Just a couple of days ago, I had a chat with my wife of almost two years and it turns out we both like incest, bestiality, and rape fantasies. We've shared some kinky and even dark and disturbing stuff before, but I guess fear of judgment kept us from sharing the really grimy shit at the bottom of the barrel so to speak up until now. We ended up having incest roleplay sex. I got to be daddy and she asked me to call her Angel. And since we are still trying for a pregnancy, the fucked up level of taboo was so high when Angel begged daddy to cum in her and give her a baby. I know most of the assholes who read this are gonna judge, but meh. Also, this really caught us both by surprise, but my wife has already read my stories here on xnxx and enjoyed them. Fucking score! It gave me a great deal of satisfaction to be able to tell her she inspired all my main characters, as well as being able to tell her who inspired some of the minor characters. I feel so liberated. So the question is, are you hiding some part of your sexuality from your partner(s), and if so, what and why?

 

Mine doesn't know me at all.... I made a suggestion and he laughed at me. Makes me not want to share anything else with him!!! I just keep thinking, "What an asshole..." He THINKS and says he knows me, but he doesn't at all!
I would love for him to play along with me like your wife does with you!!!

 

He probably knows me better than I know myself.
He's always pushing my limits but never exceeding them.
There are things that if you had asked me before we met, I would have said "I'd never do something like that!"
There are some things I've done with/for him that if they never happened again, I wouldn't miss them but there's nothing I can think of that I'd absolutely refuse to do again.

 

Mine does not know me very well at all, sadly. She has become less open sexually over the years, while my sexual cravings have expanded. If I would open up, I seriously believe she'd leave.

 

My partner knows SOME of my fantasy thoughts and is just fine with those. But I do have some darker secrets that she'd never understand or agree with.
I keep those to myself....I'd love to share them with her but it'd probably hurt our relationship.
Believe me, when I say 'darker'....It's not really that dark....but rather something I know she'd not go along with....
I thought I was kind of kinky until I joined this website and then I found that I was actually pretty normal compared to some folks out there....LOL...

 

I think being openly upfront with your partner can result in information overload with consequences!

Having said that I think it is incumbent upon all of us with partners to be both curious and accepting of our partner's fantasies!

Thinskin

 

I used to. I'm glad I'm not anymore.

 

I've shared many of my interests and having been with her for over 3 decades many of them I've tried to share (bisexuality, trannies) that do not pique her interest, but she's mature enough with and understands that it doesn't necessarily lead to pursuing them. At this point it's all about pushing her physical barriers and not really reinventing the wheel.

 

I have known my partner since we were toddlers, so she knows everything about me

 

We shared our "darkest" fantasies at one point. Hers was weak and mine wasn't my darkest so I could test her waters. She basically questioned who she was married to so I kept my mouth shut since.

 

My Husband and Kathy are the only two people on the planet that know "everything" about me (no doubt to their horror), and both know me well enough that they have been able to teach me about me...So, they truly do know me better than I know myself, and have made me the person I am today.

Hush....an alias

 

My husband and I never keep secrets and we tell each other every thing we want. How else can we ever get it.

 

This is a touchy subject. I had rather not even think about. But in a dream world communication is a very lovely thing.

 

Do you not have a open to each other type of relationship, if I can ask

 

I/we were always sexually open with each other....everything expect my desire to suck cock.

 

I keep a lot to myself. The few times I have communicated I was either shutdown, they rejected the thought and when I told one I had had a bi experience I got dumped. I keep most to myself except here.

 

He is my best friend and boyfriend now. We recently got back together yesterday. He knows everything about me. Told him about dark moments in my life and he has done the same. Both talk about our sexual fantasies, and some our fantasies came to a shock. He is best boyfriend I ever had so I am glad to have him. I learned communication is key, and in my past relationships I didn't have that and that is why it crumbled.

 

my gf and i were open when we first met. so she knows about of my kinks and i know hers to. i was less open when i was married. but now i know better.

 

My wife knows me well enough and knows as much as I want her to know. The thing is knowing what your partner likes and more importantly what they don't like and wouldn't like to know. I don't think it's wrong and I don't believe we have to share everything. Especially If you know sharing it is going to hurt and bother the person that you love. I don't look at it as being dishonest I look at it as being considerate thinking about the person you love. If it's in the past it should stay in the past they don't necessarily need to everything.