As a man holding on to my virginity would have been judged by different standards, men are ridiculed for waiting too long which didn't matter as my first was being seduced when I was younger by my older cousin Jeannie. If anything the way I was taught made a dramatic differences in the choices I made along the way, I was better for having been seduced the way I was and it's had mostly a positive impact in the choices I've made thus far.

 

Good question and my answer is a partial yes.

When we were both 18, my girlfriend at the time was pushing me to have sex when I would rather have waited because of my then-active Christian faith.

One night we were sleeping in the same bed without having sex when I woke up after what I thought was a wet dream. Only later did I realise she had stroked me till I came in my sleep.

Sex was always going to happen and I became a very enthusiastic convert...but I also wonder how life would have been different if I said no, ended the relationship and remained a churchgoing virgin.

 

When I lost my virginity horniness was clouding my judgment.

 

As many of us have, isn't it still funny we call it "Losing our" curious people us humans?

 

Surely there should be a third option for those that in hindsight think sooner would of been better? Wink.

It's a difficult one for me. Never mind social pressure, it's such an anxious time, and a long anxious time, I can't help wonder if I would of been better served crossing that bridge earlier in life.

 

no it was the right time for me. no regrets.

 

15 love Milo!!

I do enjoy seeing someone get one over the erudite one!

Thinskin

 

That was never my intention..

 

I wouldn't have waited a second longer. I was ready and with someone that cared about me. It was wonderful.

 

Sooner would have been pushing the question into an alternate reality, although sooner is an obviously legit answer.

 

I let mine go at a perfect time. Had an incredible date with a girl I really liked and we ended it on the front bench seat of my car with me cumming inside her wonderful pussy. A moment I will never forget and often recall vividly.

 

Mine was probably at the right time. Depending on your definition of losing virginity ( anything, petting, oral or strictly penetration). ..?....?

 

Dark story, when I was down I was raped by this guy I had met at a book store. And after losing my virginity, I just didn't care anymore. I slept with all my boyfriends after that. I had been waiting till eighteen, and I don't know what My life would have been like if I hadn't gone through it.

 

Longer but it wasn't my choice.

 

My first time could have been better (gf got drunk, puked on my bed, THEN wanted to fuck), but at 17 I was beyond ready.

 

It was pretty disastrous, but I'm glad I got it over with.

 

I would have preferred sooner. I lost my technical virginity later than average, in my 20's. I couldn't get the right 'circumstances' during my teens. Too much gossip, not enough privacy, too much judgement. I had the opportunity to travel in my 20's and was able to create the right, or at least better, circumstances for myself. I was able to have penetrative sex on very close to my terms, and then come home with no gossip, no judgement, no comments comparing her to other girls that family member wanted for me, no busybody noses poking where they have no business. Overall, the delay to have sex under more favorable circumstances was worth it for me.

I feel for those who had their first sexual encounters forced upon them.

 

I waited until I felt ready and it was great and the perfect time for me. I was 23.

 

Sounds like it was so wrong but so right too. I'm sure that very same horny cloud is still affecting my judgement somewhat, though the uncontrollable erections are less of a problem.

 

I'm not a morbid person at all but over the years I have given occasional thought as to what I might want as my epitaph. I think you have nailed it for me! I owe you one. Wink..