so I liked to be called daddy in the bedroom, it may be weird to you but it's fucking hot to me. How do I communicate this to a girl though without coming off like a total creep? My last two exes eventually did it but without asking and the girls before that never knew, I just never knew how to approach the subject. Any advice?

 

well first you have to get to know the women first to see if they will find it strange, after that drop it into stuff when your havin sex not out right but a little here and there, if thayt don't work not sure what would

 

You put your finger under her chin and raise her face and ask, "Have you been you been a good girl?"

 

Some women like it too. And look specifically for a "daddy"

 

I know the feeling. Trying to slip into conversation that you like being tied up and spanked, among other things, is a very tricky thing.

 

You are right, it is weird to me. I don't think I would ever call a man I was having sex with "daddy".

 

Oh just tell them straight they will love it

 

I imagine once you get to know a lover a discussion of your favorite sex talk would cover it, I've never really liked the "daddy" thing but most women have been compliant to my basic wishes.

 

Good luck. I personally hate it!

 

Though many gals/guys enjoy that sort of thing due to my own issues it is an instant deal breaker. It is such a deal breaker that when I believed myself to be a butchy lesbian, a couple gals I dated that tried calling me "daddie/daddy" found everything instantly stopping and that was that, end of relationship. Now, I understand the whole dynamic in that it can be more about roles and responsibility (like in gay culture), yet the second any bit of it turns into an age-play/mindset sort of thing, that alone puts me off and will stop it cold...add daddy to that scenario, and I'm beyond done. Therein the biggest problem with it in my mind in that inevitably even in innocent situations that often gets insinuated.

Point being (and I don't want to know your reasons), a few/some folks will be very put off by it. So in that it is "your thing" if you value the relationship let them initiate it (though I suppose you could hint at it discreetly, though I'll not suggest how). If it is important to you, then just flat out tell them or simply start playing the role and let the chips fall where they may.

Hush....an alias

 

I have a step daughter divorced in her early 30's that just started calling me Daddy past few weeks these after being married to her mother for many many years. What is the deal with that ? Is she hinting something ?

 

^^don't read too much into that one...she may in the aftermath of a divorce be retrospective and miss having a male connection (non-sexual). I would more consider it a compliment that she respects you and views you as a father figure that she might otherwise be lacking.

Personally, I call my hubby Daddy....it started out with the kids of course and for recognition purposes I just called him Daddy too.....though they are grown I still call him that as a term of endearment. I never really viewed it as incestuous.....

 

Also, let me add 40M, that I have always thought your daddy lucky.

 

I like the idea of "Daddy" but only with certain men. When I was younger and my men were significantly older, it was hot. Now...not so much.

To the original poster, if a woman you're dating becomes a potential partner, I would assume that your conversation will eventually lead to likes, dislikes, preferences and kinks in particular. If she runs out of the room screaming, you'll have your answer.

 

In the southern US, it's very common for a woman to call her lover "Daddy". There are about a hundred blues songs about Daddys, good and bad.
When I was trying to find a publisher for my last book, a lot of editors wouldn't touch it because the main female character calls the main male character Daddy. Some people can't past the incest image, but it has nothing to do with. Some of them were quite rude about it.

A woman who wants a Daddy is not looking for her Daddy. She is looking for a strong and gentle man who makes her feel safe and protected, but can impose strict discipline when needed. Some men can handle this, and some can't.

 

I call my husband 'my big dick daddy' he loves it. But I call out his name during sex