So I haven;t had much luck with girls. I am 21 in college and I have one girl I could pretty much hit up whenever to fuck. Thing is I'm not that attracted to her. I can usually something about a girl I find attractive but not her. Should I just use my hand, look for a new girl, or just bang this one? Thing is when we're done I almost feel ashamed, and I don't want my friends to know I get with her.

 

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@ Ronnie - You are a complete douche bag to even think about using this girl just so you can get off. Did you ever consider her feelings? I hope every girl including that girl turns you down.

@ ipscout - some men love larger women and would choose them over a skinny girl.

 

no I considered her feelings. she just wants my cock and im trying to decide if I should give it to her, she wants nothing else. So fuck you, she's the one who's using me to just get off. You don't know me to call me a douchebag.

 

to be honest your first post didn't specify that the girl is just looking for some fun, so NE Woman's reaction is understandable. My advice is: if you are POSITIVE that she is just looking for some fun go for it. But if you are not, then let go and look somewhere else. I had sex with a girl who was into me and I didn't like much when i was at college and really felt like shit afterwards... lesson learned!

 

Any port in a storm

 

Don't feel bad about it! I have fucked probably a dozen I wasn't attracted to. I always felt If they wanted to fuck, Who am I to say no?

 

I wouldn't do it because I don't think it would be that good but this could be a difference between men and women. The opportunities come along for women more often so I guess we get to be a little more picky.

 

To be honest, the sex probably won't be that great if you're not into her at least a little bit. There's got to be something there, otherwise, even if both of you are just looking for fun, it won't be that much fun.

 

I've been having an affair with a woman I'm not attracted to. We were both oversexed when it started and decided to give it a whirl. The sex has been phenomenal; best blow jobs I've ever had. Sweetest pussy I've ever drug my tongue across. My wife is celebate as is her boyfriend who is a trucker and gone alot. We are into our 7th year and have agreed NSA and get together whenever it works out for both of us. We also recognize when it's over....it's over. Fuck what the other guys might say........you're getting it and they are not. Just have fun.

 

Is it just her face you're not attracted to or is it her body too? If it's just her face, there are lots of different positions where you could have sex and never see her face. Honestly, if she wants NSA sex, I say go for it. If you think there's any chance she'll get attached in any way, then I wouldn't do it. The last thing you want is to get her hopes up that it'll turn into more.

 

My girl's best friend wasn't getting enough from her fiance, so my girl asked me to fuck her.

Her "tits" are the only part of her body that seem to be unaware that the girl's favorite food is cupcakes. On top of that, her birth control causes her to grow hair where she shouldn't & she doesn't shave it. I'm also not a big fan of her natural scent, which smells too strong to me.

I honestly had to keep looking at my girl to keep hard... She was next to us doing work on her laptop.

 

Hey if she,s got a nice pussy that wraps around your hard dick and makes it cum, keep plowing it.

Much better than your hand bud.

 

yeah i had that too over the summer. I was not attracted to her at all. Sex was horrible too. Pretty much regret that part of my summer.

 

If she just wants your dick....give it to her...it has to beat jerking off any day. I had one girl that I was fucking for at least 4 years...it was strictly a booty call...she was horny she called, I was horny, I called...we fucked...she left it was that simple. There were no feeling in it other than the amazing feeling of blowing a load in her....

 

As long as it's agreed up front your only there to fuck and your willing I see no harm. who knows maybe she's really good at it? I'm sure you understand NE Woman's concerns that many men would say or do anything without thought of a woman's feelings, you could even take the time to develop a friendship? The fact that you didn't just jump right in tells me you know the risk of hurting her feelings, just be honest and if she agrees Fair Fucks for All!

 

Yes, w/reservations...

I have experienced two situations where I hooked up with a woman I wasn't attracted to...both involved the woman initiating the action.

Long story, but both came on to me; I went with my cock. Both women were exceptional partners and gave excellent BJs. The first woman was an absolute nympho, and wore me out by the time we said goodbye the next morning.

The other often came to my office (when the coast the was clear) and would just go down on me as soon as she walked in...we wore out the cushions on my office love seat.

I absolutely prefer sex with someone I am attracted to, or when there's some type of relationship. But, if I think with the lower head, I go for it.

 

gotta agree here. I have been with a few women that I had no interest in and really wasn't even looking at. But they kept approaching me. After I understood that in each case they were just looking to have sex and nothing more I went for it too. Now the flip side.

In one of the cases it started OUT as just sex .. we both were on the same page .. but SOMEWHERE she flipped the script on me and had started to develop feelings .. THIS is where I can also see "N.E. Womans" point. What starts out as fun may stay that way but IF the woman starts to develop feelings it can get messy. Very messy. I may like kinky, messy, nasty, slap that ass, bind those tits, sweaty, sex, but messy nasty, feelings hurt, emotions ... well that's a different thing altogether .. NO fun. So I would advise that you proceed but with a great deal of caution. Make SURE she is not the type to flip the script.

 

Lost my virginity to a girl I wasn't really attracted to

I admit, I wasn't attracted to a girl who was two years older than me, and sexually experienced. She came onto me, and I accepted her advances although I wasn't really in love with her. I DID want to lose my virginity though and she helped me that way. We did it a few times together and then she started indicating that I made her pregnant.
Naturally at 18 years old it was pretty traumatic for me, especially with a chick I wasn't really in love with.
It turned out that she was just messing with my head and when I found that out I wanted nothing more to do with her after that!
When I began pursuing the girl of my dreams she got indignant and made a lot of shit lies and stuff about me.
Needless to say....I learned from my mistake.
I was a lot more careful choosing my sex partners after that.
So the first time was NOT the best time!