But, I am afaid he will not be gentle enuf, slow enuf. I've had pretty big things in my ass and pretty deep, but afraid that's not the same as a hard, big dick. I think that something warm and kinda flexible will be better, tho.
I wonder how cleaned out I need to be, and what if I'm not.
Will my asshole drip cum after words? and how long?
Will my asshole ache for a long time?
Is it gonna gape more,? specially if repeated fucking?

really....I can't help thinking about this

 

I wish I could answer your questions but I am a virgin also, no cocks in my virgin ass yet......someday hopefully!

 

At least as far up as a cock will go. Use an enema. If not, it's just gonna be gross. And smelly.

You're not going to drip. The sphincter muscle is strong. You don't leak shit, do you?

Probably.

Immediately afterwards it might, but not for long. I've been having anal sex for decades and I don't have any problems.

 

You've shoved pretty big things deep in your ass and you really want me to believe you're afraid that a prick will hurt? Were those big things that you shoved deep into your ass warm and flexible? You're actually concerned if you'll drip cum after he dumps off in your ass, how about being more concerned about Aids and HIV? Will your ass ache, how did it feel after you shoved those big things deep in your ass? Will it cause your asshole to gape, think of the benefits, you'll never be constipated you won't even know you're taking a shit , the only problem, you'll sound like a fog horn every time you fart. About wondering how clean your asshole needs to be I wouldn't worry, he's fucking you with his prick not his nose, and if it's shit getting on his prick that you're worried about, then he should think twice about fucking your ass, he gets what he gets. If you or anyone else thinks I was a little bit harsh, rough, cruel, insensitive, or an asshole, it's just how I feel and look at this bullshit. If you feel like giving a grown man advice and help go right ahead, that's your right and don't fuck with me because I also have a right!

 

thanks, I appreciate it. thanks every one. I was serious. thought I knew the answers. jus checking. I knew I ]d git some weird answers.

 

First thing you need to do is find a partner who you can trust to be as slow and gentle as you need. For your first time with a guy, you probably want to be as clean as possible, like squeaky-clean. After the two of you are comfortable with one another then you will know what is expected, a couple little skid marks may not matter or it may freak him out completely. Once your sphincter gets back to normal (which for me doesn't take long at all but it probably depends on his size, duration, etc) you shouldn't leak. My ass sometimes aches for a day or so. I don't gape but again, it probably depends on size, duration, etc.

 

"I wanna be fucked....first time"

Then the next time you get an e-mail from the widow of the Nigerian Finance Minister (who died in a plane crash) go ahead and give her all of your personal information, including your bank account & routing numbers.

 

Consider safe sex. Make him rim you before fucking you. Submit like a sissy boy should. You'll be leaking cum in no time. Please don't be inhibited, make sure you try many different positions. Enjoy!

 

So , when a guy is fucked regularly, does it become easier and more comfortable each time? Don't have to be slow and easy.