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  1. Thor-hard

    Thor-hard Sex Lover

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    I feel bad for watching porno and chatting sometimes even though she says its ok. I don't mean anything by it. She is sexy and turns me on. I just like porn and seeing and reading new things. As I get older I feel it takes more to get in the mood. Anyone else feel this way? It's more a fantasy thing to me.
     
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  2. AyaLaRoux

    AyaLaRoux Sex Machine

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    How does she feel about you showing your dick here?
     
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  3. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    If she's okay with it, stop worrying about it. Especially if you're using it to get more turned on so you can have sex with her. If you start watching porn and chatting instead of having sex with her, then it's a problem.
     
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  4. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos Milo Cronos & Lil' Donna OFFICIALLY

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    If it it enriches and doesn't encumber your relationship than it's all good do what's needed.
     
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  5. Thor-hard

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    She is alright with that . She doesn't like me talking to other ladies sometimes but, I always tell them about her..
     
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      And yet you do talk to other ladies, knowing that she doesn't like it. But I guess as long as you tell them about her all is well. NOT! I think she deserves more respect than you are giving her.
       
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  6. Thor-hard

    Thor-hard Sex Lover

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    what about watching and chatting while having sex with her?
     
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  7. VenusInFurze

    VenusInFurze Online Odalisque

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    If she is okay with it I don't see a problem with that either.
     
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  8. Rebelgirl78

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    Watching porn while having sex is ok. Lots of couples do it.
    But private chatting with other women during sex is a conversation best left untouched.
    When having sex a person should be into their partner not a chat conversation w someone else.
    Because sometimes u can make ur partner feel like they don't matter. Or make them feel like they let u down sexually
     
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      I gues i'm old school, I need to be engaged with my partner, looking into her eyes, feeling het tits under me,feeling her legs on my back,and not chating about it, for me it's like going out to dinner and staring at ur cell phones all night. no communication.
       
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  9. Thor-hard

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    That's never the case though sexy! It's more or less a fetish foreplay thing...
     
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  10. speakeasy

    speakeasy Porn Star

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    Kevin:
    Why not get her to join you?
    Let her pick out some porn that she wants to see.
    It might not be your particular "thing" but if it gets her involved it can only be a good thing.
    Try to remember that women generally aren't as visually stimulated as men are when it comes to sex so just showing her hard core, close up, pounding sex, probably won't be her go-to.
    Stimulate her mind and it will stimulate her body.

    Nina knew I was on this and a couple of other forums and didn't really care one way or the other.
    Then one night she heard me laughing and asked me what was so funny.
    I read her a particularly stupid (in my opinion) question and she said something in reply so I typed her response.
    It wasn't long before that became a regular part of being here so I changed our status from male to couple.

    Most of the time I'm the one doing the typing even if it's her doing the talking.
    Even she'll tell you that I'm better at telling a story than she is.
    I try to make it clear who's "talking" when I type.
    If it's not obvious from the content, I'll say who's responding.
     
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  11. CFH3ll

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    I've fucked a chick before and gave her my phone to talk to another chick while we fucked but never been texting someone or on a porn site during sex unless only to watch porn. Unless your partner is into that kinda thing i don't see a reason why he or she would need to be preoccupied with someone else unless you just didn't do much for them.
     
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  12. HylianAlchemist

    HylianAlchemist Hyrule's Alchemic Philosopher

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    There's a YouTuber I used to watch regularly who was asked a similar question, and I do like what he says about this. It's in our nature to want to seek out other mates or be aroused by other people, and that's ok. What isn't ok is acting on those impulses in a way that hurts our partner. So his opinion, and mine as well, is to let that attraction and hornyness from others fuel what you do to your partner. You see a hot girl on a train, and think "Damn the things I'd do to her," guess what, go do those things to your girlfriend. If someone else sets your heart ablaze, just make sure she's the one who gets to enjoy it.
     
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  13. Hush

    Hush Happy Hhedonist

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    You already answered your own question unless it was not sincere. If it makes you feel bad, then it is bad. Also, contrary to what others here suggest, don't be so sure that just because she is "okay with it," that she is really okay with it. She may simply be tolerating it until she has had enough. Then you may have an opportunity to watch and chat till your heart is content... Alone.

    Hush....an alias
     
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  14. Jack Mine

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    I'm married and I don't feel bad or guilty at all watching porn and chatting. My wife got mad when she seen me watching porn onetime and asked me if that's what I needed now and wanted to know why I need to watch porn and jerk off when I have her? I asked her why did she need to suck and fuck the guy she worked with when she had me? I watch what the fuck I want now, don't get me wrong I don't flaunt it in front of her I have more respect than that, I tell her that I'm going in the bathroom to jerk off looking at some cock online.
     
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  15. Thor-hard

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    Good to hear everyone's opinions on this subject. I will say something about what happens with her female friends in her circle. All of there bf's cheat and get caught and the girls still stay. I think chatting and porn are harmless compared to that. Would you want your man by your side fantasizing or out making it a reality?
     
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  16. Hush

    Hush Happy Hhedonist

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    Many women view it all as the same. That is attention you are giving to another woman, not her. And I cannot even count the couples I have met where though together everyday, neither one cheating, to one or both the relationship was already dead though they went through the daily motions. They're just waiting for an opportunity to bolt. I think you're putting too much value on you simply physically living in the same home.

    Hush....an alias
     
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  17. Thor-hard

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    That goes back to the old m and f differences in their thought patterns. A man feels more physical attraction where as a woman feels more emotional feelings.
     
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  18. hardwood69

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    I am with Thor on this. What I don't understand is why so many people can be wrong about someone they in one way or another vomit to. Life is too short to stay in a relationship that will shorten it even more
     
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  19. amethyst10

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    Like Hush said, if it makes you feel bad, then it probably is bad. I believe if you feel guilty, there's probably a good reason. I wouldn't mind if my guy watches porn unless he feels like he NEEDS to watch it in order to perform. We have watched it together on occasion to get in the mood but neither of us NEEDS it to get in the mood so it's just kind of a novelty. And we've never watched while we were having sex. The porn stops before we get "down to business".
     
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