Choking is fun...you just really need know what to use how to use it and when every hole clinches down, there's your que she's going down, so try and time it with her orgasms if you do it right her legs will shake intense with excitement while she comes you cum. Win win everyone happy

 

If you fuck a woman properly you get that effect without needing to choke her

 

That was a theoretical example.

I just got blood-choked out tonight. When my legs started shaking, it wasn't excitement.

 

I think it's a balance you like or you don't, but I think you should say stop or no if it gets out of hand.

 

Well nobody likes a crybaby do they?!

You're fantastically scary sometimes V.

 

Might I add that whoever needs these safe words also stay mindful of non verbal clues as well, I remember a particular game when the wife was so overwhelmed by the sensations that she could hardly think straight and hadn't asked me to stop or break? I had been attune enough to ask between her heavy breathing and intense screams, we use RED to stop and GREEN which means she needs to be fucked now!

 

Same effect no jail time

 

I love it rough- make me feel the passion. Fast, furious, and HARD. Mmmmmmmmmmmmm


Personally, I can give and take quite a lot, and it is hard to get too rough when I am in the mood. I really like to feel physically challenged, and want to feel it in the morning. Sorry, but soft and gentle is just not my kink.

 

I've used non-verbal safe signals when I've been gagged or facing away from my partner in a noisy dungeon so they might not hear me. I'll hold a red scarf and a set of keys, and if I need things to stop, I drop them. The scarf is eye-catching and the keys are noisy!

 

Just other night I stopped and almost lost my erection after her more intense than usual moaning and almost screaming. Later she said unless she yells "You're hurting me!" or Stop" just keep fucking. She's experiencing the onset of menopause so we use lots of lube. Well it had gotten all over her and in one stroke it had slipped and went right into the back door. Luckily anal sex is not rare with us and I thought it had really hurt but in actuality she liked it.

 

It's also possible that it DID really hurt AND she liked it. Some of us are wired that way!

 

I'm still experimenting with that. I'm not sure about the answer to that yet.

 

Rough sex: I went to his house and surprised to find to others waiting for me rubbing their cocks. As soon as I enter they start with me and I'm with them the whole dark night.

 

Hmmm. Didn't think about that. You may be on to something

 

Talk about it sometime when you're alone, casual, relaxed - not right before or after sex, or when you're distracted.

It's a hard conversation to have, it took me months to work up to telling my husband I was a masochist, but if that's how she's wired...you can figure out what works and doesn't work, where her limits are, and then go for it.

 

Besides......it is fun to let the bad boy come out to play every once in a while!

thinskin

 

I like to force her down to her knees by yanking her hair down make her suck my dick until its so hard it gags her throw her onto the bed face down withmy belt around her neck iI pound her pussy while choking her and turning her ass cheeks red with slaps before I cum I force 3 fingers in her pussy with my dick and the thumb goes in her ass. With my cum leaking from her pussy she is expected to rub her clit no matter how sensitive it is while sucking me clean

 

The difference between you and me is that I actually do that.

 

I've done it on many occasions... that and more

 

Which is why you're always advertising for it online?