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  1. broodoodude

    broodoodude Newcumer

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    hey, I'm really interested in experiencing something with another man. I am bicurious but won't know I like it til I try it, which I think I will. Craigslist seems sketchy to me and the one app I found Called bro wanted my FB info. I'm not trying to be outed before I know i am def bi. I'm not attracted to faces or really muscles but the idea of cock is pleasant to me. I just want to explore but I don't know how. I don't know any gay men and I have trouble trusting the internet. I'm open to the internet if I feel safe but idk. I'm just trying to be DL, I'm on the masc side
     
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  2. Biguywannatry696

    Biguywannatry696 Porn Surfer

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    Honestly, your best bet would be to travel to a big city where no one knows you and go for a night in the town.
     
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  3. Uncutcock156

    Uncutcock156 Amateur

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    Big city and find a bath house type place. You can pay, walk in and wander around. Usually plenty of guys in those places, its also a no pressure place where no means no. If you are comfortable then stick around and play, if you think its not your bag then walk out
     
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  4. broodoodude

    broodoodude Newcumer

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    How do I know which bath houses are gay ones and which ones are normal bath houses? Also I'm worried about sanitation in these environments. Have you been?
     
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  5. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos Milo Cronos & Lil' Donna OFFICIALLY

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    Don't go to bathhouses that would be like jumping in the deep end of a pool assuming you'd be able to swim! Most major cities have a gayborhood I'd assume within driving distance and as such have bars, coffee houses, etc; some very nice unassuming places where the pressure isn't so high (or the clientele.) Anyone your willing to have sex with you should get to know and most gay men will be open (if not for sex) to understand your curious as it's very common with straight men in their community, go slow and feel out your options as I'm sure you want your first time to be a good impression on you?
     
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  6. notdescriptive

    notdescriptive Porn Star

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    Many, many men have been in your position. Their individual solutions might depend more on the individual than the goal. For myself, first time was a seized opportunity, copping the phone number of another guy that was looking. Second time was a pick-up in a gay bar. Third time was through the local gay/bi/etc. support group. That was all before common internet usage.

    After the internet I went through craigslist. Messaged with one guy many, many times before meeting three times in public before our first meeting in private at a no tell motel. That was the beginning of a 4-year blowjob exchange, always at the same hourly motel.

    Through experience I have found that meeting someone with the same specific interests helps compatibility. Never wanted to fuck an ass or get fucked so have avoided guys that want that. No problem. I've also found great comfort in severely limiting personal information and images online. Just takes away the worry of unexpected revelations. Never know what someone's motives are. I'd stay away from anything, anyone, or any site that wants money or personal information access, like facebook. They do not have your interests as motivation, only their own.

    Good luck. Unsatisfied curiosity does not go away over time. I have satisfied my curiosity and found my need for man-2-man sex is not near as strong as the curiosity that started it.
     
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  7. naztypanty

    naztypanty Porn Star

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    I have used Craigslist and SilverDaddies. As with any shopping, take your time and you will find another guy in the same position who is safe.
     
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  8. notdescriptive

    notdescriptive Porn Star

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    Yeah, forgot about SilverDaddies. Try there. Seems like more honesty there and reality.
     
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  9. CFH3ll

    CFH3ll OMERTA'

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    NEWS FLASH::::: it's 2017 nobody gives a FUCK!!!
     
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  10. springsteen79

    springsteen79 Porn Star

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    You can find a male friend here who is willing to meet. It can certainly take awhile, but a bit of patience can pay off. Just had my first "suck buddy experience" with a guy I met here. It was a blast and will certainly happen again!
     
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      Ok, you are holding back! We want details!
      Good for you!
       
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      Don't mention my name! (Saving for my next flight);)
       
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  11. Hussie6776

    Hussie6776 Occasionally. So what..?

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    Sometimes I wonder if the little town I'm living in at the moment is the epicentre of all things carnal. Not for long though. This place may once of been known as retirement village but they're all dead now and it's just a typical town in the South of England... It's not a hot spot for shemales but there are human beings everywhere! Finding this forum is harder than finding a hook up site for your bi curious Cavalier King Charles Spaniel!

    One rule... The only 'fab' sites worth looking into are Free!
     
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  12. Romancemr321

    Romancemr321 Porn Star

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    mmmm some great advice :)
     
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  13. ghostxx54

    ghostxx54 Newcumer

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    wow))))
     
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  14. seafoam1

    seafoam1 Porn Star

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    CL, silverdaddies, Grindr will all work but it does take time and effort. There are flakes and time wasters online but they are also in the real world. If you have an ABS near you that is an option. I have never been to a bath house but agree that it may be to intense for your first time. If you really want to make it happen the you will find a way.
    Don't forget to play safe if you decide on anal.
     
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  15. mikeron

    mikeron Sex Machine

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    One of my friends has a wife who has never sucked a cock and refuses to even try. My wife is more than happy to suck his big cock!
     
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