There's a lot of people here that are homophobic for one reason or another, and it's mostly the guys. The ladies here seem to be very open, and have no problem with homosexuality. I thank you ladies for that openness and honesty.

But I'd like to ask the homophobic men here, what is it that makes you insult,and show hatred towards homosexual, and bisexual men? Does it make you feel like more of a man? I doubt any of you homophpbic guys have the balls enough to tell us why, and answer this thread. But that's a good enough answer for me.

 

Any and all homophobic people are all in the closet unless otherwise confirmed.

As an example, I don't like soccer/football. I never liked playing it, and don't like watching it. Wouldn't it seem a little suspicious if I constantly talked about how much I dislike soccer? And randomly berated David Beckham at every chance I could get?

 

I can't speak for everyone but IMO. Very few people are homophobic. As a man, I fear no male, gay bi or other. Just because a straight man wants nothing to do with gay or bi male s doesn't mean we are homophobic. It just means we don't agree with the lifestyle and we would rather not associate with it. I'm a firm believer in men being men and being proud men, living by the code of man. So when I see a group of males walking around calling each other girl and bitch, carrying on like and acting like females then I don't see them as Men. They are males by birth but I feel every boy has to earn the right to called a man and sit as equals with men.

Short story. I used to work with a guy that was cool, I even hooked him up with a deal at the studio. I didn't know he was gay until I invited him to a party at the strip club with the fellas. After he told me he was gay I told him I can respect the fact that he ain't no bitch about it. He said he knew exactly what I meant and said yeah those guys give us a bad name. I had the same conversation with a lesbian coworker that used to by bud from me and promote parties. She asked me why I go ghost when her flamboyant friends come around and I told her I don't rock with males that try to act like females. She knew exactly what I meant.

 

Just an example, I bash democrats all the time, doesnt make me a closet liberal

 

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I’m not into dating guys and don’t really find them all that attractive, but i do love giving a man head and occasionally riding a cock when I’m feeling it ‍♂️ It’s weird to explain.

 

I dont care about being around gay people, most of the time, who know what they think/are... I dont like flamboyancy, or people wearing signs and need everybody to acknowledge their gayness.
Do what ya wanna do, just be quiet about it, to much noise being made about everything, pro this, anti that, so many lines and divisions,
there is no "mankind" any longer, just sub groups and distinctions....all political correctness did was further divide people

 

I don't like the term Homo or Heterosexual. Sex is sex, If it feels good do it. Can't we all just just be " Sexual" ???

 

Labels can be changed easily.

 

Saying I like gays as long as they don't act like females is not homophobic, is the same as saying you like brown people as long as they are not from the ghetto is not racist. Yes you are in both cases.

 

I have met a few homophobic woman although I have probably met a lot more homophobic men. I guess the answer is ignorence,

@BeatItUpRight apparently thinks gay men all act like woman and go around calling each other 'bitch'.

Well firstly I have no idea what acting like a woman means and nor do I have a clue what 'code' of manliness he is referring to, but it does throw into the spotlight a level of ignorence which is quite breath taking and in the 21st centuary etremely depressing. Seriously people actually still think this way, I mean WTF!

I know this doesnt answer @Jack Mine but perhaps I will come back later

 

Honest answer
I'm not homophobic - I don't judge, object to, or belittle, anybodies sexual preferences, no matter what they might be and I will and do gladly socialise with them ...... but somewhere with-in me is the 'cut off' point that I'm not sure how I would react if I was ever 'approached/propositioned' ...... and once when during a MFM threesome the other man's cock touched mine I completely lost all interest, so I'm not sure if that makes me some kind of 'instinctive homophobic' but I am certain that from my repulsed reaction that I am not a 'closet gay'.

 

What does hating on someone simply for being them accomplish? That is exactly the attitude which leads people to commit horrible acts of violence against each other. Rather then hating what is different about us why not love our similarities?

 

I believe it's 2 parts nurtured ignorance to 1 part stifled curiosity = homophobia

 

@BeatItUpRight
Do you think people who don't like black people, don't want anything to do with black people, don't want to be associated with black people, quickly leave the situation once a black person shows up...
Do you think those people are racist?
Did I describe a racist?
A person (a white man for the sake of the argument) who thinks that white men should be above acting like black men. And considers white men acting like black guys (don't pretend you have no idea what I'm talking about) - lost...
How about now?
Is that a racist?

