1. Veronikakay

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    My name is Veronika. I notice a lot of guys post rape stories up here.
    So, I will post a true story of when I got raped.
    I got raped when I was 19 years old. I lived by myself in Chicago. I lived in a poor neighborhood.
    I went to sleep one night. I woke up at 2 in the morning to see a man standing over my bed. He jammed his gun in my mouth and said "Be quiet bitch, or I will kill you!"
    So obviously, I was going to listen to him, I didn't have a choice.
    When he spread my legs and started fucking me, I was very afraid.
    Now, guys always write rape stories where they think it turns fun for the woman eventually. No, the reason I orgasmed during the rape came from the fact that the guy was fucking me so hard and fast, and for so long, and that was my body's reaction to getting fucked. It didn't mean that I liked the guy, and it didn't mean I wasn't afraid.
    I did what the guy told me to, because I was afraid of him.
    I don't think guys can understand that.
     
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      I think that kept you alive!
       
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      Thank you for your account. I agree that you are likely alive because of the way you responded. I can't imagine a man wanting to attack a woman for sex.

      I can't imagine a woman coming out of the experience unchanged!
       
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  2. slutwolf

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    I think , in the real world ,
    most of us men do understand.
    The majority may never have a clue what its like ,
    but we do understand.

    Just ask blokes what they'd do to anyone who raped their sister , wife , or mother . (in the real world)
     
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      And perhaps even ask those same blokes what their own biggest fear are I for one would prefer a penitentiary, battle field or oncology clinic. My condolences to the OP...
       
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  3. Veronikakay

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    Thanx for comment. U make sense
     
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  4. Distant Lover

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    I hope you reported this to the police.

    Rape is a crime that angers and horrifies me. I would be physically incapable of raping anyone. I would not get aroused in a situation like that.
     
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  5. saman1837

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    I'm sorry for that horrible experience, I know how fragile women are especially their feelings, I know some men are monsters, but we shouldn't forget shrewish and mean women.
     
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  6. Distant Lover

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    By no means are "shrewish and mean women" morally comparable to rapists.
     
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  7. Distant Lover

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    There is a liberal cliche, "Rape is not about sex. It is about power."

    This is as silly as the liberal cliche, "Race is only a social construct."

    Men rape because it gives them sexual pleasure. It gives them sexual pleasure because during human evolution rape has often been an effective reproductive strategy.

    This does not mean that most men would rape if they had the opportunity. I would be emotionally and physically incapable of such a crime.

    Nevertheless, because for some men the temptation to rape is strong, the punishment must be very severe.
     
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  8. Distant Lover

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    When I have been the victim of a violent crime people ask, "Was he black?" Once a black man asked me that.

    What do you think my answer was?
     
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      I would say castration should be mandatory for rape or even attempted rape
       
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  9. OBEYxBBC

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    That's awful. Thanks for sharing your story may good things come your way :)
     
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    That's awful.We understand
     
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  11. xauthorjohn

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    I am sorry to hear that this happened to you, but at the same time, I would also like to suggest that your thoughts on this topic may not be all inclusive.

    I can't pretend to understand why, but as a full time author of erotic stories, I have received many requests to write rape stories. None by men. Every time I get this request it has been from a woman. I also edit for other authors as a hobby. Sometimes, I get erotic stories for editing. Quite often, when these stories are written by women, the erotic stories are rape stories. As another reply in this thread suggested, in our human history, there was a time when raping a woman was a practical strategy and our human psyche, our instincts, are built with this potential strategy. Both for men, and for women. No, I wouldn't necessarily suggest that women enjoy being raped, but I would suggest (and this is the part I can't quite comprehend), that many women do have rape fantasies. Each, most likely with their own reasoning.

    I've tried to write rape stories to meet those requests before. It isn't easy, because, as it turns out, when I've tried, I've been unable to figure out how to write rape stories that 'romantacize' the raping of a woman and when I've given these stories to the women who requested them, they weren't well received. Why? Because I wrote the story as an actual rape story. The girl in question was raped by a man she would never have sex with purposely, she didn't enjoy it and being raped didn't lead to her happiness. Kind of like the way it happens in real life. When I asked the women who requested the story why they didn't like it, they informed me that they wanted the girl to be raped by a sexier man and they wanted her to end up enjoying the rape.

    I scratched my head and pondered this for a while. If she wanted to have sex with the guy, wouldn't it be consensual sex?

