am abt 5 inches, gf rarely sucks me, other day she did, and jus took the head in, i asked her to take it all in her mouth, she said its too big, is she kidding me? i mean am jus 5 inches, or was she teasing me abt my size?

 

SO whats ur point. if all she can take is the head then it is to big. or shes nervous to take it all in or afraid to gag. no worries. hey if you love licking her keep it up.

 

You are not alone. Why are women so unfair? lick me but heaven forbid I touch you.

 

i hear that. my girlfriend is the same way. im a bit bigger than you (7inches), but she can only take about half in, but ive watched her deepthroat a popsicle. Maybe the girth is an issue too. who knows.

 

Oral sex for a lot of women is a trust and intamcy issue so the fact that she won't says there could somethign wrong with your reltionship cause is if she was totally aganst it she wouldn't do even the head.
And if it bothers you that much that she won't return te favor do what i did when I dated women that wouldn't don't do it for them.

 

aint dat a bitch

 

More than likely...

She probaly is....

 

Some girls have shallow mouths. How about you try and take a cock in your mouth?

 

Well, is she at least enthusiastic about it? Licking your shaft and sucking your balls and stroking you cock nice and hard while she sucks hard on that head?

You can't expect most of them to be cock swallowing pornstars. If she doesn't do the above you might have to do with someone a bit to shelfish and just using you, or someone afraid of a bad sexual experience (which she should tell you about to clear things up). If she is a selfish bitch, dump her ass.

 

I think you need to be a little more detailed about the situation here. Is she just plain against sucking cock? cause if so, she doesn't deserve you licking her pussy.
but if there is some other reason, like she honestly can't, and wants to, or is afraid for some reason, then it's more understandable. I think you need to talk to her seriously about it and find out the reason. for example, I know a girl who was sexually abused as a child (including being forced to suck off a full grown man) and when she began dating and being sexually active, she simply couldn't give head because of her traumatizing childhood experience. seriously, there could be something else at work here if it's not just "ew, i don't want that in my mouth"

 

Huh.

I was in that situation.

Fuckin' bitch she turned out to be, too. I'm bloody glad I'm shot of her.

 

Withhold oral sex.

 

can you say selfish???

 

must be your girth, if you were a pencil it wouldn't be an issue.

Would you rather be thick, or be a pencil

Tell her to go down as far as she can, use her hand in addition to sucking on your cock and make sure it is nice and wet with lots of drool all over, or at least she should put some lube on her hand.

Maybe you would like it is she stuck her finger up your ass too

 

Maybe she has a small mouth, or a strong gag reflex. As long as she is sucking your cock and not refusing too, it's all good. I think you two need to work on technique, figure out something that would work for the both of you. I don't think you want her to vomit on your cock now, would you?

Your post shows some slight igorance, it is not all about the length. I'd rather have a thick one then a longer pencil dick any woman would agree

 

You also need to find out why she rarely sucks you. Maybe it's the smell of ball sweat or something. You could always clean each other first. If smell and taste isn't an issue, ask her what's wrong.

Life is too short not to experience oral. IMO, sex without oral is boring after awhile

 

Doesn't really matter, my experience is a woman who doesn't want to suck your cock is going to do a bad job if she does. Who wants a half ass blow job? Not me.By the same token, guys who don't want to eat pussy aren't going to do it worth a shit! I don't understand why people stay in relationships with people they are not sexually compatable.

 

Agreed. If there is not a reason that you can (and therefore should) fix the problem, I'd have one word for her--"Bye."

 

I hope you are bigger than a popsicle

Popsicles and pencils don't stimulate the gag reflex because they are slim enough to avoid that area. A cock is much thicker.

 

I feel bad for the guys with the giant cocks, it is more difficult for them to get a proper blowjob. Women have an easier time if it is smaller.

My friend told me about one guy that complained to her about his large size. He said that his size is difficult for some women, especially because he prefers petite women (5ft). He wishes it was smaller. I saw his pictures, he is a very attractive guy too. Must be rough, being a '10' with a huge cock

Seriously though, there is such a thing as too big