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  1. BFH_Auto

    BFH_Auto Porn Surfer

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    Recently my girlfriend says that I take too long to cum. Is there such a thing as having sex for too long.
     
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  2. johnnyboost

    johnnyboost Porn Star

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    Yes, IMO there is. If it's mind blowing sex for 20 minutes, that's better than so so sex for 2 hours. Quality over quantity!
     
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  3. BFH_Auto

    BFH_Auto Porn Surfer

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    No doubt, but she doesn't even want to go that long. She used to like it to last a long time though.
     
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  4. bearman9567

    bearman9567 Sex Machine

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    lol well most people cum in minutes so feel lucky
     
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  5. crazed7343

    crazed7343 Porn Surfer

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    If this is truely a problem where u take way to long and its just not your girl not being turned on as much by sex anymore (it happens with long-term relationships sometimes). Not all people are the same but for some sex turns into that thing you'd rather do once a week or month, can't deny thats how some people are.

    But as said if she's more than willing to do the act and the only problem is you take to long, if it's possible if your not already doing it don't use a condom. If thats not an option or your already doing that, it could also be a problem that your girl is becoming more dry as sex continues, as this happens it becomes alot less pleasurable for her and could begin to even hurt her, so lube, etc. could help this.

    Finally if your having trouble going it could be from dull, routine sex. It never really became a problem but I did realize that overtime for me with some previous less excieting girls I've been with it did take longer as sex continued regularly. So try and spice it up some, and ask her to do the same!
     
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  6. ipscout

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    Maybe you cannot get off because you are subconsciously only attracted to men, even though you won't admit it to yourself.

    BEEP![​IMG]
     
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  7. BFH_Auto

    BFH_Auto Porn Surfer

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    That's good advice. We've been dating for about 2 years now and do pretty much everything except bondage. Maybe the lube idea might help.
     
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  8. Kimiko

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    There IS such a thing as too long, particularly if the guy is just pounding away relentlessly, with his eyes closed and an expression that says "I think I can, I THINK I can, I THINK I can!!!"

    What you have to do is approach your love-making more creatively -- if you do it right, it won't matter how long you take. And you might find that if you relax a little and stop putting pressure on yourself (or stop letting HER put pressure on you), you'll have an easier time reaching orgasm.

    But there might be another problem here -- that she's just not enjoying herself and wants you to get it over with. You need to try and appeal more to her fantasies, do what SHE wants -- if you can figure that out or if she's willing to tell you.
     
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  9. mihei75

    mihei75 Newcumer Suspended!

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    thank you
     
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  10. miked1212

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    my girlfriend sometimes says the same thing...can't be a bad thing in my opinion
     
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  11. Funilingus

    Funilingus Porno Junky

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    How to tell you've been at it too long:

    She's getting sore.
    You're getting sore.
    You have chaffing in bad places.
    You might cum, if you had feeling in your dick.
    When you started, the Tonight Show was on TV...
    and it still is, but with a different host.
     
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  12. Athellion

    Athellion Porn Surfer

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    Well you could try other positions, some that are more comfortable for her.

    You could also fool around abit more like mutual masterbation, try finding out what fantasy shed like role played and such anything to make it as exciting as ever ^_^

    My GF doesnt like me going for to long coz she says it gets to sore but if that happens we end up just rubbing, sucking, fingering anything to finish us off :)
     
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