Sorry if this post sounds really bad I know what I want to say just not how to say it. I got a great compliment this week... I was nervous to have sex with my new gf for the first time, I am 27 and have had sex many times, but I get nervous before each new person. I told her that I was worried I wouldn't be good enough for her. Well the day after Valentines we got a hotel room together, and decided to have sex... After we were all done she told me that I shouldn't have been nervous I was the first guy that ever got her off during just the act of sex and didn't have to use foreplay. It felt great to hear that.

 

nice. . . .always helps gtting a compliment like that after the first time with someone!

 

Very nice compliment... But it also may have been a discreet hint that she generally looks for more foreplay. I'm just saying, don't rest on your laurels.

 

Yes i agree with babble.. Usually just one thing alone is enough, But that doesn't mean you should depend on that all the time.. Throw in some foreplay to work her up to that moment.. Then when she's close.. Then have sex.. And push her past that point of climax.. And i bet she will be giving you more compliments after that. lol :excited:

 

Did she also tell you you had the biggest she's ever seen?? LOL J/K

 

The first time, I believe, always includes some nervousness, no matter how experienced you may be - it's just normal!

On the other hand, as other people here have already mentioned, she has probably given you a hint.

Don't discuss it, just act it next time you have sex, and see what turns her on.

Also check if she is verbal during sex or not.
If she is, than you can just ask her to tell you where, what and how she likes it.

It will surely open a new window or door into your relationship.

Good luck!

 

I've been there. Once knew a girl who said she'd marry the first guy to give her an orgasam. After sex she said she's gonna have to wait for the second guy because I was off to Uni. (y)

 

How much of a Casanova you want to be

 

Dude, you didnt use foreplay?
Thats no compliment.
Sorry.

 

Oh.... I have used foreplay since then.... I was just real shy the first time. Got another compliment today.... We were eating lunch and I very rarely finish any food I eat. Well she looked at me today and she said do you ever finish off anything you do besides me?

 

Fucking idiot.... at 27 you should know that all women lie about sex. Wait till you break up she will tell you the truth then.

 

Yeah you are right. He is not even going to get another go.

 

Hmm... Okay, so that is why we have had it like six times since that night, but whatever hater go ahead and hate. I am going to just enjoy it.

 

More power to you

All I can say is, more power to you. The more things you and your girl discover about each other, maybe the better the relationship will be. Keep doing what you do.

 

Presuming that you already know your woman, at least much better than the ones who post here, ... just believe what she is telling you now, while you are together and in good terms! :excited:

If, God forbid it, you go opposite directions some time, than, if she tells you that you are not skilled at sex, or things like that, you'll just have to know that you have dealt with a very low person...

A good woman, even if you split, will never tell you that you were a lousy lover, and, even if you were, it's not ONLY your fault!

NOTE: As I've experienced, some people here are not really haters - they've tried this with me also, before realizing who they are dealing with!
They are just teasing you, hoping to inflame you!
Why?
Just to have their portion of fun!
So, just be cool & confident!

 

I think it's weird that she never told you that she had never gotten off during sex before.

I don't know if she's lying or not, but either way, don't stop giving it to her if she likes it so much.

 

Thank you everyone for the positive comments

 

Chung wont get another go. Funny we are getting married in March

 

Can you say "EGO BOOST"? Next time get her to cum a couple times before you fuck her and cum yourself.

 

that's awesome!