 

I think a lot of them men who are homophobic are not comfortable with their sexuallity I bet if you look in their pc you find male porn but were raised to be manly men so are afraid to let true selves out then there are some that are raised by bigit parents so of course the leaf does not fall far from the tree

 

Lets pause a little and talk about non existant homophobia, yes thats right the sort of homophobia that only exists in the minds of gay people wo are just too pissed because no one likes them apparently.

So lets talk about it because it seems to me to be the sort of homophobia which led to a friend of mind being attacked by a bumch of shit for brains who thought he was gay, He is not gay, he is of slight build, shy and dresses in his own unique way but no he isnt gay.

Lets talk about the non existant homophobia that leads to work place harrasment and bullying and that is assuming you have managed to get the job in the first place.

Lets talk about the non existant homophobia which mean some of my friends are afraid to show affection toward their parter in public for fear of harrasment or worse.

It is the same non existant homophobia which brings an assault rifle into a night club and starts killing people and it is the same non existant homophobia which exists around the world to out law homoseuality.

Thats right in how many countries is it illegal to be gay and some times that crime is a a capital crime. Some counteries while not specifically outlawing being homosexual make same sex couplings illegal and so it goes

I really dont know what qualities it takes to be a man or what special creed exists between you guys, and why should, I am, as pointed out just a woman.

I do know this though, that is only understood by hetrosexual men, homosexual men and of course woman are genetically disadvantaged in as much as they are missing this unique string in their DNA.

Lets not pretend that homophobia does not exist, please dont insult everyone by telling us that you arent homophobic while giving us a shit bag full of idiotic reasons as to the supposed superiority of hetrosexual males

So being genetically inferior you will forgive me for wondering what the fuck this Jim Jones shit is all about.

What I can say is that non existant homophobia feels very real to those who experience it but sadly it seems for those who have no idea it remains just, non existant

 

Beatitupright,
Let me just break down what you said shall I?

"I can't speak for everyone but IMO. Very few people are homophobic. As a man, I fear no male, gay bi or other." ----Homophobia is not about fear. Its about views and actions. Or in some cases inactions.

"I'm a firm believer in men being men and being proud men, living by the code of man." --- And Green little furry creatures from Alpha Centari being real little furry creatures from Alpha Centari. Little Hitch Hikers Guide there for ya. What is this code? My dad was fairly set in his ways. He was a "Man's man" people would tell me that all the time growing up. He didn't teach me a code. Would you be kind enough to pass this on? Break that down for us this code please?

"So when I see a group of males walking around calling each other girl and bitch, carrying on like and acting like females then I don't see them as Men." -- Well thank you Really, thank you! That's the mindset sweetheart! There is hope for you yet!

"Just because a straight man wants nothing to do with gay or bi male s doesn't mean we are homophobic. It just means we don't agree with the lifestyle and we would rather not associate with it." ---- Not sure if your aware of what the term Homophobic means. I suggest Googling it. Wait, Saved ya the time. I did it for you.

ho·mo·pho·bic
/ˌhōməˈfōbik/
adjective

1. having or showing a dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people.

Did you see the part showing a dislike of or prejudice? Did you read your own words?

 

@BeatItUpRight said "Being gay is not (natural), people aren't born gay, that's learned behavior."

This seems to be the debate. I'm not a gay man, so speaking here from first-hand ignorance. My nephew is gay and has lived with a male partner his whole adult life. He told me that he knew he was gay as early as 4th, 5th grade. He never dated any girls in high school. He has returned, after going their separate ways, to a previous partner and I expect they will live out the rest of their lives together.

I've found nothing unnatural about him. He's just gay. Some people are. No matter how flamboyant he or anyone else acts, that's no reflection on me. I will discriminate against people for ethical reasons (like lairs, swindlers, and bullies) but not for sexual reasons.

 

For those that believe that sexual orientation is a choice, let me put it this way. When was it that you actively chose to be straight? You can’t really say, ’cause that’s what you have always been, right? Sure, those of us who don’t put preference on sex, can actually choose to ignore one side, but for straight and gay, it is not a choice. Or did you actually choose to be straight? If so, you could easily swap your choice and try to be gay for a while, couldn’t you? Just some age old queer’s ramblings...