this may sound weird...
but i last too long.
like, i could jack off and get off in about 10 to 15 minutes.
but during sex,
i last atleast an hour and a half, if i even get off.
and nothing seems to help.
i stopped jacking off but the problem stays the same.
and i feel bad for my girlfriend.
it makes her feel like she's not satisfying me, but she rides my dick like a fucking pro.
so,
any suggestions?

 

God Damnit I'd trade you problems if that was possible. I wish I could help you but I honestly could not tell you. I know for me I just get way to excited plus I'm SUPER sensitive. Next time you jack off maybe see where it is most sensitive and see if next time you have sex you could maybe focus on that area of the penis more. :-/

 

i would trade you too honestly!
it sucks not being able to have my girlfriend make me cum :/
i've looked online for answers and stuff but it seems like no one else has this problem

 

do some plays: perhaps you like her as a little kid or as a nurse, perhaps as a dominatrix or a dirty slave. Do some roleplay with the adequate clothes both you and your little slutty girl wear.

 

well it's not like the sex isn't hot enough...
i mean she's fucking gorgeous so i don't understand why it takes me so long

 

If she isn't angry with you then don't make yourself any problems. Pressure is not a good advisor. Have sex and enjoy only the sex Don't think I had to cum now. This stops you cumming

 

Right, completely believable.

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What are you thinking about during sex? The right thought can make me cum forever and the wrong thought can make me not cum no matter how hard I try. Maybe you are putting too much pressure on yourself.

 

first off, unlike some people i totally believe you. i know that too some people this would be like complaining you have too big a dick, but i went to college with a guy whose 9 inches made his gf bleed every time, they had a miserable sex life and all the girls i was with loved my merely above average 7 and 1/2. there really is such a thing as too much of a good thing, and too much stamina sucks.

there can be a lot of reasons for this. it could be that your just jaded. or under stress. or you might masturbate too much, which can both make you less libidinous and also build up the thickness of skin on the most sensitive parts of your penis from repetitive motions, deadening sensation, something that happens to a lot of circumsised males. you could also have health problems that are taxing your heart (sex in any position is more cardio challenging than masturbating).

a couple of guesses, but if you masturbate frequently, stop. if you get out of breath easily see a doctor, exercise more, smoke less and eat better, etc. another thing that may or may not help, a friend of mine who was a cd hooker told me that he had a sort of little movie he could play in his head that would make him cum, basically on command for a customer(he had trouble getting off with a lot of his johns). if you have something that really gets you off when masturbating maybe you could try that?

 

Dude first off i have never heard of a girl telling a guy he took too long to cum. I don't know if she does it to you but head helps me cum faster.

 

I disagree dingalingking. Hope I spelt that right. :excited: Sometimes I just want a fuck deep fuck me quick fuck. Nothing worse than passing the time tapping your fingernails on the head board coz he's about 20 steps behind you. Am I selfish? Fuck yes!!

 

I disagree dingalingking. Hope I spelt that right. :excited: Sometimes I just want a fuck me deep fuck me quick fuck. Nothing worse than passing the time tapping your fingernails on the head board coz he's about 20 steps behind you. Am I selfish? Fuck yes!!

 

I'm having this same problem. I'm still inexperienced, but whenever I do have sex, I never seem to cum. In fact, sometimes I will go limp! Maybe it has to do with my small size?

 

I doubt it's your size. I've fucked some pretty small guys and they still touch the sides. And they still pumped me full. You might have to take that one to the doc mate.

 

I'm suspecting - assuming this is genuine, and delayed ejaculation is a medically recognised problem - that there are several reasons for it. Performance anxiety is one - you didn't orgasm with her the first time, and pretty soon, you can't relax enough to let go with her again - and certain kinds of stimulation is another. (For example some people can take huge amounts of stimulation without orgasming, because it's not the right kind to get you all the way there).

If you're able to orgasm by yourself, I'd think the problem isn't a medical one, although 10-15 minutes for doing that, isn't breaking any speed records either. I'd certainly suggest talking it over with a doctor though, they may suggest things I don't know about, or refer you to a sexual therapist.

One last thought. If you've masturbated a great deal, it could be that your body has got "attuned" to one technique of arousal, and only that will get you to orgasm. I'd show your GF how that technique gets you to orgasm, and let her experiment with it. I'd also suggest taking a break from masturbating for a couple of weeks. You could be desensitising your penis, and the lack of release might well help, when it comes to her spending time arousing you again!

Hopefully something there helps with your problem, and please, do keep me posted on how things go.

Bye for now - Fluffy McNoo.

 

reason why dis happens: u watch 2 much porno

 

Sometimes in sex with wonderwife I realize: "Wow, I don't think I'm going to cum!" What I do then is pick up the pace, go faster. More stimulation in the same amount of time and it works.

Also, try having your girl jack you off.

 

Hmm...
Very interesting.
Every once in a while, I have the same problem.
I could fuck for an hour or two, and still not cum.
I found that rhythm tends to help.
You should she's a pro-rider.
Good to hear, but I do know for me, being on top makes me cum faster about 50% of the time.
I'm not sure what your sex is like, but like the first suggestion, try playing a little more with various fetishes and find one that fucks you up, literally.
=D

And also, have sex like you're doing a push up, but with alot more energy.
It might help.
=P

 

i think it may actually be something called delayed ejaculation..
i looked it up haha and it seems about right.
cause i had a pretty long dry spell with no sex when i was dating this one girl,
so i guess my dick just got used to my hand as it's only source of pleasure.
i'm gonna try and fix that.

*sigh*....
just another problem that prude bitch left me with..

 

lol

ok well i know this might seem wierd but
stick your or her finger up your ass... that might help