When my girlfriend is giving me a blowjob, she will always suck it for 2 - 5 minuets and then either jerk me off till I cum or ask me to do it. I mean it's not that big of a deal but I would just love for her to just blow me till I cum.

I think she gives an awesome blowjob and I've told her that numerous times. She has told me that she likes to suck my cock, so then I ask her why she won't just do it untill I cum and then she will usually say something like my jaw hurts cause it's too big.

I'm an understanding kind of guy, so I respect her opinion but I also try to compromise by saying something like switch it up a bit, suck it then jerk me off then kiss it, and suck my balls so that you don't get so sore from doing the same motion.

So yea I was just looking to get any ideas from some of the girls on these forums, maybe some tips or something, I don't know

 

get a smaller dick

 

Change girlfriends, find one with a bigger mouth!?

 

all i know is you sound kind of self centered like it should be all about you or something.

 

Hey, its all about practice. she has to make the efforts... if she want to please you.

Another thing, if she is really good she should be able to make you come in less than few mn.

To help her you can try not have sex for few days, she should be able to make you come quicker.

But honestly i am thinking that she doesnt want to have your cum in her mouth (but it is just a guess), for that you can not blame her, some can not stand the taste.

 

I seen girls give blow jobs, and have the cock out of their mouth more than it is in.
If a girl wants a guy to cum she need to keep it in her mouth, use her tongue, and keep the momentum going. Not this start and stop stuff.

 

if the woman doent get into it its not that great if loves it it is awsome

 

Slow and steady, establish a nice, predictable rhythm.

As for jaws getting tired, as others have said, it's like any physical activity. Do it a lot, and it will become second nature. And you can always stop now and then and tell him how much you love sucking his cock, and how much you want him to fill your mouth with his luscious cum. But keep stroking it.

 

I think it's the other way around.

Sounds by the way that he's describing it(and having been there myself I know it's definitely possible she just isn't putting in any effort) that she really just isn't even trying.

Personally, that kinda shit pisses me off because ya know what? my mouth and tongue get tired when I'm eating pussy too but I'm still not gonna stop until I've made her cum. It should go both ways.

 

~For the record, I'm not trying to sound self-centered by any means, I love my girlfriend very much and I do try to talk to her about any "issues" that come up, instead of fighting about things.

Baller is partly right. She does put in an effort but its for like 3 minuets and then she stops and It's not a matter of her liking the taste of my cum cause after I do cum (usually from jerking myself off while she is lying there looking sexy) she will lick it off me and make out with me.

and also I try to eat her out from time to time, to return the favor but for the 2 years we've been together, I've done it like 7 times. I try to talk to her about it but she gives me a different excuse every time like I haven't shaved or I just don't feel like it. So i try to talk to her about it but she usually starts getting pissed and is like, " o you have a girlfriend that will fuck you whenever you want but you complain that I just won't let you eat me out."

I mean, I like doing it for her and I would love to just return the favor. Trust me, I'm not greedy. whenever we have sex and I cum, I always make sure to just keep going until she cums too because I like to make sure she has been completely satisfied.

 

well if that is the situation then i retract my previous statement and offer a new one...she just sucks at sucking dick.

 

It sounds like she might have a mental hangup about eating out and getting eaten out. Have you suggested trying it in the shower? ie: have a shower together, soap her up, go down on her for a GOOD WHILE... then suggest perhaps she return the favour?

 

maybe she doesn't enjoy being eaten out? some girls don't. (personally think they're crazy...but personal choice)

 

Thoughts about blowjobs?
Love giving them, but they do require special attention. To be good you have to put in the practice and effort.

 

yea I hear ya man. I really don't know what to tell ya. If you've been together for 2 years, then chances are it's nothing like my experience with a person who gave no effort.

 

*Cough*
Nag.

 

i love giving head, nothing better than making love to a rigid cock with your mouth, experience is the key , you have to pace your self and take your time, its not a race, another thing i do at times is hum when going down on a mans cock, try it.mrs. dartmater

 

Blowjobs are soooo sexy :excited: I wanna give one now... I don't get how someone could take their mouth off.. thats.. mental!!!!!! Gotta suck it as long as humanly possible. But I would suggest having her start with continuing to lick as she strokes..

and I'm One of the girls that hates being eaten out..

 

2-5 minutes might be a lack of patience/attention, but like others said before I've been told that it can tire her jaw out.

Oh, and speaking to the comments from earlier about steady pace and keeping it in, I guess I have a different perspective as a guy: I much prefer letting the air hit me when it's wet from her mouth intermittently and having it in her mouth as much as out is just fine with me - she can blow on it, lick it, etc. when its not in her mouth. As for steady pace, no thank you to that either. I like change of pace that keeps me guessing.

But back to OP, you're probably best talking with her about it and expressing your desires with one another, which it sounds like you did. Other than that, have her talk to her doctor next time she's in to see if she has TMJ or another jaw problem.

 

Okay, have it your way.