I'm a lover and a fighter, a father, husband, grandfather and friend! Having sex or making love to them is just the minor psychological shift of caring for the excitation and sexual exhilaration of the one your with? The world shifts away as your enraptured by the warmth and slow hand of a really reflective personality..........................

 

Everybody can LEARN to be a great lover, but most women don't tell men what they want and most men don't bother learning anything new because their ego tells them they're good enough.

 

Well I never stop learning and I make sure my partners never stop learning either!

Thinskin

 

But are you happy..? Is that to personal..? If so, please ignore me.

 

I have to accept that I am not a great or even a good lover. That will be part of the reason I haven't had sex for over a year now. My wife has simply given up on me.
I can honestly say I have never met any woman who wanted to have sex with me unless they actually wanted something else from me. I don't think most women see sex in the way men do, all too often it is simply a means to an end.

 

I'm happy for many of the choices I've made throughout my lifetime and wouldn't change them as they've given me my experience. Presently not having an active sensual and/or sexual love affair to show for it or speak of has been very disheartening, it hurts but thank you for asking.

 

Always listen to the needs of your partner. It would be easy for me to go in, day in and day out, and hammer away at my wife and be done. But that's just not right at all. If I don't bring her to orgasm, I don't feel like I did a good enough job making love the way I intended. It does happen time to time, but to continually do it shows you're only it to blow your load, and nothing else. That's why some women look for more elsewhere, and I can't blame them. Keep it fresh, surprise her, and put all the attention on her. That's the formula for sexy and great lovemaking and the key to an emotional bonding.

 

Unfortunate but so true.

 

I can't imagine not tossing new ideas to my wife. Throw new stuff out to her and see what sticks. She'll be very impressed that you want to bring in some extra spice to the relationship.

 

I've decided on a positive path to our future that will put me in dual citizenship in the Netherlands in 3 to 5 years while certifying in my fields Nutrition, Strength and Conditioning! An integral part is separating myself from traditional sex to the Princess treatment (pussy eating only) and rather soberly have Good Morning Sex, penetrative and focused exclusively on sesuality!

I'll be working on a webcam studio and home gym for N. A. S. (North American Strongman ) training at 49 so that I can account for my choices to exhilaration once again!