theres this girl that I no but im not sure if she likes me or not she looks at me often sorta staring... but i wanna no what girls do when they like someone. what are the signs!?

 

you could always ask her. thats effective.

 

well, im a very shy person

 

play it smooth dude thats how I always run my game, think of somethin

 

ive been thinkin for sometime now and i cant think! i just gotta no! but im too shy im afraid of her saying she didnt like me or her judging me ;( and i dont wanna do nothing

 

the only way to really know is to ask, if she says she didn't like you you could just go "ok, bye" its not a big deal. i know from personal experience that its really frustrating when a guy won't just step up

 

I hope to god you're not really 23 and you're lying. I'm pretty sure you are, but if you're telling the truth...Damn dude.

Secondly, here's a bit of advice. Being shy is a total waste of time. I realized that...I dunno, about a year or two ago. You ask her out, what's the worst that happens? OH MY GOD! She said no, time itself will cease to function, I will live in this perpetual world of shame for all eternity for daring to express interest in the opposite sex, signs will be erected that can be seen from space to broadcast my humiliation, my mother will cry for the shame of me, everyone wil...DO NOTHING.

You'll move on, she'll forget about you in an hour, you'll find some new girl to freak out over and nothing at all of any consequence will ever happen, except you'll be that much closer to being a man.

If she likes you, she'll want to talk to you too and is just waiting for you to unstick your tongue from the top of your mouth. Next time you're in a semi-private setting, walk over and say "hey, what's up" like you would any other friend. If she's interested, she'll most likely smile at you and start talking. This is what we call a conversation and it's kind of the building block for all human interaction. If she says "nothing" and just sort of stares at you then it's not meant to be. Either way, you're no worse off then you were before.

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yeah man, you're really not 23. or maby you just don't know how to spell 'KNOW'. If you dont know if she likes you or not, ask her. If your shy, try to track down her email or msn. But you could just ask her in person when she's alone. The worst she could say is no

 

Uh, no. The worst she could "say" is to laugh in your face and then turn around and walk away. (Happened to me twice.)

 

not helping, JAW

okay first off there are signs that you need to loook for. If a girl likes you and is too shy she will usually giggle a lot whenever she's near you, make eyes at you and then look away, and get all nervous around you and/or shy.

If she isn't shy, then she will make it known that she likes you, by smiling at you a lot, making eyes at you and not looking away, trying to talk to you all of the time, and taking every opportunity to be near you. Shake is right, being shy is a waste of time, just get some confidence and ask her out or even just talk to her and look for the signs. If none of those signs are there then she most likely doesn't like you. and if you ask her out, then the worst thing she really can do is say no, or something like that. And if she does, just dust yourself off and try again with another girl. You have to put yourself out there to get girls.

 

See, that's why we have the great all-purpose phrase "bitch" for. I know it can be hard to believe, but really, if that's the kind of person she is then it should have been clear to you after that that she is totally not the kind of girl you want playing with your willy. If anything you should be thankful you were saved from such a hideous wildebeast by her showing up front how much of a urinal licker she is. The laughing in the face is actually a good thing.

And, speaking of, what's the difference between a slut and a bitch?

















Give up?

A slut with sleep with everyone, a bitch will sleep with everyone but you.

:lol: :lol: :lol:

I love that joke.

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Ask like your wounderin not if youre hoping, if you go up to her and are like "Yo, do you like me or something?" and she laughs in your face u can just say "Aight, good god damn it was a question what are you laughing at?"

and then theres really throwing urself in the firefight saying

"Hey, do you like me?" Because then youre asking with hope and it makes you easy for a girl to crush and then she could laugh at you then ur fucked, just make the question seem like youre barely interested but if she says yes you can un-awkwardly switch to show her that you too like her, instead of making it really awkward with the question seeming as you dont care

gl

 

has that ever worked for you? no offense or anything but if you're going to give him advice, give him good advice. JUST TALK TO HER, MAN. look for signs. get out there and find out.

 

yea ive done it plenty of times, but not really using that, like I said im slick and adapt a plan for each time, I dont thnik ive ever gone for it the same way twice, and those are just some easy ones, the ones I use have to be for a 1 in 1000 chance that youll be put in the same spot so I wont post those cause theyre basically useless to you guys and me now

 

Just talk!

You have to get over that shyness, just talk to her. If she laughs in your face, just walk away. Yeah, calling her a bitch always works!!!! hahahaha NO IT DOESN'T!!! Just causes hate and discontent.

I think most women appreciate men going up to them, and for men to be themselves. Women can tell if you're b.s.'ing or not right away. Most times, she will know within the first min. or two if she wants to be with you, so just be yourself. If she says she's not interested, fine, then move on! You don't need to be a moron and call her a bitch (where do some of you guys come up with that shit?). Keep that to yourself. There are 3 BILLION women on this earth too!!! hahahaha

 

Re: Just talk!

Sorry, I didn't specify. I didn't mean calling her a bitch to her face, I'm not that crass. You say it to yourself to remind yourself that you were just wronged by a cruel person and not to feel to bad about it because she's obviously a bitch. Now, depending on how cruel she is, like if she were to point it out to a crowd and laugh, then a 'you're a fucking bitch' to her face might be called for.

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Re: Just talk!

kids have changed, theyve become more spiteful hateful and just plain old mean, they will say shit no matter what kinda damage it will do to anothers feelings, this new generations are different, plenty of girls are heartless bitches and will just laugh in a sincere boys face...

and its easier to cover up feelings with hate, that is not of course the best way but it is the easiest

 

i aint got enough info do you work with her or is she at your local boozer? different approaches for different places in my book i'm not an expert but i understand shyness and i sort of understand women (sort of as most women don't reckon they understand themselves...lol) shyness can be gotten around..
if your on speaking terms its much easier provided your not good friends thats just plain difficult.
i'll assume your on speaking terms for now and its a work place.
ask her where she drinks what she does at weekends what her fella does? (if she says shes single ask her "how is a girl like you single?"
if you get the right response (obviously not looking aint the right response)
drop. you should come out with me sometime
or do you fancy a drink sometime.
very rarley should you use the word date i find it can be scary try to word it so you back off and make it sound less like your asking her out...
just incase you don't get the answer your looking for...... hope this helps if not gimme more info i have alot of experience for a young un...
one last thing flattery helps lots but never sound desperate...

 

Here's my theory...you USE your shyness.

When I was 14, there was a guy in my class, not a popular guy, very shy, hardly ever said a word. I used to catch him sneaking peeks a lot, not up my skirt or anything, just looking at ME. So this went on for awhile, and finally, one day, he came up to me, very hesitant, blushing, the whole thing. I thought he was going to have a heart attack. But what he said was really sweet, because it was so honest. Something like this:

"Look, ummmmm...I'm really shy, and I don't know much about girls or anything, I don't know what to say, I don't know any really smooth lines. I just think you're really nice, and really pretty, and I just thought maybe we could go get a coke together or something." The last part came out kind of in a rush, and then he looked like he wanted to sink into the pavement.

The thing is, what he said was exactly what I needed to hear.

So just tell her how you feel. If she decides to rip your heart out, put it in a blender and hit the "frappe" button, you didn't want her anyway, trust me. Just move on.

 

start talking to her about the weather, sports, local events, just get to KNOW her. you will be able to tell soon enough if she is hot for your bod, or was just staring at you because there was nothing else for her to do