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  1. BlackJade

    BlackJade Sex Machine

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    To me, anything that elicits arousal and/or ends in orgasm is sex.
    For good sex, it needs to engage more than one of my senses.
     
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  2. randallgossip

    randallgossip Bad Wolf

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    I looked up some official definitions, expecting them to be very musty and old fashioned, but they're not as bad as I expected. Merriam Webster says "sexually motivated phenomena or behavior." I like how broad that is. It includes anything from fucking to combing your hair to try to look attractive. Dictionary.com says: "the instinct or attraction drawing one sex toward another, or its manifestation in life and conduct." Again, including just about any sexual act and the attraction that leads to it; however it assumes heterosexuality. Though both kind of use the word to define itself in a round-about way. But the Oxford Dictionary gets my prize for that: "sexual activity, including specifically sexual intercourse". So sex is sex, including sex. Brilliant.
     
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  3. rowdy3128

    rowdy3128 Porn Star

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    to me sex is me getting off.......making love is wanting both to cum together.....
    and you don't have to be in love to make love......
     
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  4. stacilv

    stacilv Porn Star Banned!

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    Anything that arouses me or any of my partners...
     
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  5. thinskin

    thinskin Porn Star Banned!

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    I am still struggling with a comprehensive answer to this question so for now I will say it is everything that happens after I ask............

    Could I dance with your beautiful wife?;)

    Thinskin
     
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  6. randallgossip

    randallgossip Bad Wolf

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    How about "any physical act that elicits sexual pleasure". Still kinda using the word to define itself, but I wanted to specify the type of pleasure. And I threw in "physical" because only fantasizing doesn't seem like sex to me. Unless you can cum just from fantasizing. But I wouldn't call that "sex", I'd call that "awesome".
     
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  7. wantingnot

    wantingnot Sex Machine

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    If genitalia is touched or release is a goal or simply stimulation is a goal then "it" is sex. Not to be confused with sex of the mind -- thinking but not doing anything. Those who think "making love" raises sex to a level above sex, you're living on a different plane.
     
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  8. RCummings

    RCummings Porn Star

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    Well I am back having sex again and it feels great
     
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  9. do-me

    do-me Sex Machine

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    I think it must include penile penetration.
    Fucking is sex.
    Oral sex is sex.,
    Anal is sex.
    Masturbation is not sex.
    A hand job is not sex.
    A girl getting her pussy fingered is not sex.
    A couple of people fondling each other is not sex.
     
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  10. Christophel

    Christophel All natural

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    All you ever wanted to know about sex: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex
     
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  11. Feminist Man

    Feminist Man Porn Star

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    Sex is that moment of connection that could lead to...sex.

    Going by that definition it isn't actually about a sexual act at all but a state of mind and being open to the possibility, even for a moment.
     
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  12. cChuck44

    cChuck44 Porno Junky

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    There we go a means to an end in one way or another , orgasm ,climax, ectasy, cum , fun with a smile isn't life grand znd so is just plain SEX!!
     
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  13. Nymph3min3

    Nymph3min3 Porno Junky

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    Some men wouldn't mind accidently seeing their of age daughter sucking cock.... Was that a subconscious slip of a secret fetish? Mentioning men seeing their daughters sucking cock. I agree it's a sexual act regardless.
     
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      "Was that a subconscious slip of a secret fetish?" Wow! You really had to dig for that one. No. it wasn't a slip of a secret fetish.
      When I wrote it, I was thinking of Bill Clinton's quote "I never had sex with that woman" when in fact "that woman" was blowing him on a regular basis.
      "That woman" is someone's daughter.
      If her father had walked in, do you think he'd say "No problem! It's not like I caught them having sex."
      If Bill and Hillary had made a surprise visit to their daughter at college and walked in on her giving her secret service agent a blow job, would they have been ok with it since it wasn't sex under his definition? Probably not.
      So my comment was directed at those who say oral sex isn't sex.
      If you read our threads or comments on other's threads, you'll see that we don't have much in the way of "secret" fetishes. They're all pretty much out there for all to see.
       
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  14. dickyoudownhard

    dickyoudownhard Porno Junky

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    My big cock in your horny pussy with me cunning deep inside that's sex
     
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  15. Hussie6776

    Hussie6776 Occasionally. So what..?

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    Sex is a lifelong fascination and desire to connect intimately with others.

    It's greedy and satisfaction is only ever temporary.

    It's as close to freedom as we can get.
     
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  16. amethyst10

    amethyst10 Porn Star In XNXX Heaven

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    I'm really kind of at a loss here. I think it's sex anytime a penis enters any orifice of another person's body. If that's true, then fellatio is sex and if fellatio is sex, then cunnilingus must be sex. Masturbation, I don't think so. I think it takes two (or more). A girl getting fingered doesn't seem like sex, but that would mean that a hand job isn't sex. And sex and making love aren't the same thing. Making love doesn't necessarily require penetration of any kind and it doesn't require orgasms, so I guess making love isn't necessarily sex. And you can certainly have sex without making love. Fucking isn't making love, but fucking is sex. In conclusion, I always thought that I knew what sex is, I was wrong. I just don't know.
     
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