I don't want to be the boring wife that always does the same thing in bed, I need some suggestions on new things to try. Have used anal plugs, vibes, dildos....what else should I do?

 

What about golden showers ? Ask him to piss on you ... and do the same to him ...

 

Role play

 

Golden showers are a no go for him, hes not into them but he is kinky any other ideas?

 

Role play. Out in public. He picks you up at the bar

 

Why not just ask him? Being open and honest can bring big rewards in your sex life. No use trying to guess what will get him going, just ask him.

While your at it, tell him what you want to try. Most guys don't like to guess either. If you have a fantasy, we like to try and make it happen.

 

What about a 3some ? FMF or MFM ... as you like ...

 

Ill try the role playing, not quite ready for a threesome. I need small things to open up. I have asked this is just for me to help with ideas

 

Yeah, just ask him. Does he like it when you play with his ass? If so maybe a strap on perhaps.

 

I'm a self conscience person and afraid to try new things as for like 3 somes. Don't think I can mentally handle that, but maybe someday get to that point.

 

The biggest thing is communicate. Ask him what he wants, and tell him what you want. Try something new that you two fantasize about every week.

You could try light bondage. Male anal play (take it slow if he hasn't done it before). You could send him naughty pics when hes away. Masturbate and have him watch. The options are only limited to your imagination and level of comfort.

 

Give him a supprise BJ. pull his cock out whenhe's least expecting it.

 

for me use videos watch and ask would you/want to.....wife and I did a 3 way this way................ ./.

 

Do you have a twin or a sister who looks like you, maybe a cousin? Have her get naked in bed n sleep or pretend to sleep. You hide in another room or go do something out of the house, come back 30 minutes later, join in the fun.

 

You could bring a girlfriend friend to bed or just surprise him. I had a girlfriend meet me at the door when I got home in nothing but a thong and ice cold beer in her hand.

 

If you just study a little of Kama Sutra, you won't be the boring wife, even without the plugs, dildos, or whatever!...
NOTE: The plugs and vibes and dildos are supposed to please you! NOT him!

 

Like I said before no third person, but thank u anyway. Thanks shyguy for the idea

 

We experimenter with a beer bottle last night, something new. Any ideas are appreciated!

 

If you are hungry act hungry. Please yourself. Let him please you.

 

I just want him to stay interested