sure way to tell whether a person straight, bi, or gay.

2) Straight people can still derive pleasure from relations with members of the same sex. Homosexuals can still derive pleasure from relations with the opposite sex.

3) Why do you care? It doesn't matter how you define yourself, what matters is what you're going to do about it.

4) [deleted because it was insulting.]

 

I think that at your age, ideas of the absolute nature of sexual orientation are much more important. As you get older it becomes a lot less scary to realise that you may be on a different point on that scale to what is considered 'normal'.

Rule one: There is no 'normal'....do not be afraid...do not think in absolute terms....'Am I gay or am I straight ?'.....and it is not 'wrong'!!

As I said on the previous post, don't judge yourself !

Oh, and by the way........completely irrelevant, but we have the same birthday.......:-D

 

Like Bobby McFairen used to say "Don't Worry, Be Happy"

 

A lot of guys care if they are gay its like throwing your pride in the dumpster, butfor girls they can express wider feelings toward something.


Guys + Stubborn = 20000
Girls + Stubborn = 200
Wow I confuse myself >.<

 

Frankly......you're confusing me too!!!

 

Me 3

 

Ok ok let me clear this up Guys are more stubborn then girls

Guys have a sense of pride like "Im so big I can never be gay"

Girls are more open to options "well yea I think im lesbian I don't know"

 

Sorry but I disagree

 

I guess you could disagree, meh never go to those suicide seminars at your nieces school.

 

There's nothing wrong with being gay. I'm gay, and I love it. When you're gay you don't have to play by all the rules straight people play by, you don't have a preset life ahead of you, you're free to do what you want. You can still have kids, you can still have a life-long partner, you can still be happy, you can still be successful, you can still fall in love, you can still be a great person, but not if you choose to label it as something wrong. Than you become miserable and hateful like Ted Haggard. There's nothing at all wrong with being gay.