I’m curious to know your stories!! I’m sure we can talk freely about it here!! Me??? I cheated once on a girlfriend I had with my then ex girlfriend my ex would just show up at my house and try to hook up I would gladly fuck her and then say that it was wrong !! So I could keep fucking them both !! I know it was wrong but i was young and horny!!lol

 

Well you can say "I was young and horny" but the truth is you're a scumbag.

 

I would never pass judgement or call you names over your decisions because you have to live with the consequences of the choices you make, and I'm sure that all of us aren't without regrets and mistakes we made either recently or while we were younger...

 

I guess I'm first. I regret nothing.

 

So im definitely a scumbag I've cheated on my wife multiple times. I've been cuaght and been yelled at im sure she's done the same but what can I say. We now practice a dont ask dont tell policy just like the military. I honestly dont think humans were designed to be monogamous.

 

My wife no longer allows me to go down on her. So I've got a friend that I give blowjobs to.
Second best is better than nothing!

 

Young and horny is my excuse also. No regrets.

 

I wasn't looking it just happened. I have actively looked a couple of times and it hasnt worked out or I got cold feet and pulled back before anything could develop.

I know it is not or should not be an excuse but yes. Young horny.

If I knew I would be in the position I am in now I would have milked the opportunities I had for all they worth and not had pangs of guilt but went for it.

I had a few opportunities and turned them down or as I said didnt follow through because back then I actually believed that cheating was bad, even though I fell from grace on that a couple of times.

If a woman gave me the green light now I would not hesitate for a nano second. Believe me I am not bragging, it is a shit position to be in and a shit attitude to admit to but ......

 

Curious as to why a wife would "no longer" allow you "to go down on her." Why?
She is aware that you've found an oral substitute?

 

"How did you cheat on your significant other???"

I ate all of the french fries at the bottom of the bag.

 

I have an owner my husband doesn't know about. We belong to sex groups and go to sex clubs and parties.

 

Never claimed to be a one woman man. Never have been. Never will be. Deal with it

 

I've talked about this here before and I've just realized that to retell that mistake is not worth the anxiety it will remind me of.

Not judging anyone. No two situations are the same.

 

A coworker and I mess around on occasion. We are not getting any physical attention from our spouse/ live in friend. So we "scratch each other's itch".

 

Judgements abound men and women cheat out of greed, need or desperation and as you might gather (with the exception of greed) little to no blame is understood of the causes which in your case @IlikeMILFS was you. However more commonly based on solid evidence from the community of marital and sexual counselling cheating is a byproduct of anywhere from months to years of suffrage on one or both parties that had not been resolved. Whether through a lack of communication, education or understanding the amount of emotional damage caused by a continuous lack of sexual contact in an otherwise loving relationship affects the self profoundly when directed inward.

Self confidence, self esteem and self consciousness become overwhelming when the paradigm shifts from blaming the antagonist to blaming ourselves which leads many to overcompensate, excuse and negate our own worth in pursuit of reconciliation. Unbeknownst to either party this opens a void in need of being filled with feelings of inherent worth and attractiveness which needles to say is recognized by someone else and encouraged as an albeit "wrong solution" (ie; it just happens.) Nonetheless it offers a temporary feeling of relief despite the awkward and sometimes damaging effects to the core relationship in spite of all the initial efforts put forth to fix it, the cheater take the blame (as they should) and the antagonist is allowed the victim card despite their role in it's causation.

My opinion is if you've been cheated on, have cheated or divorced more than once that maybe (just maybe) you need to take a look at yourself and find the thread of truth that keeps you coming back to it?

 

Like most people.... with a coworker. Then the excuses become your everyday lies. Had to work overtime, stuck in traffic, going out with the guys for a drink, etc.

 

That takes a level of deceit and quick wit I'm not capable of.

 

Only after the sex dried up at home.

 

Never, we have an open marrage. But the deal is we tell each other and answer questions if asked.