There are many differences in Man and Woman. But we can be stronger together. Loving each other; working together. Its never equal . But when is life fair and equal ? Sometimes you have to put far more effort in a relationship. But that goes both ways. I learned that in a BDSM relationship.
Its not a one sided thing. I give him something and he gives me something in return . And our respect for each other grew. Our trust in each other grew. BDSM is not right for everyone. And I would be the 1st to say that not all Master's or Dom's are alike.
The point I am trying to make is give and take with the one you love. When I want something; I want him to understand. And allow me that freedom. As I do for him. I hate tools and greasy car parts. I hate the smell of it all. But he hates the amount of time I put into shopping .
I like to look at things in a store . Its not that I want these items. I find it relaxing to do this. Our differences make us stronger. He can fix a car. I know nothing of them. I am a better organizer the he is. I keep up on daily things as bills or things fresh in the refrigerator. As a man he has his needs and as a women I have my needs. Clearly we each have our strengths. If he is giving or taking we are stronger together.

 

All but one of my relationships have been give and take. And that one relationship was the only one that I would say was truly bad. I don't expect, or desire equality in a relationship. As @westsister points out, we all have our strengths and weaknesses. I don't have a lot of what I would call "womanly" strengths. I'm more comfortable in a barn than I am in a kitchen. But I believe I have many "humanly" strengths. I try to be kind and helpful to everyone, even those I don't know and those that I'm not particularly fond of.

 

You are woman and I heard you roar.

 

You need to stop for a minute. Before you get too deep up in it. Cause everything ain't what it seems. It's hard lovin a woman, a woman like me!!

 

What was the question again?