    I think, on both sides of the aisle (including myself), there are some misunderstandings.
     
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  12. Distant Lover

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    My rape fantasy is of preventing a woman from being raped by killing the perp who tried to rape her.
     
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  13. xauthorjohn

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    And IRL, I'd help you if you asked me to.

    But I won't judge a woman for having a fantasy of wanting to be raped. It's her mind and her body. If she wants to indulge in that kind of thing, who am I to judge?
     
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  14. Adiggle20

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    Why would a woman want to fantasy. Being rape
     
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  15. speakeasy

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    The following is my reply to a thread on the "Sexuality" forum.
    The topic was rape fantasy (which explains the 1st paragraph of my reply)

    Being held down/tied down and being wrestled out of your clothes and having sex, knowing all the time that there is a safe word to end it all, isn't "rape fantasy".
    Not judging that behavior, we do it all the time but it certainly isn't "rape"

    1: Get repeatedly punched in the face until you stop resisting just so he'll stop, dragged into an alley and have him rip your clothes off while slapping you or punching you every time you try to prevent it.
    Have a knife held to your throat or a gun to your head as he forces himself into you. Pray that it's over soon even knowing that he's likely to kill you when it's over.
    When he is finished, if he doesn't kill you, he punches you in the head a few more times just to ensure he has time to flee before you try to call for help.

    2: The last thing you remember was enjoying a night out with your friends and you started to feel a little light headed so you stepped outside the bar to get some air and clear your head.
    You wake up and there's the guy you remember seeing at the bar, on top of you with your shirt and bra pushed up under your chin and your pants hanging off of one ankle.
    You're aware of what's happening but you can't seem to get your body to put up a fight because whatever he slipped into your drink is preventing you body from responding.
    So there you are, having sex against your will and you start to wonder what YOU did to bring this on.
    Just for kicks he takes pictures.

    Not all "rape" includes violence or the threat of it.
    I'd even go so far to say that being blackmailed into sex is a form a rape. Sure, you could refuse but what if non-consent would cost you your job, marriage, scholarship, standing in the community?
    In that case, the victim can be even more traumatized because she "went along with it".
     
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  16. Adiggle20

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    I dont judge just support u
     
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  17. BBBBCLOVER

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    I've known a lot of women & I've talked to them about situation such as rape fantasy & real rape, Which I've got alot of the same response from most of the women & they said, that thinking about being raped is a turn but they think as the guy as if its somebody they would be attracted too.. Not all women said this tho, a few said that it turns them on to think as the rapist as some they are not attracted too.. But when it actually comes down to it, most of all the women really dont want to be raped & yet there is a few that said they really want to be raped..,Bad Too. Its the feeling of having no control, no say & having to do whatever some strange man was telling them to do or just doing to them, that they said turned them on so much.. But some of them had really been raped & what some of them said about it blew me away, they actually felt something for the rapist, like felt bad for him & just let him rape her without a fight, then didn't even tell anyone about for some time, yet most of them were traumatized by it & some hate all men because of it... But to go down that road is a very dangerous one tho, because what someone thinks is a turn on when they are thinking about & they are in control of their thoughts, is totally different when its not in their head anymore & its really happening, because most rapist are not hot sexy guys that just want to make women feel like they have no control, they are sick twisted people that are not there to get off anyone but themselves & usually are really ugly, which means they probaily dont get any sex so thats why they might want to rape someone in the first place..
     
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  18. the_loner420

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    Yea, I think that most guys really do get, academically, what it is to endure the pain, humiliation and embarrassment of being raped. Some of us even know people personally who can express their experiences. People who have good solid heads on their shoulders can relate these kinds of concepts with otheta they surround themselves with. Of course, there are those that Do engage in that kind of behavior, but in my opinion, by whatever variation it is, these issues are directly related to mental issues. By victimization, genetic defect or deformity, those kinds of people operate the way they do because their minds are not functioning the way they are designed to operate. People who are not in this category tend to have at least a functioning sense of self-preservation, which is in fact key, and a basically stable moral compass. I'll say nothing of the fetish side of it, because I'm just as guilty as anyone else, and I don't feel I'm doing anything wrong. I'm sitting here by myself. But anyway Slutwolf, I agree. I'm windy.
     
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  19. luvOrhatefckIt

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    Sorry you was raped but why title u was raped by a black man?? They are not the only race that rapes..
     
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  20. Veronikakay

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    What I wrote is a true story
     
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