does a girl like it when i guy comes after she cums or before? and approximately how long does it take a girl to cum? and how lon gdoes she want the guy to hold it in for?

 

well, as a guy i can tell you this. find ways to make her cum first, ie: oral, fingering hir clit. I like to get me gf off first before i even tink about cumming. it show her that i am thinking about her pleasure over mine. as for how long it take, there is no way to know, my gf tkaes anywhere from 5 mins to an hour. it really depneds on how horny she is to startas for you, dont blow it in like 30 sec, give yourself a good 20mins to a half hour when you start to feel the urge.

hope this was helpful.

 

I'd rather that we both cum at the same time

 

Most of the time my wife and I either climax together or within seconds of each other. It doesn't matter if its a quickie or if we slow down and take our time. It's a damn good way to end a session. There was also a little bit of practice involved before we could achieve this on a regular basis.

 

Depands on what were doing, if i'm sucking him i want it in my mouth so i like him to cum first. If were fucking its nice together

 

True, I like her to cum atleast once B4 me though.

 

from experience i'll tell you, they love it when u can cum w/ em.
but, for all practical purposes, this isn't always a viable option. so, what to do.
condoms are good for obvious reasons plus they reduce sensitivity and prolong
ejaculation. if good enough, u can just time your cum w/ hers but that requires
experience. foreplay and her arousal b4 sex is a big help. that could get her on
the way to cumming much faster. blah blah blah, just practice!!!!

 

Together is nice, but since we both cum several times, I guess it doe4snt matter

 

yes and this is from someone of my age gap i'm sure,

 

I always try to take care of my girl before I climax, but some times she doesn;t want it that way and some times I just can't hold back. -Deck

 

I like it after "I" cum

I'm a girl and I like cumming around stone-hard dick, my pussy muscles massaging and gripping the hell out of stiff as steel dick. It just makes the whole experience better for me. But that's just me.

I've done the "at the same time" thing, and it's okay . . . well, actually it's great because it feels like you guys shared the same moment. But coming around rock-hard dick, man that's nice and if he continues making love to me, it prolongs my orgasm.

I don't know about other women, but my partners say that when I cum my pussy grips really hard and it feels really good to them and adds to their orgasm because its like I'm "milking" them.

Also, if my partner has real finesse, he can build me up slowly AGAIN for a second round or orgasm, which is fun too.

So my vote is I'd like the guy to cum AFTER me.

 

Girls can hold it on, they get repeated orgasms. Guys find it difficult to hold the cum soon after orgasm unless they immediately take their mind away from the act

 

I like to make sure my girl has one from cunnilingus first, then she usually has another while I'm in her pussy, and finally another another when I cum, no matter where. I'm lucky tho - she has amazing control over her body and orgasms. Cumming at the same time from mutual masturbation is great too. Watching her cum drives me nuts!

 

Personally, I have no problem with a guy coming first, as long as he's good for Round 2...or 3....or 4....

 

Personally, I have no problem with a guy coming first, as long as he's good for Round 2...or 3....or 4....
Ok you won the first round!

 

That's so funny!

 

Kim: me and Matt have a good thing going... I am an exhibitionist...he is a voyuer so I love to dress sexy and masturbate for him while he watches... I normaly get myself off atleast once during this... then Matt comes and licks me out (and he is the best pussey licker I have ever known...even better than other women!)...Matt knows just how to get me and I often come three or four times before he finaly relents and slams his cock into me... god its good!
In short... unless its a quicky I am always gaurenteed at least one orgasum.

Matt: what Kim fails to say is that I have never been one to last very long, I wish I could. But this method makes up for my shortfall. she also has a rubber cock very similal to mine and if we have the time and NRG I will often fuck her with that afew times.
Ofcource having done all the above I'm always way to turned on to last long anyway and Kim almost always offers her ass to me to fuck and Oh Boy! does that get me going.

 

We like to go together,but if not she goes first.

 

Dude, this thread has been dead for over 2 years. Why?

 

for me my wife likes it when i cum first i have no idea why because i always tell her i could start to get soft afterwards but she still wants it that way. and as far as cumming together i doubt that woud happen cause for some reason my wife has makes me stop thrusting so she can grab my ass and cum.