I can find something sexy about any women whether it be her body or her attitude. You can have an overweight girl with a beautiful attitude and it really won't matter but you can have a small girl with a messed up attitude and it makes her ugly

 

The first thing I do when I meet a woman is pull out my scale and put her on it. There is a red line marked on it.
If you are over the red line go away. If under the red line come home with me.
The red line makes the decision.

 

It doesn' t matter about the weight as long as she is pretty and has a good attitude.

 

I think there are plenty of men that don't care. They are attracted to their partner, wife, lover if there is a significant change in their weight. However, what I find is the woman's confidence in herself diminishes as she views herself as something less than what she was before. If she isn't happy in her own image, it's has a direct impact.

I continue to flirt, kiss, touch and compliment my SO but, find it hard to continue when she doesn't respond positively. And that's the turn off. Not her physical appears but, her confidence.

As a society, we need to promote positive body image for woman so, they don't get down on themselves if or when they gain weight.

 

I like my girls in the “thick” range big thighs . Not really into obesity, and I did used to fuck a real skinny girl in college she had gigantic tits for a size 0, but no ass at all, it wasn’t as exciting for me mostly because I’m into real girls, stretch marks, tan lines , a small bit of stomach chub( hahha drives me nuts to see it when I got a woman’s knees near ears ) along with a big round ass drive me insane..

 

The sexiest thing by far is attitude. Im really turned on by a chick who knows what she wants and goes and gets it.

 

Been reading through the comments and I've learned a lot. I am not a muscular or average sized male, I'm 37 and have what you call a pear shaped body, but to me I am more of that teddy bear figure lol. Not really fat or obese, but even guys like us who have a beer belly, or a big belly tend to get self-conscience about women wanting us or finding us attractive.

So, in my own opinion.. I don't judge a woman based off her size, if she's got a great personality, wonderful smile, fun to be with and is down to earth and easy to talk too.. She's okay in my book, cause I wouldn't want to be be judged for the same thing that this thread is referencing about women's sizes. I love women as they are, to me a woman's figure is not important as long as she knows shes beautiful, sexy and wonderful in her own right, than she will always be those things in someone else's eyes who can appreciate them for who they are. It goes without saying that this quote fits perfectly for this thread.. (see below).

"Love me for who I am and how I look and I will love you the same in return."

 

One question. For those who are attracted to a woman by other things besides looks.
How do you know a woman possesses those things you desire when you first see them?
It is impossible to get to know personally every woman.
How do you make the decision if you are interested enough in a woman to get to know her better?

 

you don't know right off. I look at her left hand to see if she has a ring on, then, i chat with her.I like movies, music, things like that so if I see a girl I like in a book store and she likes the same books i do I ask her, have you read this book or that book and see how it goes, and if we click we chat more, and of not i move on. that's one way to do it.

 

I think us as a woman should not stress on how others perceive us. I have said this many times. If we can not be seen and valued for nothing more than something as shallow as just looks. Then it is not the right kind of man for us anyway. Let your personality shine. Value yourself and love your body. It is yours if you do not love it who else will?? If you are unhappy about your flaws try to remember everyone has them. And if you are to be judged by that then.....i say fuck them!!! Haha

 

Honestly physical attraction is important but no matter her size if she is confident with her sexuality and uses it often makes her 10 times more desirable in my eyes

 

Very true as i said there has to be at least at first an attraction of somekind but after talking a bit you can usually tell of there are similarities and openly talking about things she is confident and open to discuss sexual things with you and hear yours makes her way more attractive to me and i can tell my sexy turnons without being judged and whether she wants to try them or not she is willing to accept you no matter what that woman is a keeper no matter her appearance

 

I like all shapes and sizez

 

So true its more important for me at least for her to be confident sexually openminded if you can do that id never hide stuff or cheat because i can be me tell you my fantasies and even if we had a 10 person orgy she would know after and during that i only want to leave with her

 

For some reasons a big stomach turns me off

 

Sexy is a state of mind And really has nothing to with body size , I have met extremely sexy women in all shapes and sizes

 

Breasts should equal 20% of body weight

 

Not at all important to me. It's all about how she wears it and how confident/comfortable she is in her own skin.

 

I'm not sure people can really control what type of person they are attracted to. If you're attracted to skinny or fat, you just are. I'm 60 and never married. Over the last 25 years or so I've met my boyfriends through personal ads or online. I tell my real age, use a recent picture and I'm honest about my size. I like meeting men this way because we can learn a little about each other before we meet, and any attraction isn't based solely on looks.

When I'm at my heaviest I'm generally not interested in dating because of how I feel about myself. There are usually some men who are still interested. Oddly enough, none of my boyfriends has been heavy. All have been average size or even slim. All have been close to my age or younger. Older men just aren't into me and vice versa.

That being said, if you aren't attracted to a particular body type, you don't have to be insulting. Honestly, I feel a little sorry for people who have very narrow parameters for who they find attractive. They're probably missing out on some really nice partners.