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  1. deegenerate

    deegenerate Goddess of Desire

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    Are you an impulsive person, or are you more cautious?

    When it comes to anything financial, I tend to be cautious, but otherwise, I can sometimes be very impulsive. My family never knows when I am going to come home with a surprise.

    The most impulsive thing I ever did was I bought a house without taking the hubby with me to look at it. I was there, it was a really good buy, and I had to jump on it and make an offer before someone else beat me to it. So I did!

    When I came home and told him I had bought a house, the only thing he wanted to know was if it had a garage for him to tinker around in. :D
     
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      That's how it should be done.... You're a finisher with her own mind... If it don't work out with hubby.... Hmu. Lol
       
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      Hahaha @phxbi_bear80 he said that since I am far pickier than he is, he knew if I picked it, it would be something he would be fine living in. lol
      To further illustrate this point, he declined to even drive by with me and see our new purchase until moving day. He simply didn't care. lol
       
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      A long time ago my dad took us out to Sunday lunch about 45 miles from where we lived he got lost. No GPS back then. And driving around in this suburb on the mountain side he saw a house for sale. The agent was in the garden so he stopped to ask for directions to where we were going. After lunch he went back and bought it.
       
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      Four walls, a ceiling, and a garage is all he needed :)
       
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    6. Ficxa 479
      I like your impulse, and totaly dislike his. But perhaps you two make a fine couple. +n -. But who is who?
       
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  2. latecomer91364

    latecomer91364 Easily Distracte

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    As a general rule, I'm not very impulsive, preferring to weigh the plusses and minuses of an act or situation whenever time permits a halfway decent analysis but there are occasions where circumstances and drink throw that concept on the trash heap.

    I remember an occurrence where I had prearranged to meet a bi couple at a bar - we flirted and played pool, and I ended up getting into their car and going to their house - could have been a bad move. After the fact, I told this to a very close bi couple that I regularly played with, and they asked me if I was fucking crazy (but in a nice way... lol).

    When my dick isn't concerned, I do tend to think things out better.
     
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      Dick head.
       
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  3. StrawberryCupcake

    StrawberryCupcake ⭐️Cheese Tease⭐️

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    My entire life is on a schedule and I don’t like it being messed with. It drives my husband nuts because he’s extremely impulsive. I’m also a lot better with money, discipline, and self control.
     
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      I should also add I’m extremely OCD so that has a lot to do with it.
       
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    2. phxbi_bear80
      I can relate to those feelings no doubt!
       
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      What s your occupation maam?
       
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      Currently a healthcare supply chain consultant.
       
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  4. tenguy

    tenguy Reasoned voice of XNXX

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    People think that I am impulsive, but I have usually done a great deal of preparation before announcing a decision.
    Some people also think that I’m repulsive, they are correct.
     
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      Shoulda have seen you some 60ty years ago man. Rocket man.
       
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  5. fritssprits

    fritssprits Sex Machine

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    Most filters dont work anymore and I have pour impulse control
     
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  6. Jack Mine

    Jack Mine The Pope of Assholiness

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    I tend to think things through more carefully now that I’m older. When I was younger basically everything I did was on impulse, that didn’t always work out for me. YOU SAY SOMETHING, YOU F#@&
     
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  7. Valspar

    Valspar porn surfer

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    I bought a vintage Nintendo Entertainment System from Amazon during the stay at home order last year.
    Super Mario Bros. 1, 2 and 3.

    It was the bees knees for about two weeks. Now I'm pretty sure it's just a spider meet-n-greet.
     
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  8. submissively speaking

    submissively speaking Sassochist

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    I make decisions on impulse, I research the fuck out of the execution stage. So it’s a balanced approach. :p
     
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      I bought the KitchenAid toaster oven/air fryer combo, and I love it.
       
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      It’s gauche, discussing price. :D

      I wanted to push a button and have a fancy coffee. I didn’t want to froth, and pack, and empty, and clean and psht! the frother and all that nonsense.

      I fill it with beans, water, shove the milk thingy in its face, voilà, latte macchiato one minute later.

      I value my time as high as I charge for it.
       
    4. StrawberryCupcake
      I’ve been looking at the ninja air fryer/pressure cooker combo but it looks so clunky.
       
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      The KitchenAid is a size, no question. But firing up the whole oven for just me seems like a waste. It’s a block of stainless steel, basically. Fits neatly on the counter under my upper cupboards, though.
       
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      Like I stated earlier, I can be repulsive.
      I’m also a cheap bastard.
      But, you’re correct, it is gauche to discuss price. No offense intended.
       
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  9. 55andhorny

    55andhorny Porn Star

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    Where do I begin?
     
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  10. Cherrypop

    Cherrypop Wicked Kitten

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    I’m both. I am definitely a control freak about things that are important. But I’m impulsive about fun. I’m that friend who corrupts you and gets you into trouble and makes you love it. My philosophy is as long as it’s not hurting anyone, take the risk and do the thing, because nobody ever has fond memories about going home early and falling asleep.

    The most impulsive thing I ever did was get on a plane and fly to another country to see a man I met on the internet. Yea it could have been bad. But it was awesome. And I plan on doing it again lol
     
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      What road?
       
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      The completely impulsive and reckless disregard for consequences when I was younger, got a major wake up call, now I am more controlled but still playfully impulsive in the right circumstances.
       
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      I’ve always thought I’m unlucky but I have done some truly stupid shit in the past and always came out ok.
       
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      Yes, sounds very familiar and I was also damn lucky!
       
