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  1. Fun420sa

    Fun420sa Porn Surfer

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    I love my wife i jus feel like we are drifting apart the last five times we fucked i didnt even get to nut she did tho
    I feel i love her i dont want to lose her but the sex has been boring i jus dont know what to do
     
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  2. AyaLaRoux

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    Have you talked to her about this?
     
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  3. Fun420sa

    Fun420sa Porn Surfer

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    I have shes gets mad when i tell her i told her lets try diffrent stuff lets talk more n e thing n she says ok but its always the same she jus gets mad about it
     
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  4. AyaLaRoux

    AyaLaRoux Porn Star

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    Well, that might be because of the way HOW you talk about it. Try it without blaming anything or anyone, treat it as a problem for both of you (and not just yours), that you'd like to solve. Make sure she's included and doesn't feel ashamed or embarrassed. It's hard, but that's the diplomacy of relationships.
     
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  5. Fun420sa

    Fun420sa Porn Surfer

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    Ok im willing to try anything if it dont work ill message back
     
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      Just remember , she is your wife , you love her , treat her with the utmost delicacy and respect ,
      and don't make your problem her problem.
       
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  6. Fun420sa

    Fun420sa Porn Surfer

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    No i just wanna know is she unsatisfied with me
     
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  7. Heywood123

    Heywood123 Porn Star

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    Buy her something nice
     
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  8. ital35m

    ital35m Porno Junky

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    Are you having sex with anybody other than your wife?
     
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  9. VenusInFurze

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    Ask.
     
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  10. RCummings

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    'Fuck' 'Nut' ? What ?

    If that language describes your attitude to making love with your wife perhaps that is the problem.

    Sex isnt necessarily all about you ejaculating or even her having an orgasm and 5 times is hardly enough to deem that you are 'drifting apart'.

    Why you havent cum is a question you need to answer yourself because it is not something we can answer for you.

    Do you love her, do you guys still like each others company, is it just the sex which hasnt be working recently or are there other issues?

    Talk to her, perhaps you need some more stimulation before penetration or perhaps suggest she suck you after if she has cum and you arent there yet

    My guess is if you are drifting apart it has little or nothing to do with simultaneous orgasms
     
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  11. Milo Cronos

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    Poorly worded yes, but I get that you've come to a crossroads that you don't know how to fix as easily. Instead of talking it out maybe you should just take the lead and introduce small changes (angles, positions, intensities, etc) as there's a time to talk and a time to take action. As someone who has never been for a lack of ideas, I noticed with my wife that asking rather than introducing variations and building on them caused more problems. In hindsight it sounded more like I was implying what was wrong as she was enjoying what I was doing and for her how could that be wrong, making it much better to just give her a little more just in a different way rather then talk about it.
     
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  12. Milo Cronos

    Milo Cronos The Sexual Intellectual

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    Might I add @Fun420sa that your emphasis on what goes on outside the bedroom is crucial in that you make her feel attended to in her beauty and allure which can make a well of difference in the bedroom!
     
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