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      Bad habits die hard
       
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  11. pussy in boots

    pussy in boots ride em cowgirl up

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    I am only impulsive when it cums to sex.
    I'll suck or fuck at the sound of a zipper.
     
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      Where's that voice note app when I need it!
       
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  12. hornybigguy68

    hornybigguy68 Porn Star

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    I wouldnt consider myself impulsive. Try to manage my money wisely before purchasing or doing anything. Wanted to buy a new TV recently but then realized I lost my job and have other credit cards to pay off. It can wait. If I went on a trip, I planned in advance. As of my house. I bought it via VA loan.

    Maybe being not impulsive id because i have been single all my life, not sure.

    I have always felt like the ATM machine of my family. Told family members "while your spending, im saving"
     
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      The ATM feeling...I know it very well LOL! Other than my father who is a major reason why I am so careful with my finances, the rest of my family and friends aren't!
      Good for you for handling your business :D
       
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      I could be better with money. I do have extremely good taste that I can’t afford lol. But my dad has a gambling problem and my sister is always broke so I’m lending it out a lot.
       
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      Thanks. I told a family member recently how I felt and he agreed. Have over 3,000 dollars out to family. I have always tried to be nice when it comes to money but it always kicked me in the butt. I sometimes feel my finances gets family jealous. I have worked hard to get where I am at. I will never sign up from credit cards with interest due to past experiences.
       
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  13. crhurricane

    crhurricane Altered State

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    My world is to wierd, I don't know if it is impulsive, or more reactionary. Order and stability have become just words in the dictionary. Today went like most, find myself doing or dealing with something morning did not hint to. By this evening, the day seemed like a week.
    Of course I am losing my mind, I see things to clearly and all the dots connect, in the strangest ways, but it makes sense. I don't get surprised, but the frustration is surprising. So in that sense I do get impulsive, for I have red line, when nearing it, I stop whatever I was doing, and distance myself with something new to do. There is always plenty to do, and never seem to get caught up, or find satisfaction when something does get finished.
    I don't know or consider it impulsive, but I fight with myself. Things have changed in major ways, for me, but I feel I am still the same, look at things the same, so I tend to think I am the same, and I'm comfortable with that. That is the problem, I realize, know, and understand, thing will not ever be, "the same". So am I ignoring what I don't like, or just pushing on, trying to be positive and just take it as it comes. Which may explain my disconnection with order and stability.
    I learned young, and embraced the knowledge that constant change is here to stay, that we all, like it or not, are perpetual students. It is once around the ride, and Still believe the day I stop learning is the day I start dying. I have endured the best of the best and the worst of the worst, and learned from it, and would carry on accepting you can't change what was, only what might come. I am a cancer surviver, and have plenty to be thankful for.
    I guess these last 5 years or so, have taken many unforeseen turns, and as clearly as I see what's in front of me, it's been unexpected, and there seems to be a growing distance in many aspects, which I have not been comfortable with, and so far my deranged humor gives me some perspective, impulsive, sometimes, but in reality maybe more an escapism.
     
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      I can relate to a lot of what you are saying! Probably would feel the same way if I hadn't had my daughters from a young age, and wouldn't risk being anything but shrewd!!!
       
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      You sounds like me of 30 years ago, I do feel stupid the way I was, but hey, it's life, we all have unique one, so enjoy it and think or feel it, be proud of unique me.
       
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  14. Geminpa

    Geminpa the one with all the typos

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    I used to be impulsive when I was younger but now with my job I really can’t be.
     
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  15. gullettr

    gullettr Sex Lover

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    You so could hook me up with it I would so go and buy a copy of zelda and Metroid rent a soda machine and buy a pib of Code Red and spend a few days play in and if finish those I should get Pirates! And Final Fantasy 1.
     
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  16. phxbi_bear80

    phxbi_bear80 Abu el Banat

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    I used to be way too impulsive growing up, and even more so as a teenager. Thankfully certain experiences caused me to get wise, and learned how lucky I was it didn't go to bad places.
    After that, I turned into a very critical thinking, cautious, and planned person in every area of my life...especially finances, debt, and savings for the future.
    I do allow myself to have impulsive moments every now and then when there is some control.
     
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  17. Aqua Marine

    Aqua Marine Sugar & Spice

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    I'm very impulsive when it comes to things like outings. If I have an activity planned I'll spend every moment leading up to it trying to think of a way out. I'm very spur of the moment with family fun time.
     
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      That's the good and proper kind of impulsive :thumbsup:
       
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  18. bigbird

    bigbird Dirty English Gent

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    i'm too impulsive with my mouth - there are definitely times - and this happens more as i get a bit older - note - not old - but older - that I really do wish i'd engage the brain before the mouth gets me into trouble
     
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  19. LadyTanya

    LadyTanya Sexy Tease

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    I am not really impulsive. I like to think about things, know all pros and cons before deciding. I am used to always making decicions, and often fast choices. So I may seem really impulsive but most often my brain has allready been processing it.

    With random daily things I do enjoy being impulsive:)
    My biggest problem is still my lust for adventure. My mind keeps giving me ideas to move to new places, buy new businesses and do crazy things. Still the reality of my responsibility towards my family and societys expectations makes me live an ordinary life.
     
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      Personally i'm just bloody happy you get the impulse to get naked and post photos and gifs regularly !
       
      bigbird, Aug 18, 2021
    2. phxbi_bear80
      Amen to that!
      I can relate, my girls have kept me focused for many years!
       
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    3. sexysjhymers
      can't stop buy the cheap DVDs from your local Charity shop/cafe!
       
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